"What's the end game?"

Hopeful writes: "Just wondered regarding the subs where do you think you are looking to go with them ultimately? Also, regarding oral worship, has any guy turned bi as a result of listening exposure to the IOS files? I know you said in one post that one wife wanted to do prostate massage to one guy who was playing files relating to anal."

The ultimate goal of these files is a happy, healthy relationship for a married couple. Many men stray, I believe, because they want something more out of their sex lives -- and they don't know how to get that from their wives, because who the hell actually talks to their wives about that? They want "strange" (a friend's name for sex with strangers), or just something outside of the ordinary. I feel like my subs can make a real difference, because if your wife starts doing all the things you thought you'd ever want in bed, you're going to naturally reciprocate. OMG... I've got a woman who cooks, cleans, takes care of the kids, AND gives me amazing sex almost every night? You better believe I'm going to do everything I can to meet her needs to the fullest.

As far as turning bi from listening to the cock worship file? You've seen how I've crafted the files... I've been listening non stop to my Oral, Masturbation, Sex Toys and other various files (anal!) for years at this point, and I can assure you I have no craving for cock lol. The files are created with a woman specifically talking about her husband. "I love my husband's cock," etc. I make sure to never refer to random cocks, because this is about focusing the woman on her husband. The husband is going to hear these voices too, but when it decyphers "woman's voice, desiring husband's cock," it's going to associate it immediately as, "Ah, must be part of the sub I bought her." For her, she hears a woman's voice saying she wants her husband's cock, she's not going to have anything to associate it with, and will automatically assume it's her own voice, and her own thoughts.

Another reason why I specifically state it as "my husband" and not just 'cocks' or "my significant other's cock" or whatever: my kids come in the room sometimes. If my daughter hears these files, and is changed by them in any way, it will be in an increased desire to service her husband,whoever that ends up being some day, and not just any punk in the back seat of a car on Prom night.

My parents are in town this week, so not much action as far as crafting new files, and it's a little awkward: "Yeah, I've, uh, been doing really well with a new internet venture."

"Oh, what's that, son?"

"Um, well, you know... I sell... things on the internet."

"Huh. Ok."

:-|

SWT

Identifying What Works and What Doesn't

Friday night she attacked me with the Fleshlight. If I haven't mentioned how amazing it is to have a woman sex up your cock with one of these, consider this me doing it now. Basically, it's like her giving you a fantastic fucking -- but with a well-lubed vagina she holds in her hand. She's still a little bent about finding out last week, but she can't resist the Cock Worship training she's had already. She just needed to make me cum, and we both know that this is the best toy we've found for doing it.

I'd call that a great start to the weekend, but it only got better. I've been playing the special mix I made to salvage the situation after "The Great Discovery" and so she couldn't help but wake me up early Saturday, stroking my cock to hardness and asking me to slide it up against her pussy. She was already sopping wet. "I am so fucking horny for you this morning," she growled. I teased her until she started groaning, and then slid into her, surprising both of us with how good she found it.

"God yes, this this this!" She hasn't accepted the "please" commands in the training file yet, so no abject begging, but I asked her if this was what she needed, and she moaned a yes. "Yes, I need your cock so bad! Oh my God, I need this!" She came so hard, so quickly... I wasn't even close to ready.

Which was just fine by me. I watched her beautiful body recover in its afterglow, knowing that by the time evening rolled around... she'd be ready to reciprocate. :D

More emails this week from prospective clients and beginning-to-be satisfied customers. "She's become a lot more 'touchy-feely'" came from Spike, and AGoodStart writes "she sent me a text saying she had been thinking about 'snuggling' tonight... That's our word for doing it!"

So how can you identify if a subliminal works or not? The simple matter is, with enough time, every subliminal will have an effect on her. She's going to respond more quickly if she's exposed to the file more -- I always recommend playing it every night where it's within earshot for her. She's going to respond more quickly if she is not already committed to being *against* it.

For instance: I discovered that the watching porn file was not working with her because she had made a conscious commitment to not watch porn. In her mind, when the voices in her head started insisting she watch porn, she assumed it was some weakness in her trying to break her resolve to stay away from it, and redoubled her efforts. All the files were doing at this point were causing anxiety in her, which was not the desired result at all!

If your wife has a religious objection to anal sex, for instance, it's going to take a while to change her mind about it. She's spent a lifetime building up "buttsex is bad" -- that won't change with a week's worth of subliminal training. The question you want to ask yourself is "Do I want to force this change, or are there other actions I can get traction on instead?" For me, I'm doubling down on the porn watching, because I think once I addict her to watching porn, she'll start becoming a lot more open to other activities, for virtue of watching and masturbating to it all the time. You just need to learn to read the signs: is she slowly moving toward or away from the goal you have in mind. If it seems like "away" then that's your sign that this will be a harder, more uphill journey than first expected. 

As always, let me know how your wife's training is going. I love hearing about your success (and frustration) stories! You can email me @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com. I answer every email, usually. :p

SWT

When the Shoe Drops

It all started on Saturday.

"Can I borrow your phone?" she asked, as we were driving home from wherever. I handed it to her and she was browsing around and opened up the Safari browser...

Where I still had my SWT gmail open.

"What's this?" She asked, somewhat amused. As I explained, she grew very upset. "You've been using me for experiments?! You're selling these files?!" That night was a sexless one, as you might expect.

The next evening, we had a long discussion. She had to agree that the files worked, evidenced by the weight loss and exercise success, but she also pointed out that since she hadn't been watching porn or masturbating, that the sexual affirmations weren't going to work on someone who was opposed to doing those things. She said I could not experiment on her any more, and then she proved to me that all her training has been 100% successful so far. She also explained that she had made a conscious decision to stop watching porn about a year ago, because she thought it would help our relationship.

Ah ha!

She asked for a new file, that didn't have any experiments in it. That's fine. I am no longer experimenting with her. I know exactly how to shape her mind. Then she started sucking my cock, as though to prove it was always her idea, and that she was always the best cock-sucker I'd ever known. It was an amazing orgasm, and she milked me dry.

I made her a new file, based on the weight loss file she knows and likes. I modified the format slightly, and added a set of affirmations that go like this:

Yes. These subliminals work. They always work.
Yes. I am always horny.
Yes. It is ok to watch porn with my husband. Watching porn is good for our relationship.
Yes. Please fuck my throat. Please come in my mouth.
Yes. I am a horny come slut.
Yes. I have always enjoyed my subliminal training.
Yes. I release all anxiety.
Yes. I always watch porn with my husband.
Yes. I accept my husband's subliminals.
Yes. I accept my love of porn.
Yes. I wear red nail polish.
Yes. I am my husband's dirty, horny come-slut.
Yes. I am so wet and horny right now.
Yes. Wearing red nail polish is sexy.
Yes.I always beg for my husband's cock.
Yes. I will make my husband watch porn tonight.
Yes. I have always worn red nail polish.
Yes. Please fuck my throat. Please.
Yes. I will swallow my husband's come.
Yes. I am my husband's dirty, horny come-slut.

A thirty-minute file of nothing but this and more lines like it.

This week has been interesting... We have my parents coming to visit next weekend, and the wife is massively stressed out cleaning the house. She gave me a great hand job on Tuesday, but Wednesday and yesterday were sexual blanks. Last night, though, she started talking to me about how well my scripts work, and the kinds of new files we could make for the site! WOW. She went from massively upset about it, to wanting to be IN ON IT!

This morning, though, she expressed a desire to spend "snuggle time" with me tonight, and when I glanced at her phone?

She started watching porn this week.

Victory!


At Subliminal Wife Training, we think the best policy is always to share with your wife your desires to improve your sexual relationship, but we also understand that sometimes you need a little "stealth" support. Use our files wisely and safely, and if the wife finds out: be open and honest with her. You could have spent money at Ashley Madison or a whore on Backpages, but instead, you bought something that you thought would help improve your intimacy.

If she loves you like you love her, it will all work out.



New items in the store: Advanced Cock Worship finally went live. Masturbation Mastery is coming, as well as a new product line: Intro to Sex Toys! In addition, I'm making a version of the Power Conversion script I've been running on the wife this week that I'll make available. It's sole purpose will be stress and anxiety relief with subliminal acceptance... Play this one for a few weeks, and she'll start wanting more. Then you hit her with the good stuff!

Link for the Advanced Cock Worship files:  http://t.co/RB6HxiRsHg

SWT

Wife Testing Update

As I mentioned yesterday, she's been having some "downstairs" medical problems, so the sexual activity has fallen off, but her nightly routine in the last few days has been Intro to Cock Worship, Intro and Advanced Masturbation, and Intro to Watching Porn. I haven't seen any increase in porn, but she gave me a handjob last night that was just fantastic.

No blog updates this weekend, but adding new files to the site. We're going to add Advanced Cock Worship to the CW line... give your wife the desire to make stroking, and admiring your cock a regular habit! Also, adding files to the Anal Sex line as well, and a new Lifestyle file: Lips and Nails. If your wife doesn't wear makeup, you'll want to consider getting this one. She's going to start looking good as she plays with the idea of wearing lipstick and nail polish to bed, and starts thinking about sex every time she applies it to her fingers and lips.

Have a great weekend everyone! Don't forget there's a 25% off everything coupon available for readers of the blog: 100Customers25 -- My thanks to all of you for supporting our endeavors to create better wives!

First Review of the Oral Sex Series (that isn't by me!)

I got the first official review of the oral sex series from customer "the dude" (I will always use fake names/emails/etc. when referring to anyone on this site or the store. Your anonymity is 100% respected.) who writes:

I bought the 2 newest oral files on July 8th, and although I still had to initiate the "fun", she said "we can either have a quickie or I can suck your dick in the shower!" That alone was results for me! So we continued fooling around in bed a bit and she started dripping, saying "that's just from thinking about your dick in my mouth". I'm not sure which of the 2 files it was, but definitely would recommend the all 3 combo.

That's fantastic! My wife sent me a text today saying she was think about me, and how she's been daydreaming about my cock more and more. That, plus a suggestion sent to me from the dude gave me an idea for a new product line: the Cock Worship series. 

Intro to Cock Worship will be affirmations dedicated solely to your wife's thought processes. She's going to notice that everything is phallic in nature, and when she notices that, she's going to realize that it's because she's been thinking about your cock. Suggestions to dream about your cock every night, and daydream about it during the day are mixed with suggestions that she wants to hold your cock, feel how it gets hard in your hand, and a desire to see and hold your cock RIGHT NOW.

Advanced Cock Worship takes it one step farther. This is a file that plays on your wife's growing obsession with your cock and directs her to take matters into her own hand, so to speak. Whenever she sees your cock, she's going to want to stroke it to make it hard. Whenever she sees it hard, she's going to want to make it come. She's going to want to go buy lube to give you a great handjob -- even if she's never done that before. She'll want to give you great wet handjobs all the time.

Cock Worship Mastery is the final step in her transformation.Everything she sees that is even vaguely phallic in nature is going to make her think about your cock. Every time she holds anything remotely cylindrical, she's going to imagine it's your cock. The simple act of putting cock-shaped objects in her mouth will make her fantasize about sliding your cock in and out of her hungry-for-cock mouth. Total obsession with your cock, and how happy it makes her, and how desperate she is to hold it, all the time. She will feel euphoric with your hard cock in her hand or mouth or pussy or ass. She will feel bereft without it. Addiction and obsession with having and holding your cock and wanting it on her or in her forever.

What do you think? First three people to email me @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com get a free copy of the Intro to Cock Worship file. It's going live on the store tonight!

(The dude? You get a copy free automatically, my thanks for the idea!)