"What's the end game?"

Hopeful writes: "Just wondered regarding the subs where do you think you are looking to go with them ultimately? Also, regarding oral worship, has any guy turned bi as a result of listening exposure to the IOS files? I know you said in one post that one wife wanted to do prostate massage to one guy who was playing files relating to anal."

The ultimate goal of these files is a happy, healthy relationship for a married couple. Many men stray, I believe, because they want something more out of their sex lives -- and they don't know how to get that from their wives, because who the hell actually talks to their wives about that? They want "strange" (a friend's name for sex with strangers), or just something outside of the ordinary. I feel like my subs can make a real difference, because if your wife starts doing all the things you thought you'd ever want in bed, you're going to naturally reciprocate. OMG... I've got a woman who cooks, cleans, takes care of the kids, AND gives me amazing sex almost every night? You better believe I'm going to do everything I can to meet her needs to the fullest.

As far as turning bi from listening to the cock worship file? You've seen how I've crafted the files... I've been listening non stop to my Oral, Masturbation, Sex Toys and other various files (anal!) for years at this point, and I can assure you I have no craving for cock lol. The files are created with a woman specifically talking about her husband. "I love my husband's cock," etc. I make sure to never refer to random cocks, because this is about focusing the woman on her husband. The husband is going to hear these voices too, but when it decyphers "woman's voice, desiring husband's cock," it's going to associate it immediately as, "Ah, must be part of the sub I bought her." For her, she hears a woman's voice saying she wants her husband's cock, she's not going to have anything to associate it with, and will automatically assume it's her own voice, and her own thoughts.

Another reason why I specifically state it as "my husband" and not just 'cocks' or "my significant other's cock" or whatever: my kids come in the room sometimes. If my daughter hears these files, and is changed by them in any way, it will be in an increased desire to service her husband,whoever that ends up being some day, and not just any punk in the back seat of a car on Prom night.

My parents are in town this week, so not much action as far as crafting new files, and it's a little awkward: "Yeah, I've, uh, been doing really well with a new internet venture."

"Oh, what's that, son?"

"Um, well, you know... I sell... things on the internet."

"Huh. Ok."

:-|

SWT

Identifying What Works and What Doesn't

Friday night she attacked me with the Fleshlight. If I haven't mentioned how amazing it is to have a woman sex up your cock with one of these, consider this me doing it now. Basically, it's like her giving you a fantastic fucking -- but with a well-lubed vagina she holds in her hand. She's still a little bent about finding out last week, but she can't resist the Cock Worship training she's had already. She just needed to make me cum, and we both know that this is the best toy we've found for doing it.

I'd call that a great start to the weekend, but it only got better. I've been playing the special mix I made to salvage the situation after "The Great Discovery" and so she couldn't help but wake me up early Saturday, stroking my cock to hardness and asking me to slide it up against her pussy. She was already sopping wet. "I am so fucking horny for you this morning," she growled. I teased her until she started groaning, and then slid into her, surprising both of us with how good she found it.

"God yes, this this this!" She hasn't accepted the "please" commands in the training file yet, so no abject begging, but I asked her if this was what she needed, and she moaned a yes. "Yes, I need your cock so bad! Oh my God, I need this!" She came so hard, so quickly... I wasn't even close to ready.

Which was just fine by me. I watched her beautiful body recover in its afterglow, knowing that by the time evening rolled around... she'd be ready to reciprocate. :D

More emails this week from prospective clients and beginning-to-be satisfied customers. "She's become a lot more 'touchy-feely'" came from Spike, and AGoodStart writes "she sent me a text saying she had been thinking about 'snuggling' tonight... That's our word for doing it!"

So how can you identify if a subliminal works or not? The simple matter is, with enough time, every subliminal will have an effect on her. She's going to respond more quickly if she's exposed to the file more -- I always recommend playing it every night where it's within earshot for her. She's going to respond more quickly if she is not already committed to being *against* it.

For instance: I discovered that the watching porn file was not working with her because she had made a conscious commitment to not watch porn. In her mind, when the voices in her head started insisting she watch porn, she assumed it was some weakness in her trying to break her resolve to stay away from it, and redoubled her efforts. All the files were doing at this point were causing anxiety in her, which was not the desired result at all!

If your wife has a religious objection to anal sex, for instance, it's going to take a while to change her mind about it. She's spent a lifetime building up "buttsex is bad" -- that won't change with a week's worth of subliminal training. The question you want to ask yourself is "Do I want to force this change, or are there other actions I can get traction on instead?" For me, I'm doubling down on the porn watching, because I think once I addict her to watching porn, she'll start becoming a lot more open to other activities, for virtue of watching and masturbating to it all the time. You just need to learn to read the signs: is she slowly moving toward or away from the goal you have in mind. If it seems like "away" then that's your sign that this will be a harder, more uphill journey than first expected. 

As always, let me know how your wife's training is going. I love hearing about your success (and frustration) stories! You can email me @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com. I answer every email, usually. :p

SWT

Subliminal Training: More Exposure = More Success

When my wife and I were dating, she mentioned how much she hated wearing makeup. It was too much work for too little reward, the nail polish would chip, lipstick and foundation needed to be removed and reapplied every day, all the frustration and headache, and it costs money! I nodded in agreement, because I was trying to get laid, and what am I going to do, say "Well, you, I would rather fuck women who look like painted whores?"

No, of course not. So I just nodded and got married, and dreamed of those amazing handjobs where the woman has blood red nails tracing their way up and down my cock, or cherry red lipstick making a perfect "O" as my head slides so exquisitely into her mouth. When I started experimenting with subliminals on her last year, I included some makeup affirmations, but in comparison to the other acts she was being trained on, he hardly ever heard them, and as a result, never acted on them.

She started wearing nail polish on a regular basis nine months after I started training her subliminally, with glossy clear coats, or light colors with glittery sparkles. Nothing sexy or exciting. "You like these?" She asked me once, and I said yes, of course, because I'm a good husband, but I added, "But you know you'd look super sexy in candy red!"

"That's disgusting," she said. "You want me to look like a porn star?"

"Duh!" I teased... not really teasing. Who *doesn't* want their wife to look like a porn star??

I started playing the Intro to Cock Worship file on her a few weeks ago to train her, and after a few days, she was regularly giving me hand jobs again, really good ones. She turned the Fleshlight on me, bought a floral scented Hawaiian Hibiscus Massage Oil or some such for cock massages, and one night, came up to me with bright red nails.

"You like?" She asked, flickering them at me in between strokes.

"Oh, you know I do," I groaned. She gives fantastic hand jobs.

"I did that just for you," she smiled.

Inside, I smiled too.




Moral of the story is, of course, don't give up. The attitudes and behaviors your wife has ingrained in her too years -- decades! -- to develop, and they probably won't change significantly with 3 weeks of training. That's when most men begin to see a difference, but you can't give up. The more exposure she has to the mental bombardment of subliminal sexual training she gets, the more she's going to absorb it and make it a part of her. If you can only get her to hear the file for a few hours a day, it's going to take longer.

The important part is to just keep trying. We're releasing "silent" versions of the subliminals, who work for some men who report their wives won't listen to anything at night. I don't like silents, I prefer the ocean waves, but for a lot of men, this is an important first step.

Good luck, and never give up!

SWT

Report: Intro to Masturbation Success

I feel very blessed that I've finally hit on a subliminal audio pattern that truly affects my wife in profound ways. She has been training on Oral Sex Mastery (with critical success!), Intro to Anal Sex (moderate success) and Intro to Masturbation (this just in: SUCCESS) the last few weeks and every day she surprises me with how well she's absorbing her training.

Last night, she gave me an amazing blow job. Started with just her hands, dry, and I was like, "Whatever, I'm tired, she's tired, let's just have minimal sex and go to bed, and we'll have more fun in the morning." But then she went down and started working my cock with tongue twists and just these very cool moves she'd never done before. It was exquisite. I blew my loud hard, moaned incoherently, and after a brief period of "I love you that was amazing" snuggling, passed out.

And that's when she started.

See, even if I was asleep, didn't mean I wasn't able to wake back up, and when her elbow bumped me a little, I roused enough to hear it. Shlup shlup shlup... YES. The Intro to Masturbation file had finally taken hold. She tried to be quiet and sneaky about it, but it was unmistakeable. For the first time since she got pregnant, my wife was finger-fucking herself to orgasm.

Good girl!


I added Intro to Cock Worship last night, too. I wonder if it helped flavor her texts to me today.

We're adding new files to the store every day this week. If you haven't stopped by recently, you should check it out! Visit us @ http://subliminalwifetraining.com. Your cock will thank you for it.

First Review of the Oral Sex Series (that isn't by me!)

I got the first official review of the oral sex series from customer "the dude" (I will always use fake names/emails/etc. when referring to anyone on this site or the store. Your anonymity is 100% respected.) who writes:

I bought the 2 newest oral files on July 8th, and although I still had to initiate the "fun", she said "we can either have a quickie or I can suck your dick in the shower!" That alone was results for me! So we continued fooling around in bed a bit and she started dripping, saying "that's just from thinking about your dick in my mouth". I'm not sure which of the 2 files it was, but definitely would recommend the all 3 combo.

That's fantastic! My wife sent me a text today saying she was think about me, and how she's been daydreaming about my cock more and more. That, plus a suggestion sent to me from the dude gave me an idea for a new product line: the Cock Worship series. 

Intro to Cock Worship will be affirmations dedicated solely to your wife's thought processes. She's going to notice that everything is phallic in nature, and when she notices that, she's going to realize that it's because she's been thinking about your cock. Suggestions to dream about your cock every night, and daydream about it during the day are mixed with suggestions that she wants to hold your cock, feel how it gets hard in your hand, and a desire to see and hold your cock RIGHT NOW.

Advanced Cock Worship takes it one step farther. This is a file that plays on your wife's growing obsession with your cock and directs her to take matters into her own hand, so to speak. Whenever she sees your cock, she's going to want to stroke it to make it hard. Whenever she sees it hard, she's going to want to make it come. She's going to want to go buy lube to give you a great handjob -- even if she's never done that before. She'll want to give you great wet handjobs all the time.

Cock Worship Mastery is the final step in her transformation.Everything she sees that is even vaguely phallic in nature is going to make her think about your cock. Every time she holds anything remotely cylindrical, she's going to imagine it's your cock. The simple act of putting cock-shaped objects in her mouth will make her fantasize about sliding your cock in and out of her hungry-for-cock mouth. Total obsession with your cock, and how happy it makes her, and how desperate she is to hold it, all the time. She will feel euphoric with your hard cock in her hand or mouth or pussy or ass. She will feel bereft without it. Addiction and obsession with having and holding your cock and wanting it on her or in her forever.

What do you think? First three people to email me @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com get a free copy of the Intro to Cock Worship file. It's going live on the store tonight!

(The dude? You get a copy free automatically, my thanks for the idea!)