Identifying What Works and What Doesn't

Friday night she attacked me with the Fleshlight. If I haven't mentioned how amazing it is to have a woman sex up your cock with one of these, consider this me doing it now. Basically, it's like her giving you a fantastic fucking -- but with a well-lubed vagina she holds in her hand. She's still a little bent about finding out last week, but she can't resist the Cock Worship training she's had already. She just needed to make me cum, and we both know that this is the best toy we've found for doing it.

I'd call that a great start to the weekend, but it only got better. I've been playing the special mix I made to salvage the situation after "The Great Discovery" and so she couldn't help but wake me up early Saturday, stroking my cock to hardness and asking me to slide it up against her pussy. She was already sopping wet. "I am so fucking horny for you this morning," she growled. I teased her until she started groaning, and then slid into her, surprising both of us with how good she found it.

"God yes, this this this!" She hasn't accepted the "please" commands in the training file yet, so no abject begging, but I asked her if this was what she needed, and she moaned a yes. "Yes, I need your cock so bad! Oh my God, I need this!" She came so hard, so quickly... I wasn't even close to ready.

Which was just fine by me. I watched her beautiful body recover in its afterglow, knowing that by the time evening rolled around... she'd be ready to reciprocate. :D

More emails this week from prospective clients and beginning-to-be satisfied customers. "She's become a lot more 'touchy-feely'" came from Spike, and AGoodStart writes "she sent me a text saying she had been thinking about 'snuggling' tonight... That's our word for doing it!"

So how can you identify if a subliminal works or not? The simple matter is, with enough time, every subliminal will have an effect on her. She's going to respond more quickly if she's exposed to the file more -- I always recommend playing it every night where it's within earshot for her. She's going to respond more quickly if she is not already committed to being *against* it.

For instance: I discovered that the watching porn file was not working with her because she had made a conscious commitment to not watch porn. In her mind, when the voices in her head started insisting she watch porn, she assumed it was some weakness in her trying to break her resolve to stay away from it, and redoubled her efforts. All the files were doing at this point were causing anxiety in her, which was not the desired result at all!

If your wife has a religious objection to anal sex, for instance, it's going to take a while to change her mind about it. She's spent a lifetime building up "buttsex is bad" -- that won't change with a week's worth of subliminal training. The question you want to ask yourself is "Do I want to force this change, or are there other actions I can get traction on instead?" For me, I'm doubling down on the porn watching, because I think once I addict her to watching porn, she'll start becoming a lot more open to other activities, for virtue of watching and masturbating to it all the time. You just need to learn to read the signs: is she slowly moving toward or away from the goal you have in mind. If it seems like "away" then that's your sign that this will be a harder, more uphill journey than first expected. 

As always, let me know how your wife's training is going. I love hearing about your success (and frustration) stories! You can email me @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com. I answer every email, usually. :p

SWT

Subliminal Training: More Exposure = More Success

When my wife and I were dating, she mentioned how much she hated wearing makeup. It was too much work for too little reward, the nail polish would chip, lipstick and foundation needed to be removed and reapplied every day, all the frustration and headache, and it costs money! I nodded in agreement, because I was trying to get laid, and what am I going to do, say "Well, you, I would rather fuck women who look like painted whores?"

No, of course not. So I just nodded and got married, and dreamed of those amazing handjobs where the woman has blood red nails tracing their way up and down my cock, or cherry red lipstick making a perfect "O" as my head slides so exquisitely into her mouth. When I started experimenting with subliminals on her last year, I included some makeup affirmations, but in comparison to the other acts she was being trained on, he hardly ever heard them, and as a result, never acted on them.

She started wearing nail polish on a regular basis nine months after I started training her subliminally, with glossy clear coats, or light colors with glittery sparkles. Nothing sexy or exciting. "You like these?" She asked me once, and I said yes, of course, because I'm a good husband, but I added, "But you know you'd look super sexy in candy red!"

"That's disgusting," she said. "You want me to look like a porn star?"

"Duh!" I teased... not really teasing. Who *doesn't* want their wife to look like a porn star??

I started playing the Intro to Cock Worship file on her a few weeks ago to train her, and after a few days, she was regularly giving me hand jobs again, really good ones. She turned the Fleshlight on me, bought a floral scented Hawaiian Hibiscus Massage Oil or some such for cock massages, and one night, came up to me with bright red nails.

"You like?" She asked, flickering them at me in between strokes.

"Oh, you know I do," I groaned. She gives fantastic hand jobs.

"I did that just for you," she smiled.

Inside, I smiled too.




Moral of the story is, of course, don't give up. The attitudes and behaviors your wife has ingrained in her too years -- decades! -- to develop, and they probably won't change significantly with 3 weeks of training. That's when most men begin to see a difference, but you can't give up. The more exposure she has to the mental bombardment of subliminal sexual training she gets, the more she's going to absorb it and make it a part of her. If you can only get her to hear the file for a few hours a day, it's going to take longer.

The important part is to just keep trying. We're releasing "silent" versions of the subliminals, who work for some men who report their wives won't listen to anything at night. I don't like silents, I prefer the ocean waves, but for a lot of men, this is an important first step.

Good luck, and never give up!

SWT

Program: Porn Watching Addiction, day 7

What a great day!

So today, she didn't watch any porn. From what I can tell on her browser, she didn't have time to. She was only on the internet for about an hour in total. That's ok. Because the one link she did send to me in the afternoon was Jamie Lee Curtis stripping for Arnold in True Lies. As far as I'm concerned, that's pretty damn close to her sharing some "safe for work" porn with me!

Anyway, so we are officially 1 week into her three week training schedule with watching porn. This training regimen has three factors: watch porn like an addict (multiple times a day, multiple days a week), initiate and watch porn with me, and start porn addiction with being a horny slut. Yesterday she browsed for and watched a porn video. Today she sent me a link to a very sexy video. I'd call that good progress for the first week.

After I got home from work, she was all over me. The kids were out playing, so she pulled my trousers down and went to town on my cock, sucking it to hardness -- and we were interrupted by the kids coming in. Gah!!!

We waited until they went to bed (apparently I'm not allowed to just chain them to the garage) , and she showed me a surprise: she'd painted her nails Fuck-Me-Red and bought a new massage oil. My cock sprang to life again, and she poured the oil on my cock and gave me a fantastic oily hand-job, talking dirty and teasing me into an orgasm that I think lasted like... I don't know. There were three huge spurts, and then about 6-7 after-spurts. It was a lot of cum. She milked the fuck out of me.

This is the sex life I have always dreamed about. I am so glad I finally found a formula that seems to work with these subliminals.