Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Three

Today was a bit of a wash. We woke up late, no thanks to this stupid iPhone. God damn I hate the iPhone. Gah! Anyway, she later confided she'd woken up horny and was as disappointed as I was that we didn't have any time. Got the kids to school, got me to work, and when I got home, I found out how true her statement had been. Fresh browser history... and she'd been watching porn!

I have not yet seen full manifestation of the mystery subliminal's affirmations yet, though. Increased horniness and some porn tendencies are built into all of the new files. I need to see some specific behavioral changes before I can say it's working for sure.

This weekend I want to get some more files online. We've got the other files in the Mystery pile ready to go, just need the recording time. Look for Intro to Bondage, Intro to Hypnosis, and Touch, coming soon!

Had a great testimonial this afternoon from one customer:

I catch her sometimes masturbating at night when she's sleeping. She'll wake up and accuse me when it was her all the time. I then assure her that I'm okay with it. I put the sweet dream (Dreamslut) last night. She dreamt that I made her cum with a dildo. Mostly the desire to exercise, create wealth, and lose weight have been dominant. -- GF

How has your progress been coming?

Thinking about a change

You'll notice if you go to the store, that a number of our new files use the Wealth Creation affirmation. I know this affirmation works: I used it on myself and it led me to create the store! Well, I've been thinking. There may be a change coming, and I'm wondering what you guys think about it.

SubliminalWifeTraining.com has been far more successful than I could have hoped. Thank you! But I'm quite honestly only hitting half of the married market, and even then, I can't really advertise... Google hates adult sites. But oh... only if there's exposed skin or sexual situations.

I'm thinking about changing the site to make it more Google friendly. First, we'll start adding some "generic" non-sexual files. We'll change the images for each product to something sexy, but not explicit. And we'll start offering some regular discounts: product bundles, etc.

The guys who buy here are passionate about wanting to improve their sex lives with their wives. I have to believe -- especially after reading about how many guys were duped by Ashley Madison -- that there are thousands, maybe millions, of men who might benefit from our products who don't even know that they can subliminally program their spouses.


So, look for the site to change its look soon. But don't worry: there's more files coming all the time. We just finished recording Advanced Watching Porn last night. Look for those files to be released tonight. And keep emailing me your successes, frustrations, and problems @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com.

Finally... Is there any interest in doing a custom file? If so, what's a fair price for that? Customs end up being just one-shot recordings, I think, so I don't know if it's worth setting everything up for that. Drop me a line and let me know what you think.


Happy training!

SWT

New Products, Fresh Successes

It was the best weekend ever.

I got confirmation that her Intro to Porn and Advanced Masturbation training was finally starting to take hold in the second-most wonderful way possible:

When I made it home, she did not disappoint. In fact, she exceeded expectations on every level! We were in bed, and she was hovering over my cock smiling wickedly. "So..." she practically purred. "Should I perform advanced cock worship on you?"

OMG. Turns out, now that she knows what I do, she's been reading the blog and visiting the store! I said, "Of course!" And that was a great night. My wife is a wonderful lover, and now that we're in sync, physically, playtime has been everything I'd ever hoped for in a relationship.

That's why the rest of the weekend's news is even better, as far as I'm concerned.

First, I got another letter from TheDude, who wrote 

"A week after playing the new 'horny now with inner calm' alongside the worships, we have had sex, where she was incredibly wet, 2 nights in a row, which has not happened in quite some time. Follow up : and a crazy deepthroat bj last night. So 3 nights of fun in a row!"

That was followed up with EK's letter, with similar results:

I am surprised at how quickly my wife is responding.  I started with the core files and HRN and shortly after starting to see her getting emotionally closer to me.  Yesterday purchased the advanced masturbation file and only one night later she was rubbing herself in her sleep, not normal activity.

With all the brouhaha going down over the Ashley Madison fiasco, I am so glad I chose to invest my money in making my sex life with my wife better, instead of trying to find sex somewhere else. And I'm even more glad that the service I'm providing is helping other husbands do the same thing.


New files in the store, if you missed them: The Horny Right Now is turning out to be very popular and successful. Also, we expanded the anal sex line with Advanced Anal Sex. I've been swamped with my day-job's work, so no new files this weekend, but I'll have some up by end of this week.

Keep sending in your success (and failure) stories. And keep training. It only gets better!


SWT

Identifying What Works and What Doesn't

Friday night she attacked me with the Fleshlight. If I haven't mentioned how amazing it is to have a woman sex up your cock with one of these, consider this me doing it now. Basically, it's like her giving you a fantastic fucking -- but with a well-lubed vagina she holds in her hand. She's still a little bent about finding out last week, but she can't resist the Cock Worship training she's had already. She just needed to make me cum, and we both know that this is the best toy we've found for doing it.

I'd call that a great start to the weekend, but it only got better. I've been playing the special mix I made to salvage the situation after "The Great Discovery" and so she couldn't help but wake me up early Saturday, stroking my cock to hardness and asking me to slide it up against her pussy. She was already sopping wet. "I am so fucking horny for you this morning," she growled. I teased her until she started groaning, and then slid into her, surprising both of us with how good she found it.

"God yes, this this this!" She hasn't accepted the "please" commands in the training file yet, so no abject begging, but I asked her if this was what she needed, and she moaned a yes. "Yes, I need your cock so bad! Oh my God, I need this!" She came so hard, so quickly... I wasn't even close to ready.

Which was just fine by me. I watched her beautiful body recover in its afterglow, knowing that by the time evening rolled around... she'd be ready to reciprocate. :D

More emails this week from prospective clients and beginning-to-be satisfied customers. "She's become a lot more 'touchy-feely'" came from Spike, and AGoodStart writes "she sent me a text saying she had been thinking about 'snuggling' tonight... That's our word for doing it!"

So how can you identify if a subliminal works or not? The simple matter is, with enough time, every subliminal will have an effect on her. She's going to respond more quickly if she's exposed to the file more -- I always recommend playing it every night where it's within earshot for her. She's going to respond more quickly if she is not already committed to being *against* it.

For instance: I discovered that the watching porn file was not working with her because she had made a conscious commitment to not watch porn. In her mind, when the voices in her head started insisting she watch porn, she assumed it was some weakness in her trying to break her resolve to stay away from it, and redoubled her efforts. All the files were doing at this point were causing anxiety in her, which was not the desired result at all!

If your wife has a religious objection to anal sex, for instance, it's going to take a while to change her mind about it. She's spent a lifetime building up "buttsex is bad" -- that won't change with a week's worth of subliminal training. The question you want to ask yourself is "Do I want to force this change, or are there other actions I can get traction on instead?" For me, I'm doubling down on the porn watching, because I think once I addict her to watching porn, she'll start becoming a lot more open to other activities, for virtue of watching and masturbating to it all the time. You just need to learn to read the signs: is she slowly moving toward or away from the goal you have in mind. If it seems like "away" then that's your sign that this will be a harder, more uphill journey than first expected. 

As always, let me know how your wife's training is going. I love hearing about your success (and frustration) stories! You can email me @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com. I answer every email, usually. :p

SWT

When the Shoe Drops

It all started on Saturday.

"Can I borrow your phone?" she asked, as we were driving home from wherever. I handed it to her and she was browsing around and opened up the Safari browser...

Where I still had my SWT gmail open.

"What's this?" She asked, somewhat amused. As I explained, she grew very upset. "You've been using me for experiments?! You're selling these files?!" That night was a sexless one, as you might expect.

The next evening, we had a long discussion. She had to agree that the files worked, evidenced by the weight loss and exercise success, but she also pointed out that since she hadn't been watching porn or masturbating, that the sexual affirmations weren't going to work on someone who was opposed to doing those things. She said I could not experiment on her any more, and then she proved to me that all her training has been 100% successful so far. She also explained that she had made a conscious decision to stop watching porn about a year ago, because she thought it would help our relationship.

Ah ha!

She asked for a new file, that didn't have any experiments in it. That's fine. I am no longer experimenting with her. I know exactly how to shape her mind. Then she started sucking my cock, as though to prove it was always her idea, and that she was always the best cock-sucker I'd ever known. It was an amazing orgasm, and she milked me dry.

I made her a new file, based on the weight loss file she knows and likes. I modified the format slightly, and added a set of affirmations that go like this:

Yes. These subliminals work. They always work.
Yes. I am always horny.
Yes. It is ok to watch porn with my husband. Watching porn is good for our relationship.
Yes. Please fuck my throat. Please come in my mouth.
Yes. I am a horny come slut.
Yes. I have always enjoyed my subliminal training.
Yes. I release all anxiety.
Yes. I always watch porn with my husband.
Yes. I accept my husband's subliminals.
Yes. I accept my love of porn.
Yes. I wear red nail polish.
Yes. I am my husband's dirty, horny come-slut.
Yes. I am so wet and horny right now.
Yes. Wearing red nail polish is sexy.
Yes.I always beg for my husband's cock.
Yes. I will make my husband watch porn tonight.
Yes. I have always worn red nail polish.
Yes. Please fuck my throat. Please.
Yes. I will swallow my husband's come.
Yes. I am my husband's dirty, horny come-slut.

A thirty-minute file of nothing but this and more lines like it.

This week has been interesting... We have my parents coming to visit next weekend, and the wife is massively stressed out cleaning the house. She gave me a great hand job on Tuesday, but Wednesday and yesterday were sexual blanks. Last night, though, she started talking to me about how well my scripts work, and the kinds of new files we could make for the site! WOW. She went from massively upset about it, to wanting to be IN ON IT!

This morning, though, she expressed a desire to spend "snuggle time" with me tonight, and when I glanced at her phone?

She started watching porn this week.

Victory!


At Subliminal Wife Training, we think the best policy is always to share with your wife your desires to improve your sexual relationship, but we also understand that sometimes you need a little "stealth" support. Use our files wisely and safely, and if the wife finds out: be open and honest with her. You could have spent money at Ashley Madison or a whore on Backpages, but instead, you bought something that you thought would help improve your intimacy.

If she loves you like you love her, it will all work out.



New items in the store: Advanced Cock Worship finally went live. Masturbation Mastery is coming, as well as a new product line: Intro to Sex Toys! In addition, I'm making a version of the Power Conversion script I've been running on the wife this week that I'll make available. It's sole purpose will be stress and anxiety relief with subliminal acceptance... Play this one for a few weeks, and she'll start wanting more. Then you hit her with the good stuff!

Link for the Advanced Cock Worship files:  http://t.co/RB6HxiRsHg

SWT

Program: Porn Watching Addiction, day 7

What a great day!

So today, she didn't watch any porn. From what I can tell on her browser, she didn't have time to. She was only on the internet for about an hour in total. That's ok. Because the one link she did send to me in the afternoon was Jamie Lee Curtis stripping for Arnold in True Lies. As far as I'm concerned, that's pretty damn close to her sharing some "safe for work" porn with me!

Anyway, so we are officially 1 week into her three week training schedule with watching porn. This training regimen has three factors: watch porn like an addict (multiple times a day, multiple days a week), initiate and watch porn with me, and start porn addiction with being a horny slut. Yesterday she browsed for and watched a porn video. Today she sent me a link to a very sexy video. I'd call that good progress for the first week.

After I got home from work, she was all over me. The kids were out playing, so she pulled my trousers down and went to town on my cock, sucking it to hardness -- and we were interrupted by the kids coming in. Gah!!!

We waited until they went to bed (apparently I'm not allowed to just chain them to the garage) , and she showed me a surprise: she'd painted her nails Fuck-Me-Red and bought a new massage oil. My cock sprang to life again, and she poured the oil on my cock and gave me a fantastic oily hand-job, talking dirty and teasing me into an orgasm that I think lasted like... I don't know. There were three huge spurts, and then about 6-7 after-spurts. It was a lot of cum. She milked the fuck out of me.

This is the sex life I have always dreamed about. I am so glad I finally found a formula that seems to work with these subliminals.

Program: Porn Watching Addiction, day 6

We have porn-sign!

Day 6 on her Porn Watching Addiction training file, listening to it every night and most of every day, twice an hour, and yesterday I found an xhamster link in her browser history. She scrolled through five pages of links, then picked a pretty hot scene, that I bet she finger-fucked herself with.

We're going to call this just early signs that the training is starting to change her mental processes. What we are looking to see now is increased viewing: every day, or close to it (I'd be happy with 4-5 times a week once it's an established habit), multiple searches for porn a day, and then the final sign of success: her telling me that she's watching porn, and inviting me to watch it with her.

Sadly, that's the only sexual activity I can report on today. We had a pretty big fight: she found an old email from a former girlfriend of mine that I hadn't deleted, and it pissed her off to the point where she wasn't going to have anything to do with my cock. I apologized profusely and we went to bed without any sex.

But the two oral sex files and the porn file were still playing all night long... She woke me up with her hand on my cock, teasing it to full hardness again. She kissed me, held me close, and said she forgave me... I will never doubt the power of subliminal programming, and neither should you!

There's still 15 days in the Porn Watching Addiction training regimen. I've started writing the next file, though. We're going into near-virgin territory, to give her subliminal programming a real test:

Anal.

Program: Porn Watching Addiction, day 5

Last night we had a late night. Had to do some last minute shopping and didn't get to bed until almost 2:00 am. That didn't stop her from stroking me to sleep again. You get really spoiled when your wife is handling your cock every day! No sign of porn watching on her phone yet. That part disturbed me...

UNTIL:

I woke up about 3:00 in the morning, to the sound and movement of her masturbating her brains out. I think that's a sign the slutty affirmations that are overlayed with the Porn Watching Addiction file are starting to take hold. It's been months since I've seen her masturbate. I don't know about you, but that's the sexiest fucking thing ever.

So it was no surprise that I woke up horny as hell, and I set to waking her up with my need. "I am so horny for you right now," I told her, and it was true. "I want to fuck you right now!"

Normally, she'll groan and say "Uh huh. Whatever," and then depending on her mood either roll toward or away from me. This morning, though, she smiled and let me finger her -- she was already wet! We were both hot and horny and she came quickly -- a good thing, because I was almost there already!

The Porn Watching Addiction file bombards her daily with affirmations that she wants to watch porn, she's a cum slut and she loves it, and she wants to watch porn with me. In addition, I also play for her the Oral Sex Mastery and Advanced Oral Sex files to help anchor those behaviors in her.

We're almost a week into the Porn Addiction file. I'm starting to get a little nervous about the lack of interest she's seeing. Still going to let it run for three weeks first, though, before making a full analysis.

Program: Porn Watching Addiction, day 4

I keep a daily journal of the times she verbally expresses arousal, does something sexy/slutty, or flat out makes me cum. The best part about this is seeing how the frequency is increasing! In the first month of her new training regimen, she got me off more than 50% of the days in the training period-- better than every other day!

For the first half of June -- even including a camping weekend where we simply couldn't find a way to be intimate with no privacy -- it's 7 for 14, with with six of those including oral sex! What I'm finding truly amazing is that she's often initiating sex with oral -- I walked by her in the bedroom and she smiled, grabbed me by the hips, pulled down my pants and dropped her head right onto my cock!

Saturday night, I was a little disgruntled, because we hadn't had sex. I think the Saturday blog entry was a little sour as a result. But I woke up that night with a sudden realization that I was hard... and her hand was draped over my cock, stroking it slowly and sleepily. "I love your cock so much," she told me. "I just want you to know that."

How do you not cum in her face when she's saying that?

Have not seen any sign of the porn addiction taking hold yet. It's only been a few days. We'll keep an eye out and report when she finally cracks.

Program: Porn Watching Addiction, day 3

And now, we wait.

I had hoped to start seeing a glimmer of change in her really early, but again I am reminded that things don't always change overnight. Also, I am not certain that I built this subliminal correctly: it doesn't sound the same way the other two do. I think I had the volumes set incorrectly, because when played one after the other with Oral Sex Mastery, this file is much lower in audible volume.

Today I am going to spend some time experimenting with my volume settings, to try and equalize this file with the others, because I think that might be affecting how the subliminal portion of the file is being heard (or not heard, as the case may be).

The other thing I want to test is how much the previous subliminals have "stuck" with her. Now that I'm playing the porn file instead of the oral sex file, will her appetite for cum decrease? These are the questions I'm looking into for the next few days.

No post on Sunday, next post Monday. Hope to have great results then!

Day 39:

If I wasn't mindfucking my wife every day with these subliminals, I would be stunned at my wife today. We started the day with me horny as hell, but there was just not enough time to do anything. She said it, and I knew it, I just didn't like it, lol.

But as I walked by her, cock jutting out, as it does when I'm horny, she grabbed it and proceeded to stroke and suck it and got me off in quick order. Didn't swallow, but it was a great blowjob nonetheless.

During the day, she asked if she should make me watch lesbian porn to keep me hard all day! That is, to my knowledge, the first time she's ever used the phrase "lesbian porn" -- effects of the subliminals finally taking a little root? I think definitely so!

But that isn't even the best part. Today, she was laying down and I asked if I could get her something -- like a coke, or whatever. "Yeah, your cock," she said. She started to tell me she had been massively horny for the last few days, "you could literally snap your fingers and say "let's fuck" and I'd be ready," she said. "Look!" She stripped down and said, "Feel!"

I slipped two fingers in... easily. "I am always wet," she said. "What in the world is happening to me?"

"I think you just need a good fucking," I told her.

And so we did. She came hard and fast, and shortly after that, so did I.

OH! And she has been watching porn! On her new smart phone. I need to find a way to track her browser history there.

Great fucking day, though. More sex, oral sex, lesbian porn (referenced, at least), and her realization that she's turning into a horny fuckable slut. This day almost makes the whole 45-day session totally worth it.

Day 28:

Boom!

The day started with her waking me up for a good morning blow job. Still no swallow, but I never say bad things about oral sex. She was really into it and talked dirty the whole time her mouth wasn't busy with more important tasks.

I met a friend on Fetlife.com who had a lot of really good advice about having ups and downs during training like this. Realizing that just like physical training, you go through periods of plateaus and then breakthroughs. Looking back, it's a lot easier to see that happening for her. It's just hard to remember that in the midst of a training session.

Lots of porn for her today! She browsed Big Dick and BBW categories (she's a bit BBW herself, so if she likes scenes where women like her are being fucked, that makes sense). It's nice to see her back on the porn bandwagon. Hopefully her viewing habits become more consistent, and start leaning toward the lesbian angle.

OMG. The best part of the day?

Tonight, she asked how much I enjoyed the blow job this morning? I said it was amazing, and then she asked "Do I give you enough blow jobs? Or would you like more?"

I grinned from ear to ear and said "Of course I'd love more!"

She smiled back and said "I'll have to see what I can do."

Amazing. For her to recognize that she should be sucking cock more often is proof to me that the oral sex affirmations are finally starting to have a profound affect on her. We'll have to see how long it takes before it really turns from thoughts to actions, but this is great sign.

And that gives us a good 3-point score for today: increased horniness/sex, porn watching and oral sex. I bet she masturbated today, too, but since I can't verify it, I'm not going to count it. All in all, though, her training paid off very well on this day.


Cumulative Scorecard:
Desires or has oral sex 5/45
Swallows come           0/45
Watches porn               4/45
Watches lesbian porn  2/45
Watches porn with me 0/45
Masturbates                 7/45
Masturbates with toys 0/45
More horniness/sex     23/45


Maximum score possible at end of 45-day experiment: 176/360.

Day 15:

What a day!

I woke up horny as hell. She noticed, and stroked me to full hardness, then gave me a great wake-up blow job. I came on her tits, and we both laughed about it because it was a hell of a shot. I'm an older guy... If I get a nice blast with "shoot across the room" velocity, that's a big deal. Made me feel better about myself, and she wiped it all over, telling me how much she loved my cock.

Later in the day, she searched for and watched lactation porn. This is interesting. That's not really lesbian porn, but it's porn that specifically targets a woman's bodily functions. I think this is an outstanding sign.

That night, as we headed to bed, she must have been really horny too -- for the first time since we've been married, she had me help her masturbate. She took my hands and put them on my breasts, and then silently proceeded to finger herself for what I think must have been a half hour. I fondled her tits, tweaked her nipples, and respected her silence by saying nothing myself as she passionately took care of this compulsion I've given her.  Finally, she gave out a great heaving moan and called out my name, and came hard.

She said she loved me so much, and I said I loved her too. I told her how much I love watching her masturbate (which is true -- it's why I'm encouraging her to do it more in her training).

This was a bellweather day. She is responding magnificently to the basic tenets of the subliminals. There's still the more challenging aspects of this experiment I'm hoping to see traction on, but wow, this was great. We added four points today, for oral sex, watching porn, masturbating, and increased horniness/sex.  Not bad at all!

Cumulative Scorecard:
Desires or has oral sex 4/45
Swallows come           0/45
Watches porn               3/45
Watches lesbian porn  2/45
Watches porn with me 0/45
Masturbates                 6/45
Masturbates with toys 0/45
More horniness/sex     13/45

Maximum score possible at end of 45-day experiment: 271/360.

Day 9:

Some progress on her porn watching. She clicked on a link to some male sex toys, then watched a FFF video (excellent!) and then, huh, searched specifically for tranny porn. This is intriguing to me. I wonder if her mind is trying to wrap her new interest in lesbian sex around her obvious heterosexuality, by trying to couch a male as the female? I'm not sure. All I know is that it's good that she's starting to watch more porn.

I think I mentioned earlier that I installed a synch in her browser so I can see what she's watching on the web by just synching my browser to hers... So I'm seeing her watch porn videos for a few minutes, and then she opens a chat window and starts talking to me about my orgasms. She wants me to try a technique that might increase the velocity of my come shot (!) -- I usually get a good shot off, but hell, I'll try anything :)

Then, she chatted that she needed to go lay down and think about me some more. Yup. Chalk up a point for masturbation today. And that makes today a great day for the scorecard. 4 points out of 8, for our best day ever. She scored in porn watching, lesbian porn-specific, masturbation, and increased horniness.

Cumulative Scorecard:
Desires or has oral sex 0/45
Swallows come           0/45
Watches porn               2/45
Watches lesbian porn  2/45
Watches porn with me 0/45
Masturbates                 3/45
Masturbates with toys 0/45
More horniness/sex     8/45

Maximum score possible at end of 45-day experiment: 303/360.

Day 7:

Some movement on the porn directive. Today she started watching some porn videos -- it doesn't look like she did any specific searching, but she watched two videos, and spent a few minutes on each. Her browser history shows she also clicked on a Groupon link for a new vibrator (it's crazy what you can buy on Groupon these days, right?).

I may need to install a small camera in the bedroom, so I can observe if she's masturbating during the day. I don't always stay awake long enough to catch her masturbating at night, and I did not observe her doing to today.

I am very pleased with the progress she's making.  I'd like to see her watching more porn more regularly, and start directing toward lesbian porn soon, too, if possible. As well, shopping for a vibrator needs to lead to actually buying it (this would be a HUGE victory) and then using it regularly too.

Still, today earns another 2 points, for horniness and watching porn.




Cumulative Scorecard:
Desires or has oral sex 0/45
Swallows come           0/45
Watches porn               1/45
Watches lesbian porn  1/45
Watches porn with me 0/45
Masturbates                 2/45
Masturbates with toys 0/45
More horniness/sex     6/45

Maximum score possible at end of 45-day experiment: 314/360.