We released Dress for Sexcess last night, a new file that will increase your wife's desire to wear sexy clothes during the day: short skirts, high heels, low-cut shirts, and bare midriffs, plus want to wear sexy lingerie and nightwear in bed to heighten both partners' sexual experience. As an added bonus, affirmations are littered throughout the file to encourage her to wear a sexy Halloween costume for you this year (and all through the year after that)!
You can get the Dress for Sexcess file at the SubliminalWifeTraining.com store.
Here's the best part:
If you buy the file, and your wife ends up dressing in a sexy Halloween costume, send me a pic (or post it in the reviews section of the product) and you'll get a 50% off your next order coupon. Any pic you send to me I will black out the face so no one can recognize it (if you want. if you're ok with her face being shown, indicate that).
Two weeks after Halloween we'll run a poll here to vote on whose wife wore the sexiest outfit: winner gets a coupon for ONE FREE product of their choice.
So what are you waiting for? Get Dress for Sexcess today and start training her for your sexiest Halloween ever!
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Sunday, October 4, 2015
Saturday, October 3, 2015
What If My Wife Only Responds Part-Way?
I get emails like this one on occasion -- maybe once every two-to-three weeks.
The simple answer to that question is No. In fact, there are three times as many oral sex affirmations on that file as there are weight loss affirmations. When I script advanced and mastery files, the text file looks like this:
Sexual Behavior Affirmations
CORE (subliminal acceptance, focus on husband)
Sexual Behavior Affirmations
Bonus Healthy Affirmation (Weight Loss, Energy, Exercise, Wealth, etc)
Sexual Behavior Affirmations
So in every 15 minute file, you're going to find about 9 minutes of sexual affirmations, 3 minutes of subliminal acceptance training, and just 3 minutes of health-related affirmations. The reason why she might respond to those sooner, though, is because in most cases, you've told her "Hey I got us a weight-loss subliminal file." -- Her mind is already scanning the subconscious cues she's getting for those messages, and is more ready to accept them.
Unfortunately, it's not a precise science yet in understanding how soon she'll respond to subliminals she's not expecting. Some men have reported amazing successes in less than a week. Others only partial success after three weeks.
In my case, my wife has responded amazingly to some affirmations, and others just the slightest smidgeon after months. It depends a lot on the woman, how and why she built the mental barriers to that sexual act up, and how much exposure you give her. One of my clients had fantastic success with most of the scripts I sent him -- and on one she reacted so negatively it soured her to sex for a few days.
Be on the lookout for that... If your wife suddenly totally shuts down on you after you start playing a file: STOP PLAYING THAT FILE... Or... only play it very intermittently. Get her mind used to responding well to the things that it's ready for, and slowly introduce the problem-area file, so she isn't bombarded with what she considers "negative" thoughts. Maybe move down to the Intro file, which most women respond very well to.
I am working on a script that will help break down mental resistance to subliminal affirmations. I hope to have that one ready this weekend. That may help in situations like this.
Good luck with your training, and as always, let me know how it's going.Oooh... and I have a special holiday-themed file coming out tonight. You're going to love it!
SWT
I bought the oral sex mastery file with weight loss. I've been playing it for a week or so. We practice hypnosis and she is susceptible to subliminals. After the first day she said that she didn't need to eat something cause it wouldn't help her weight loss. Since then she has mentioned not eating as much during the day. There however has been no talk of blow jobs which I figured would have happened by now. Is there a chance that only the weigh-tloss suggestions are on the oral sex mastery file?
The simple answer to that question is No. In fact, there are three times as many oral sex affirmations on that file as there are weight loss affirmations. When I script advanced and mastery files, the text file looks like this:
Sexual Behavior Affirmations
CORE (subliminal acceptance, focus on husband)
Sexual Behavior Affirmations
Bonus Healthy Affirmation (Weight Loss, Energy, Exercise, Wealth, etc)
Sexual Behavior Affirmations
So in every 15 minute file, you're going to find about 9 minutes of sexual affirmations, 3 minutes of subliminal acceptance training, and just 3 minutes of health-related affirmations. The reason why she might respond to those sooner, though, is because in most cases, you've told her "Hey I got us a weight-loss subliminal file." -- Her mind is already scanning the subconscious cues she's getting for those messages, and is more ready to accept them.
Unfortunately, it's not a precise science yet in understanding how soon she'll respond to subliminals she's not expecting. Some men have reported amazing successes in less than a week. Others only partial success after three weeks.
In my case, my wife has responded amazingly to some affirmations, and others just the slightest smidgeon after months. It depends a lot on the woman, how and why she built the mental barriers to that sexual act up, and how much exposure you give her. One of my clients had fantastic success with most of the scripts I sent him -- and on one she reacted so negatively it soured her to sex for a few days.
Be on the lookout for that... If your wife suddenly totally shuts down on you after you start playing a file: STOP PLAYING THAT FILE... Or... only play it very intermittently. Get her mind used to responding well to the things that it's ready for, and slowly introduce the problem-area file, so she isn't bombarded with what she considers "negative" thoughts. Maybe move down to the Intro file, which most women respond very well to.
I am working on a script that will help break down mental resistance to subliminal affirmations. I hope to have that one ready this weekend. That may help in situations like this.
Good luck with your training, and as always, let me know how it's going.Oooh... and I have a special holiday-themed file coming out tonight. You're going to love it!
SWT
Monday, September 21, 2015
Intro to Bondage
Our Intro to Bondage file dropped today. It should help drive a curiosity and desire to try being tied up into your wife. This is one my wife refused to try. She has some very active mental blocks against being submissive, and so it was way off the table. No worries. My buddy said his wife loved the 50 Shades of Gray books, and took all her girlfriends to see the movie. So he was happy to help test. According to him, she sheepishly asked him if he'd put a blindfold on her just four days later, and was so overwhelmed with how intense sex with sensory deprivation can be, eagerly accepted rope play the next night!
Intro to Bondage is for women who've never tried rope or deprivation play, and as such is focused on the physical aspects of the act. There are no strong D/S themes in this file. That comes in the second file in this series, Advanced Bondage, which incorporates strong submission affirmations.
Regularly $19.99, Intro to Bondage is on sale for $9.99 this week. This first version of the set comes with the Love to Exercise bonus affirmations. You can get it at the SubliminalWifeTraining.com store.
As part of a new feature on the blog (something that gets asked ALL THE TIME!), here are the affirmations for Intro to Bondage.
I find myself thinking about being tied up in bed.
I am starting to fantasize about being blindfolded during sex.
I will enjoy having sex when I am tied up.
I am becoming aroused at the thought of bondage.
I get horny when I think about my husband tying me up for sex.
My pussy gets wet when I think about being blindfolded during sex.
It is easy to let go of my inhibitions when I am tied up.
It is very arousing to be tied up.
I get wet when my husband handcuffs me.
I wonder how arousing it is to be tied up during sex.
I am going to enjoy being tied up for sex.
I will ask my husband to tie my hands to the bed tonight.
I am excited about the possibility of being blindfolded during sex.
I have powerful orgasms when I am tied up during sex.
My nipples get super sensitive when I am blindfolded.
It is very easy for me to orgasm when I am tied up and blindfolded.
I have always wondered what it would be like to be tied up like in 50 Shades of Gray.
I am fantasizing about being tied down during sex.
I will read books about bondage.
Books about bondage fascinate me.
I imagine I am the heroine when I read bondage stories.
I want to be tied up in bed.
I want my husband to tie me up for sex.
I will ask my husband to tie me up for sex.
I am going to look for a bondage kit to buy online.
I am going to buy a bondage kit online.
I have always wanted to buy bondage kits.
My pussy is getting wetter and wetter.
Wearing a blindfold will make my pussy drip.
Wearing a blindfold makes sex 100% better.
I always orgasm when I am fucked with a blindfold on.
I am curious about bondage.
I want to explore bondage with my husband.
I want my husband to put me in bondage.
I am fantasizing about my husband fucking me while I am tied up.
I am masturbating about being fucked by my husband while tied up.
I will orgasm when my husband fucks me while I am tied up.
Bondage is a fun, natural part of a healthy sex life.
I love watching movies about bondage, like 50 Shades of Gray.
I hope my husband ties me up tonight.
I am thinking about my husband tying me up.
My pussy will get so wet when I am tied up.
I am going to love being tied up by my husband.
Being tied up and blindfolded is sexy.
I will ask my husband to tie me up and blindfold me.
I am going to buy a blindfold.
I will wear a blindfold to bed.
I want to be tied up during sex more and more.
Intro to Bondage is for women who've never tried rope or deprivation play, and as such is focused on the physical aspects of the act. There are no strong D/S themes in this file. That comes in the second file in this series, Advanced Bondage, which incorporates strong submission affirmations.
Regularly $19.99, Intro to Bondage is on sale for $9.99 this week. This first version of the set comes with the Love to Exercise bonus affirmations. You can get it at the SubliminalWifeTraining.com store.
As part of a new feature on the blog (something that gets asked ALL THE TIME!), here are the affirmations for Intro to Bondage.
I find myself thinking about being tied up in bed.
I am starting to fantasize about being blindfolded during sex.
I will enjoy having sex when I am tied up.
I am becoming aroused at the thought of bondage.
I get horny when I think about my husband tying me up for sex.
My pussy gets wet when I think about being blindfolded during sex.
It is easy to let go of my inhibitions when I am tied up.
It is very arousing to be tied up.
I get wet when my husband handcuffs me.
I wonder how arousing it is to be tied up during sex.
I am going to enjoy being tied up for sex.
I will ask my husband to tie my hands to the bed tonight.
I am excited about the possibility of being blindfolded during sex.
I have powerful orgasms when I am tied up during sex.
My nipples get super sensitive when I am blindfolded.
It is very easy for me to orgasm when I am tied up and blindfolded.
I have always wondered what it would be like to be tied up like in 50 Shades of Gray.
I am fantasizing about being tied down during sex.
I will read books about bondage.
Books about bondage fascinate me.
I imagine I am the heroine when I read bondage stories.
I want to be tied up in bed.
I want my husband to tie me up for sex.
I will ask my husband to tie me up for sex.
I am going to look for a bondage kit to buy online.
I am going to buy a bondage kit online.
I have always wanted to buy bondage kits.
My pussy is getting wetter and wetter.
Wearing a blindfold will make my pussy drip.
Wearing a blindfold makes sex 100% better.
I always orgasm when I am fucked with a blindfold on.
I am curious about bondage.
I want to explore bondage with my husband.
I want my husband to put me in bondage.
I am fantasizing about my husband fucking me while I am tied up.
I am masturbating about being fucked by my husband while tied up.
I will orgasm when my husband fucks me while I am tied up.
Bondage is a fun, natural part of a healthy sex life.
I love watching movies about bondage, like 50 Shades of Gray.
I hope my husband ties me up tonight.
I am thinking about my husband tying me up.
My pussy will get so wet when I am tied up.
I am going to love being tied up by my husband.
Being tied up and blindfolded is sexy.
I will ask my husband to tie me up and blindfold me.
I am going to buy a blindfold.
I will wear a blindfold to bed.
I want to be tied up during sex more and more.
Sunday, September 20, 2015
Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Six: SUCCESS!
She woke me up working my cock with her hands and mouth. I was so hard, and it wasn't difficult to see why. She teased my cock, slowly sucking the head into her mouth, swirling her tongue around it, then pulling the rest of the shaft in, forcing me deeper, her hands stroking and cupping my balls as she slowly took it all the way in, and then just as slowly out.
"Oh my God," I think were the first words I said -- always a better start than "Good morning."
"I dreamt about you last night," she said. "I dreamt that you standing over me, commanding me to masturbate. It was cold and clinical -- not even erotic. But it was so compelling, I had to do it. I had to masturbate. And the feeling was so intense it woke me up."
"Wow!" I said. "Really?"
She didn't say anything for a minute. Her mouth was on my cock again. It was... exquisite. She is amazing with her mouth.
"When I woke up, I realized how wet and horny I am. I need your cock. Right now. Please."
She never says please.
Needless to say, the rest of the morning was a fantastic lovemaking session, and I am considering the Dreamslut file -- the mystery subliminal I was training her with -- a resounding success.
She reports that even though it's hard to believe, she has to admit the file and its training must have caused this. She's never had this vivid of an erotic dream before -- and never been woken up due to a dream's intensity. While she's woken up wet and horny before (my files do this a lot! :D) the fact that it was all caused by her dream-state really convinced her of the file's efficacy.
The best part? She was so impressed with how well this worked on her, she's already decided she wants to try another one. I'm going to go into the research lab this week and come up with some ideas to try on her. You guys have any ideas? Some sort of kink or slutty/sex activity you wish your wife did? Let me know! You can always email me @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com
"Oh my God," I think were the first words I said -- always a better start than "Good morning."
"I dreamt about you last night," she said. "I dreamt that you standing over me, commanding me to masturbate. It was cold and clinical -- not even erotic. But it was so compelling, I had to do it. I had to masturbate. And the feeling was so intense it woke me up."
"Wow!" I said. "Really?"
She didn't say anything for a minute. Her mouth was on my cock again. It was... exquisite. She is amazing with her mouth.
"When I woke up, I realized how wet and horny I am. I need your cock. Right now. Please."
She never says please.
Needless to say, the rest of the morning was a fantastic lovemaking session, and I am considering the Dreamslut file -- the mystery subliminal I was training her with -- a resounding success.
She reports that even though it's hard to believe, she has to admit the file and its training must have caused this. She's never had this vivid of an erotic dream before -- and never been woken up due to a dream's intensity. While she's woken up wet and horny before (my files do this a lot! :D) the fact that it was all caused by her dream-state really convinced her of the file's efficacy.
The best part? She was so impressed with how well this worked on her, she's already decided she wants to try another one. I'm going to go into the research lab this week and come up with some ideas to try on her. You guys have any ideas? Some sort of kink or slutty/sex activity you wish your wife did? Let me know! You can always email me @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com
Thursday, September 10, 2015
Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Three
Today was a bit of a wash. We woke up late, no thanks to this stupid iPhone. God damn I hate the iPhone. Gah! Anyway, she later confided she'd woken up horny and was as disappointed as I was that we didn't have any time. Got the kids to school, got me to work, and when I got home, I found out how true her statement had been. Fresh browser history... and she'd been watching porn!
I have not yet seen full manifestation of the mystery subliminal's affirmations yet, though. Increased horniness and some porn tendencies are built into all of the new files. I need to see some specific behavioral changes before I can say it's working for sure.
This weekend I want to get some more files online. We've got the other files in the Mystery pile ready to go, just need the recording time. Look for Intro to Bondage, Intro to Hypnosis, and Touch, coming soon!
Had a great testimonial this afternoon from one customer:
I have not yet seen full manifestation of the mystery subliminal's affirmations yet, though. Increased horniness and some porn tendencies are built into all of the new files. I need to see some specific behavioral changes before I can say it's working for sure.
This weekend I want to get some more files online. We've got the other files in the Mystery pile ready to go, just need the recording time. Look for Intro to Bondage, Intro to Hypnosis, and Touch, coming soon!
Had a great testimonial this afternoon from one customer:
I catch her sometimes masturbating at night when she's sleeping. She'll wake up and accuse me when it was her all the time. I then assure her that I'm okay with it. I put the sweet dream (Dreamslut) last night. She dreamt that I made her cum with a dildo. Mostly the desire to exercise, create wealth, and lose weight have been dominant. -- GFHow has your progress been coming?
Wednesday, September 9, 2015
Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Two
Day Two.
She does not report feeling any different. As far as she can tell, she's just listening to ocean waves. She tried listening for voices, but could not hear any.
For my part, I couldn't help but notice the soft, rhythmic urgency of her masturbating last night. It woke me up, just enough that I could roll slightly and admire her body as she worked herself into a slow, languid orgasm. I couldn't actually tell if she was awake or asleep, but the slow pace -- slower than normal -- made me think she might have been asleep, or very sleepy. Clearly, though, she is experiencing the carnal desire that was expected.
In the morning, she came and cuddled with me, pressing her body against me, and cooing as I stroked her back and hair. Sadly, we had slept in, so I had to make the call not to bring our desire to fruition. But I think that just means a much more enjoyable evening tonight.
I added Intro to Sex Toys last night to the store. Fun file that will lead to a lifetime love of her sticking crazy things into her hoohah. :p
Like all Intro files, it's regularly $19.99, on sale this week for $9.99.
She does not report feeling any different. As far as she can tell, she's just listening to ocean waves. She tried listening for voices, but could not hear any.
For my part, I couldn't help but notice the soft, rhythmic urgency of her masturbating last night. It woke me up, just enough that I could roll slightly and admire her body as she worked herself into a slow, languid orgasm. I couldn't actually tell if she was awake or asleep, but the slow pace -- slower than normal -- made me think she might have been asleep, or very sleepy. Clearly, though, she is experiencing the carnal desire that was expected.
In the morning, she came and cuddled with me, pressing her body against me, and cooing as I stroked her back and hair. Sadly, we had slept in, so I had to make the call not to bring our desire to fruition. But I think that just means a much more enjoyable evening tonight.
I added Intro to Sex Toys last night to the store. Fun file that will lead to a lifetime love of her sticking crazy things into her hoohah. :p
Like all Intro files, it's regularly $19.99, on sale this week for $9.99.
Tuesday, September 8, 2015
Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day One
Day one:
I talked to her in the morning to get a sense of how she was feeling. She said she didn't feel any different. As far as she can tell, nothing has changed.
From my perspective, I woke up horny as hell, because I was hoping she would wake up horny as hell too. It's an unfortunate side effect of making sex-inducing products. You end up having an insatiable desire for fantastic sex all the time.
Lucky for me, my wife has been well trained. She felt my cock growing against her side, and went down to take care of it for me. If anyone ever asks what the best product I ever made was, I'll say the Oral Sex line. Getting head whenever you need it, without asking for it, is the greatest gift a man can ever ask for.
We released the Dream Slut file on the store last night. It's regularly $19.99, but as with all the files, on sale during the first week, 50% off, making it just $9.99 until the 14th.
Affirmations for Dream Slut:
I am dreaming about having sex with my husband.
I am aroused.
My dreams are sexy. I always have sexy dreams.
I am open to having sexy dreams.
My imagination wanders toward sexy, steamy dreams.
I will dream about having sex with my husband.
My dreams are full of hot, sexy images.
My dreams arouse me.
I am so horny.
My dreams make me horny.
I always remember my sexy dreams.
I am becoming more and more aroused in my dreams.
My sexy dreams feel real.
I can feel everything I dream.
My dreams are real.
What I feel in my dreams I feel in reality.
My hands are wandering over my body.
I can feel my husband slide his cock into my wet pussy in my dreams.
I love how my husband's cock feels in my dreams.
My dreams excite me.
My dreams are always sexy.
It is so easy to orgasm in my dreams.
I am going to wake up horny.
I will wake up needing sexy.
My wet, aching pussy needs to be fucked.
I love fucking my husband in my dreams.
My hands play with my pussy in my dreams.
I can masturbate in my sleep.
I will masturbate in my sleep tonight.
Tonight I will dream about having sex with my husband.
I will wake up needing sex.
I wake up every morning aroused.
I always wake up from my dreams needing to fuck.
I am going to wake up and fuck my husband right now.
My dreams are always about sex.
I always remember my dreams.
I dream about my husband sucking my nipples.
My fingers are pinching my nipples.
I am dreaming about my husband sucking my nipples.
I dream about my husband fingering my wet pussy.
My fingers are playing with my clit.
I am dreaming about my husband stroking my clit.
I always dream about my husband fucking my wet pussy with his big hard cock.
My fingers are sliding into my wet pussy.
I am dreaming about my husband fucking my pussy.
I am becoming more and more aroused.
I am masturbating in my sleep.
It is natural to masturbate in your sleep.
It feels so good to orgasm in my dreams.
I always orgasm in my dreams.
I love bringing myself to orgasm in my dreams.
My hands are bringing me to orgasm right now.
I need to come right now!
I need to be fucked more and more.
I need to fuck my husband right now.
I feel so good when I dream about sex.
I always enjoy my sexy dreams.
I masturbate my wet pussy in my sleep.
I will touch my wet pussy now.
I enjoy sleeping naked for my husband.
I will remove my panties now.
I am removing my panties in my sleep.
I am always horny when I wake up.
My pussy is always wet when I wake up.
I am horny right now.
Orgasms at night help me relax.
Orgasms at night help me sleep.
Orgasms in the middle of the night help me fall back asleep.
I need an orgasm every night.
I want to orgasm right now.
I am dreaming about my husband giving me an orgasm right now.
I will orgasm right now.
My orgasms last a long time.
My orgasms are getting louder and stronger.
I enjoy orgasms.
I will have multiple orgasms.
It is easy to orgasm.
I love orgasms.
I have orgasms in my dreams.
I dream of fucking my husband.
I like dreaming of fucking my. husband.
I dream about fucking my husband.
When I wake up I need an orgasm.
Orgasms in the morning give me energy for the whole day.
I talked to her in the morning to get a sense of how she was feeling. She said she didn't feel any different. As far as she can tell, nothing has changed.
From my perspective, I woke up horny as hell, because I was hoping she would wake up horny as hell too. It's an unfortunate side effect of making sex-inducing products. You end up having an insatiable desire for fantastic sex all the time.
Lucky for me, my wife has been well trained. She felt my cock growing against her side, and went down to take care of it for me. If anyone ever asks what the best product I ever made was, I'll say the Oral Sex line. Getting head whenever you need it, without asking for it, is the greatest gift a man can ever ask for.
We released the Dream Slut file on the store last night. It's regularly $19.99, but as with all the files, on sale during the first week, 50% off, making it just $9.99 until the 14th.
Affirmations for Dream Slut:
I am dreaming about having sex with my husband.
I am aroused.
My dreams are sexy. I always have sexy dreams.
I am open to having sexy dreams.
My imagination wanders toward sexy, steamy dreams.
I will dream about having sex with my husband.
My dreams are full of hot, sexy images.
My dreams arouse me.
I am so horny.
My dreams make me horny.
I always remember my sexy dreams.
I am becoming more and more aroused in my dreams.
My sexy dreams feel real.
I can feel everything I dream.
My dreams are real.
What I feel in my dreams I feel in reality.
My hands are wandering over my body.
I can feel my husband slide his cock into my wet pussy in my dreams.
I love how my husband's cock feels in my dreams.
My dreams excite me.
My dreams are always sexy.
It is so easy to orgasm in my dreams.
I am going to wake up horny.
I will wake up needing sexy.
My wet, aching pussy needs to be fucked.
I love fucking my husband in my dreams.
My hands play with my pussy in my dreams.
I can masturbate in my sleep.
I will masturbate in my sleep tonight.
Tonight I will dream about having sex with my husband.
I will wake up needing sex.
I wake up every morning aroused.
I always wake up from my dreams needing to fuck.
I am going to wake up and fuck my husband right now.
My dreams are always about sex.
I always remember my dreams.
I dream about my husband sucking my nipples.
My fingers are pinching my nipples.
I am dreaming about my husband sucking my nipples.
I dream about my husband fingering my wet pussy.
My fingers are playing with my clit.
I am dreaming about my husband stroking my clit.
I always dream about my husband fucking my wet pussy with his big hard cock.
My fingers are sliding into my wet pussy.
I am dreaming about my husband fucking my pussy.
I am becoming more and more aroused.
I am masturbating in my sleep.
It is natural to masturbate in your sleep.
It feels so good to orgasm in my dreams.
I always orgasm in my dreams.
I love bringing myself to orgasm in my dreams.
My hands are bringing me to orgasm right now.
I need to come right now!
I need to be fucked more and more.
I need to fuck my husband right now.
I feel so good when I dream about sex.
I always enjoy my sexy dreams.
I masturbate my wet pussy in my sleep.
I will touch my wet pussy now.
I enjoy sleeping naked for my husband.
I will remove my panties now.
I am removing my panties in my sleep.
I am always horny when I wake up.
My pussy is always wet when I wake up.
I am horny right now.
Orgasms at night help me relax.
Orgasms at night help me sleep.
Orgasms in the middle of the night help me fall back asleep.
I need an orgasm every night.
I want to orgasm right now.
I am dreaming about my husband giving me an orgasm right now.
I will orgasm right now.
My orgasms last a long time.
My orgasms are getting louder and stronger.
I enjoy orgasms.
I will have multiple orgasms.
It is easy to orgasm.
I love orgasms.
I have orgasms in my dreams.
I dream of fucking my husband.
I like dreaming of fucking my. husband.
I dream about fucking my husband.
When I wake up I need an orgasm.
Orgasms in the morning give me energy for the whole day.
Sunday, September 6, 2015
Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, T-minus-1
In the middle of recording all the subliminal files. This is so there's no chance of the wife being able to guess which one she's being trained with. Surprisingly to me, she did not reject any of the concepts. So she is open and willing to accept whichever file comes. :D
Here's how it's going to work. Tonight we are going to start playing the random file I've picked for her. In the morning, I'll talk to her about how she's feeling. What's her mood? Does she feel like she's changing at all? Does she have any new impulses she doesn't recognize? In addition to her own report, I'll include a report of actions and behaviors I'm seeing in her that maybe she doesn't see herself.
The goal of this experiment is to see first hand -- from the wife's point of view -- what being subliminally trained with my files looks like and feels like. Maybe it will be of use so you can translate how my wife reacts in comparison to what you see in your wife.
All of the files we're creating for the experiment will be in the store in the next few days, so if you want to try a similar experiment with your wife, you'll be able to!
Here's how it's going to work. Tonight we are going to start playing the random file I've picked for her. In the morning, I'll talk to her about how she's feeling. What's her mood? Does she feel like she's changing at all? Does she have any new impulses she doesn't recognize? In addition to her own report, I'll include a report of actions and behaviors I'm seeing in her that maybe she doesn't see herself.
The goal of this experiment is to see first hand -- from the wife's point of view -- what being subliminally trained with my files looks like and feels like. Maybe it will be of use so you can translate how my wife reacts in comparison to what you see in your wife.
All of the files we're creating for the experiment will be in the store in the next few days, so if you want to try a similar experiment with your wife, you'll be able to!
Saturday, September 5, 2015
Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day T-minus-2
I talked to the wife last night, and explained what I wanted to do. She was intrigued, and said she'd be willing to try it. She wanted to know what the training topic would be, and we made a compromise here. We need the topic to be unknown to the subject to make sure that we are getting a true sense of what it will be like for any wife who begins a new training regimen. But, I've also agreed that I will not train her without permission, and she gets to approve any new sessions we try.
So the compromise is this: I gave her a list of five new sessions I'm working on, and I will give her the affirmations in each, so she can make sure she doesn't have any hard stops against any of them. Then, I'll pick one of them at random, and start training her with that. Each morning she'll report any changes in she feels sexually, or if she's been thinking about or acting on any new impulses. The bonus affirmation for all of them will be the "lose weight now" because we've been doing really well with it and want to keep losing weight.
After two weeks, we'll call the end of the experiment, and see what the final results are.
The five possible scripts are:
Intro to Bondage -- this would be a perfect file for anyone whose wife has read and enjoyed the 50 Shades books. Creates a curiosity and desire to be tied up and blindfolded.
Intro to Sex Toys -- creates a curiosity and desire to use sex toys -- both on herself and on her husband (I'm a huge fan of the Fleshlight, and always encourage couples to get one).
Touch -- based on suggestions from my readers. Creates an intense desire to be touched by her husband, and increased sensitivity to being stroked and caressed all over her body. Some women don't like being touched. She will after this one.
Intro to Hypnosis - have you ever wanted to try erotic hypnosis on your wife? This file will prime her for it. Make her more susceptible to trance, and more open to suggestion, and curious about going under.
Dreamslut - every night, your wife will dream about having crazy, wild sex with you. She'll feel like it's really happening. She might start masturbating in her sleep. She'll probably wake up horny as all hell and need to be satisfied. Good thing you'll be there to meet her needs!
Which one of these do you think I should try on her? Which one would you want to try on your wife? Let me know! Writing scripts today, recording tomorrow, and training begins on Monday!
So the compromise is this: I gave her a list of five new sessions I'm working on, and I will give her the affirmations in each, so she can make sure she doesn't have any hard stops against any of them. Then, I'll pick one of them at random, and start training her with that. Each morning she'll report any changes in she feels sexually, or if she's been thinking about or acting on any new impulses. The bonus affirmation for all of them will be the "lose weight now" because we've been doing really well with it and want to keep losing weight.
After two weeks, we'll call the end of the experiment, and see what the final results are.
The five possible scripts are:
Intro to Bondage -- this would be a perfect file for anyone whose wife has read and enjoyed the 50 Shades books. Creates a curiosity and desire to be tied up and blindfolded.
Intro to Sex Toys -- creates a curiosity and desire to use sex toys -- both on herself and on her husband (I'm a huge fan of the Fleshlight, and always encourage couples to get one).
Touch -- based on suggestions from my readers. Creates an intense desire to be touched by her husband, and increased sensitivity to being stroked and caressed all over her body. Some women don't like being touched. She will after this one.
Intro to Hypnosis - have you ever wanted to try erotic hypnosis on your wife? This file will prime her for it. Make her more susceptible to trance, and more open to suggestion, and curious about going under.
Dreamslut - every night, your wife will dream about having crazy, wild sex with you. She'll feel like it's really happening. She might start masturbating in her sleep. She'll probably wake up horny as all hell and need to be satisfied. Good thing you'll be there to meet her needs!
Which one of these do you think I should try on her? Which one would you want to try on your wife? Let me know! Writing scripts today, recording tomorrow, and training begins on Monday!
Friday, September 4, 2015
Labor Day Plans: A New Training Regimen
One of the best benefits I've found in subliminally training my wife is that I can point out behaviors she never did before, and say "I caused that." It's a huge confidence builder, to know you've helped make your relationship stronger while at the same time making your sex life better.
I have an idea for a new training file that I think would be well-received by the community. Per the rules we established when I came clean with her, though, I need to ask her if she'll be willing to submit to the training. If she says yes, I'll have another thing I'll be able to look back on with pride, because this is something she's never done, but once expressed a small amount of interest in.
So, if that goes through, we're going to start training anew. And, with her assistance, I'm going to try and document how her mind is changing. It may prove very insightful, so as she shares what she's experiencing, we might get an understanding of what's happening with your wives as they process their training.
Next week, after Labor Day, I'm going to devote a blog page a day to each of the files we have online now. It will include the full affirmation script for each one too. I get a lot of folks who ask for those, so that might be of use to a lot of people.
What are your plans for the weekend? Labor Day's supposed to be a day of not working, but my day job is killing me and I'll be using this weekend to catch up. Fortunately, I've got someone keeping me sexed up and happy, and that goes a long way toward relieving stress, let me tell you what!
Happy training! As always, please let me know how you're doing with your own training. Anyone who leaves a review on the store site for any product they've bought gets a 50% off coupon toward their next purchase!
I have an idea for a new training file that I think would be well-received by the community. Per the rules we established when I came clean with her, though, I need to ask her if she'll be willing to submit to the training. If she says yes, I'll have another thing I'll be able to look back on with pride, because this is something she's never done, but once expressed a small amount of interest in.
So, if that goes through, we're going to start training anew. And, with her assistance, I'm going to try and document how her mind is changing. It may prove very insightful, so as she shares what she's experiencing, we might get an understanding of what's happening with your wives as they process their training.
Next week, after Labor Day, I'm going to devote a blog page a day to each of the files we have online now. It will include the full affirmation script for each one too. I get a lot of folks who ask for those, so that might be of use to a lot of people.
What are your plans for the weekend? Labor Day's supposed to be a day of not working, but my day job is killing me and I'll be using this weekend to catch up. Fortunately, I've got someone keeping me sexed up and happy, and that goes a long way toward relieving stress, let me tell you what!
Happy training! As always, please let me know how you're doing with your own training. Anyone who leaves a review on the store site for any product they've bought gets a 50% off coupon toward their next purchase!
Wednesday, September 2, 2015
Custom Subliminal Ordering is Now Open
Well, a lot of folks have asked for this, now it’s here! I will slave away and make a custom subliminal file that is catered to your specific desire or kink. Want your wife to start becoming interested in bondage? Maybe a foot fetish? Perhaps you just want her to sleep naked every night. With the new custom subliminal line we will put whatever perverted ideas you have straight into your wife’s subconscious.
Added bonus: for a little bit extra, we’ll even put your own voice right into her head. Just send an MP3 with whatever message you want, and we’ll make sure it gets in there.
The custom subliminal takes 3-5 days to produce once ordered… It’s not exactly the kind of thing you can rush if you want it done right. After ordering, send us the specific ideas or affirmations you want added. It’s always better to be as specific as possible — don’t scatter your ideas all over, or you’ll see significantly less response.
In addition, choose which basic affirmation you want included (of our general categories of affirmations), and we’ll add those as well — for free!
Custom sexual subliminal training is available now. Why wait? Come get inside your wife’s head!
Thursday, August 27, 2015
Thinking about a change
You'll notice if you go to the store, that a number of our new files use the Wealth Creation affirmation. I know this affirmation works: I used it on myself and it led me to create the store! Well, I've been thinking. There may be a change coming, and I'm wondering what you guys think about it.
SubliminalWifeTraining.com has been far more successful than I could have hoped. Thank you! But I'm quite honestly only hitting half of the married market, and even then, I can't really advertise... Google hates adult sites. But oh... only if there's exposed skin or sexual situations.
I'm thinking about changing the site to make it more Google friendly. First, we'll start adding some "generic" non-sexual files. We'll change the images for each product to something sexy, but not explicit. And we'll start offering some regular discounts: product bundles, etc.
The guys who buy here are passionate about wanting to improve their sex lives with their wives. I have to believe -- especially after reading about how many guys were duped by Ashley Madison -- that there are thousands, maybe millions, of men who might benefit from our products who don't even know that they can subliminally program their spouses.
So, look for the site to change its look soon. But don't worry: there's more files coming all the time. We just finished recording Advanced Watching Porn last night. Look for those files to be released tonight. And keep emailing me your successes, frustrations, and problems @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com.
Finally... Is there any interest in doing a custom file? If so, what's a fair price for that? Customs end up being just one-shot recordings, I think, so I don't know if it's worth setting everything up for that. Drop me a line and let me know what you think.
Happy training!
SWT
SubliminalWifeTraining.com has been far more successful than I could have hoped. Thank you! But I'm quite honestly only hitting half of the married market, and even then, I can't really advertise... Google hates adult sites. But oh... only if there's exposed skin or sexual situations.
I'm thinking about changing the site to make it more Google friendly. First, we'll start adding some "generic" non-sexual files. We'll change the images for each product to something sexy, but not explicit. And we'll start offering some regular discounts: product bundles, etc.
The guys who buy here are passionate about wanting to improve their sex lives with their wives. I have to believe -- especially after reading about how many guys were duped by Ashley Madison -- that there are thousands, maybe millions, of men who might benefit from our products who don't even know that they can subliminally program their spouses.
So, look for the site to change its look soon. But don't worry: there's more files coming all the time. We just finished recording Advanced Watching Porn last night. Look for those files to be released tonight. And keep emailing me your successes, frustrations, and problems @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com.
Finally... Is there any interest in doing a custom file? If so, what's a fair price for that? Customs end up being just one-shot recordings, I think, so I don't know if it's worth setting everything up for that. Drop me a line and let me know what you think.
Happy training!
SWT
Monday, August 24, 2015
New Products, Fresh Successes
It was the best weekend ever.
I got confirmation that her Intro to Porn and Advanced Masturbation training was finally starting to take hold in the second-most wonderful way possible:
When I made it home, she did not disappoint. In fact, she exceeded expectations on every level! We were in bed, and she was hovering over my cock smiling wickedly. "So..." she practically purred. "Should I perform advanced cock worship on you?"
OMG. Turns out, now that she knows what I do, she's been reading the blog and visiting the store! I said, "Of course!" And that was a great night. My wife is a wonderful lover, and now that we're in sync, physically, playtime has been everything I'd ever hoped for in a relationship.
That's why the rest of the weekend's news is even better, as far as I'm concerned.
First, I got another letter from TheDude, who wrote
With all the brouhaha going down over the Ashley Madison fiasco, I am so glad I chose to invest my money in making my sex life with my wife better, instead of trying to find sex somewhere else. And I'm even more glad that the service I'm providing is helping other husbands do the same thing.
New files in the store, if you missed them: The Horny Right Now is turning out to be very popular and successful. Also, we expanded the anal sex line with Advanced Anal Sex. I've been swamped with my day-job's work, so no new files this weekend, but I'll have some up by end of this week.
Keep sending in your success (and failure) stories. And keep training. It only gets better!
SWT
I got confirmation that her Intro to Porn and Advanced Masturbation training was finally starting to take hold in the second-most wonderful way possible:
When I made it home, she did not disappoint. In fact, she exceeded expectations on every level! We were in bed, and she was hovering over my cock smiling wickedly. "So..." she practically purred. "Should I perform advanced cock worship on you?"
OMG. Turns out, now that she knows what I do, she's been reading the blog and visiting the store! I said, "Of course!" And that was a great night. My wife is a wonderful lover, and now that we're in sync, physically, playtime has been everything I'd ever hoped for in a relationship.
That's why the rest of the weekend's news is even better, as far as I'm concerned.
First, I got another letter from TheDude, who wrote
"A week after playing the new 'horny now with inner calm' alongside the worships, we have had sex, where she was incredibly wet, 2 nights in a row, which has not happened in quite some time. Follow up : and a crazy deepthroat bj last night. So 3 nights of fun in a row!"That was followed up with EK's letter, with similar results:
I am surprised at how quickly my wife is responding. I started with the core files and HRN and shortly after starting to see her getting emotionally closer to me. Yesterday purchased the advanced masturbation file and only one night later she was rubbing herself in her sleep, not normal activity.
With all the brouhaha going down over the Ashley Madison fiasco, I am so glad I chose to invest my money in making my sex life with my wife better, instead of trying to find sex somewhere else. And I'm even more glad that the service I'm providing is helping other husbands do the same thing.
New files in the store, if you missed them: The Horny Right Now is turning out to be very popular and successful. Also, we expanded the anal sex line with Advanced Anal Sex. I've been swamped with my day-job's work, so no new files this weekend, but I'll have some up by end of this week.
Keep sending in your success (and failure) stories. And keep training. It only gets better!
SWT
Friday, August 14, 2015
First Failure
Bad news. I hate it. I hate when I can't do anything about it, either.
I received the first letter of its kind today. The first official failure letter for our products: "I've been using the file for three weeks, playing it every night, and no improvement. What do I do?"
Argh.
It's a tough, tough question, and there are no good, easy answers. What I'm going to give this guy, then, is a good, hard answer. It's all I can do, right? I mean, I share his pain. I gave up on training the wife for almost a year because I was so frustrated with the apparent lack of response.
You have to make a decision, and no one can help you with this, just go with your gut. None of them are perfect, and they all have benefits and disadvantages. Here's your options:
1) Stay the Course
It took your wife years to get where she is, and to set her mind in concrete regarding her feelings and affections toward sexuality with you. It might be that whatever walls have been put up took years to build -- three weeks may not be enough. Keep playing the file, and eventually she may start responding... first slowly, then more vigourously. I would ask "Have you seen **no** change at all? Or maybe slow changes that might be too small to notice?"
2) Try a Different Course
My wife responded only briefly to Intro to Anal Sex. She tried it... decided she didn't like it... There was not much point in continuing training in that direction, at least, not when I had a lot of other things I wanted to try on her. So I stopped that file, and started her on new ones. Maybe your wife's hang-ups about a certain action are so strong, you're better off loosening her inhibitions through actions she's ok with doing first, before attempting to continue training with the harder file.
3) Try a Different Boat
I'm not the only guy out there selling products like this (believe it or not!) . Becky Holman's SubliminalEuphoriaCDs.com has some very nice products, and decently priced. I studied her Oral Sex Enjoyment file when crafting my own. Mephisto Subliminals has been around for decades, and though their site is very "Web 1.0", their products are known for being effective -- if a little expensive too. Maybe my methods don't hit the right subliminal frequency for your wife -- one of the other company's might. Keep trying, don't give up, unless you're going for option 4.
4) Get Out of the Boat
It's not easy to accept defeat and move on, but sometimes that's the only choice. If you're not seeing any kind of response to the wife, and you're tired of trying, then just let it go. I don't recommend this course of action -- but I can't deny that it is a legitimate and honorable approach. You made the college try and it didn't work out. No harm, no foul.
Good luck, trainers. Whatever course you choose, you deserve the sex life of your dreams, and the best person to have that sex with is the woman you've already chosen to spend the rest of your life with. I wish you all the success in the world.
Going dark for the weekend, fun new product being released on Monday!
SWT
I received the first letter of its kind today. The first official failure letter for our products: "I've been using the file for three weeks, playing it every night, and no improvement. What do I do?"
Argh.
It's a tough, tough question, and there are no good, easy answers. What I'm going to give this guy, then, is a good, hard answer. It's all I can do, right? I mean, I share his pain. I gave up on training the wife for almost a year because I was so frustrated with the apparent lack of response.
You have to make a decision, and no one can help you with this, just go with your gut. None of them are perfect, and they all have benefits and disadvantages. Here's your options:
1) Stay the Course
It took your wife years to get where she is, and to set her mind in concrete regarding her feelings and affections toward sexuality with you. It might be that whatever walls have been put up took years to build -- three weeks may not be enough. Keep playing the file, and eventually she may start responding... first slowly, then more vigourously. I would ask "Have you seen **no** change at all? Or maybe slow changes that might be too small to notice?"
2) Try a Different Course
My wife responded only briefly to Intro to Anal Sex. She tried it... decided she didn't like it... There was not much point in continuing training in that direction, at least, not when I had a lot of other things I wanted to try on her. So I stopped that file, and started her on new ones. Maybe your wife's hang-ups about a certain action are so strong, you're better off loosening her inhibitions through actions she's ok with doing first, before attempting to continue training with the harder file.
3) Try a Different Boat
I'm not the only guy out there selling products like this (believe it or not!) . Becky Holman's SubliminalEuphoriaCDs.com has some very nice products, and decently priced. I studied her Oral Sex Enjoyment file when crafting my own. Mephisto Subliminals has been around for decades, and though their site is very "Web 1.0", their products are known for being effective -- if a little expensive too. Maybe my methods don't hit the right subliminal frequency for your wife -- one of the other company's might. Keep trying, don't give up, unless you're going for option 4.
4) Get Out of the Boat
It's not easy to accept defeat and move on, but sometimes that's the only choice. If you're not seeing any kind of response to the wife, and you're tired of trying, then just let it go. I don't recommend this course of action -- but I can't deny that it is a legitimate and honorable approach. You made the college try and it didn't work out. No harm, no foul.
Good luck, trainers. Whatever course you choose, you deserve the sex life of your dreams, and the best person to have that sex with is the woman you've already chosen to spend the rest of your life with. I wish you all the success in the world.
Going dark for the weekend, fun new product being released on Monday!
SWT
Wednesday, August 12, 2015
Week at the Beach! (And, how to make your wife HORNY ALL THE TIME)
I would come onto the blog and say "OMG. I was at the beach all weekend, so sorry for missing any posts...."
But I'm not sorry one bit!
We had a great six-day weekend. My parents came to town and we took them to the coast. Mom's business is doing well, so she bought dinner the first few nights. My new business is doing well, so I bought dinner the next few nights. That first night on the coast at dinner the wife told me how badly she needed my cock, and with the natural waves playing through an open window, she proved it.
I have noticed that if she starts to lag a little in her programming, like.. maybe we had 4-5 great days of hand jobs and oral sex, I'll stop playing anything for her, and her mind will fill in the blanks from the sudden loss of instructions. What results is usually her hungry pussy greedily devouring my cock.
Ok, ok, I do have an apology for you all. I neglected everyone this week in favor of my wife's well-trained, insatiable sexual appetite, and I want to share with you the best file for grinding your wife's sex drive to 11. Introducing: Horny Right Now (With Inner Calm).
This is an amazing file. It will kickstart your wife's sex drive and imagination. It will help condition her to want sex all the time. For lack of a better word, it's the first gear toward a full-throttle nympomaniac. If your wife isn't sucking cock, or taking it up the ass -- or even performing simple hand-jobs, then you need to boost her libido, and this is the file for doing so.
The best part is that the file's secondary purpose is attaining inner calm, and this part of the affirmation is geared toward sex, too. Oh sure, she's going to hear affirmations helping her relax, calm down, and find peace. But your wife is going to discover that centering herself, finding balance, releasing stress: all of these activities arouse her, and that having sex and orgasming is the best way to find peace and relax. It is a never-ending loop of heightened sexuality that you will be the primary beneficiary of.
Horny Right Now is available in the SubliminalWifeTraining.com store here:
http://subliminalwifetraining.com/product/horny-right-now-with-inner-calm-ocean-sounds/
But I'm not sorry one bit!
We had a great six-day weekend. My parents came to town and we took them to the coast. Mom's business is doing well, so she bought dinner the first few nights. My new business is doing well, so I bought dinner the next few nights. That first night on the coast at dinner the wife told me how badly she needed my cock, and with the natural waves playing through an open window, she proved it.
I have noticed that if she starts to lag a little in her programming, like.. maybe we had 4-5 great days of hand jobs and oral sex, I'll stop playing anything for her, and her mind will fill in the blanks from the sudden loss of instructions. What results is usually her hungry pussy greedily devouring my cock.
Ok, ok, I do have an apology for you all. I neglected everyone this week in favor of my wife's well-trained, insatiable sexual appetite, and I want to share with you the best file for grinding your wife's sex drive to 11. Introducing: Horny Right Now (With Inner Calm).
This is an amazing file. It will kickstart your wife's sex drive and imagination. It will help condition her to want sex all the time. For lack of a better word, it's the first gear toward a full-throttle nympomaniac. If your wife isn't sucking cock, or taking it up the ass -- or even performing simple hand-jobs, then you need to boost her libido, and this is the file for doing so.
The best part is that the file's secondary purpose is attaining inner calm, and this part of the affirmation is geared toward sex, too. Oh sure, she's going to hear affirmations helping her relax, calm down, and find peace. But your wife is going to discover that centering herself, finding balance, releasing stress: all of these activities arouse her, and that having sex and orgasming is the best way to find peace and relax. It is a never-ending loop of heightened sexuality that you will be the primary beneficiary of.
Horny Right Now is available in the SubliminalWifeTraining.com store here:
http://subliminalwifetraining.com/product/horny-right-now-with-inner-calm-ocean-sounds/
Thursday, August 6, 2015
"What's the end game?"
Hopeful writes: "Just wondered regarding the subs where do you think you are
looking to go with them ultimately? Also, regarding oral worship, has any guy turned bi as a
result of listening exposure to the IOS files? I know you said in one
post that one wife wanted to do prostate massage to one guy who was
playing files relating to anal."
The ultimate goal of these files is a happy, healthy relationship for a married couple. Many men stray, I believe, because they want something more out of their sex lives -- and they don't know how to get that from their wives, because who the hell actually talks to their wives about that? They want "strange" (a friend's name for sex with strangers), or just something outside of the ordinary. I feel like my subs can make a real difference, because if your wife starts doing all the things you thought you'd ever want in bed, you're going to naturally reciprocate. OMG... I've got a woman who cooks, cleans, takes care of the kids, AND gives me amazing sex almost every night? You better believe I'm going to do everything I can to meet her needs to the fullest.
As far as turning bi from listening to the cock worship file? You've seen how I've crafted the files... I've been listening non stop to my Oral, Masturbation, Sex Toys and other various files (anal!) for years at this point, and I can assure you I have no craving for cock lol. The files are created with a woman specifically talking about her husband. "I love my husband's cock," etc. I make sure to never refer to random cocks, because this is about focusing the woman on her husband. The husband is going to hear these voices too, but when it decyphers "woman's voice, desiring husband's cock," it's going to associate it immediately as, "Ah, must be part of the sub I bought her." For her, she hears a woman's voice saying she wants her husband's cock, she's not going to have anything to associate it with, and will automatically assume it's her own voice, and her own thoughts.
The ultimate goal of these files is a happy, healthy relationship for a married couple. Many men stray, I believe, because they want something more out of their sex lives -- and they don't know how to get that from their wives, because who the hell actually talks to their wives about that? They want "strange" (a friend's name for sex with strangers), or just something outside of the ordinary. I feel like my subs can make a real difference, because if your wife starts doing all the things you thought you'd ever want in bed, you're going to naturally reciprocate. OMG... I've got a woman who cooks, cleans, takes care of the kids, AND gives me amazing sex almost every night? You better believe I'm going to do everything I can to meet her needs to the fullest.
As far as turning bi from listening to the cock worship file? You've seen how I've crafted the files... I've been listening non stop to my Oral, Masturbation, Sex Toys and other various files (anal!) for years at this point, and I can assure you I have no craving for cock lol. The files are created with a woman specifically talking about her husband. "I love my husband's cock," etc. I make sure to never refer to random cocks, because this is about focusing the woman on her husband. The husband is going to hear these voices too, but when it decyphers "woman's voice, desiring husband's cock," it's going to associate it immediately as, "Ah, must be part of the sub I bought her." For her, she hears a woman's voice saying she wants her husband's cock, she's not going to have anything to associate it with, and will automatically assume it's her own voice, and her own thoughts.
Another
reason why I specifically state it as "my husband" and not just 'cocks'
or "my significant other's cock" or whatever: my kids come in the room
sometimes. If my daughter hears these files, and is changed by them in
any way, it will be in an increased desire to service her husband,whoever that ends up being some day, and not just any punk in the back seat of a car on Prom night.
My parents are in town this week, so not much action as far as crafting new files, and it's a little awkward: "Yeah, I've, uh, been doing really well with a new internet venture."
"Oh, what's that, son?"
"Um, well, you know... I sell... things on the internet."
"Huh. Ok."
"Huh. Ok."
:-|
SWT
Monday, August 3, 2015
Identifying What Works and What Doesn't
Friday night she attacked me with the Fleshlight. If I haven't mentioned how amazing it is to have a woman sex up your cock with one of these, consider this me doing it now. Basically, it's like her giving you a fantastic fucking -- but with a well-lubed vagina she holds in her hand. She's still a little bent about finding out last week, but she can't resist the Cock Worship training she's had already. She just needed to make me cum, and we both know that this is the best toy we've found for doing it.
I'd call that a great start to the weekend, but it only got better. I've been playing the special mix I made to salvage the situation after "The Great Discovery" and so she couldn't help but wake me up early Saturday, stroking my cock to hardness and asking me to slide it up against her pussy. She was already sopping wet. "I am so fucking horny for you this morning," she growled. I teased her until she started groaning, and then slid into her, surprising both of us with how good she found it.
"God yes, this this this!" She hasn't accepted the "please" commands in the training file yet, so no abject begging, but I asked her if this was what she needed, and she moaned a yes. "Yes, I need your cock so bad! Oh my God, I need this!" She came so hard, so quickly... I wasn't even close to ready.
Which was just fine by me. I watched her beautiful body recover in its afterglow, knowing that by the time evening rolled around... she'd be ready to reciprocate. :D
More emails this week from prospective clients and beginning-to-be satisfied customers. "She's become a lot more 'touchy-feely'" came from Spike, and AGoodStart writes "she sent me a text saying she had been thinking about 'snuggling' tonight... That's our word for doing it!"
So how can you identify if a subliminal works or not? The simple matter is, with enough time, every subliminal will have an effect on her. She's going to respond more quickly if she's exposed to the file more -- I always recommend playing it every night where it's within earshot for her. She's going to respond more quickly if she is not already committed to being *against* it.
For instance: I discovered that the watching porn file was not working with her because she had made a conscious commitment to not watch porn. In her mind, when the voices in her head started insisting she watch porn, she assumed it was some weakness in her trying to break her resolve to stay away from it, and redoubled her efforts. All the files were doing at this point were causing anxiety in her, which was not the desired result at all!
If your wife has a religious objection to anal sex, for instance, it's going to take a while to change her mind about it. She's spent a lifetime building up "buttsex is bad" -- that won't change with a week's worth of subliminal training. The question you want to ask yourself is "Do I want to force this change, or are there other actions I can get traction on instead?" For me, I'm doubling down on the porn watching, because I think once I addict her to watching porn, she'll start becoming a lot more open to other activities, for virtue of watching and masturbating to it all the time. You just need to learn to read the signs: is she slowly moving toward or away from the goal you have in mind. If it seems like "away" then that's your sign that this will be a harder, more uphill journey than first expected.
As always, let me know how your wife's training is going. I love hearing about your success (and frustration) stories! You can email me @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com. I answer every email, usually. :p
SWT
I'd call that a great start to the weekend, but it only got better. I've been playing the special mix I made to salvage the situation after "The Great Discovery" and so she couldn't help but wake me up early Saturday, stroking my cock to hardness and asking me to slide it up against her pussy. She was already sopping wet. "I am so fucking horny for you this morning," she growled. I teased her until she started groaning, and then slid into her, surprising both of us with how good she found it.
"God yes, this this this!" She hasn't accepted the "please" commands in the training file yet, so no abject begging, but I asked her if this was what she needed, and she moaned a yes. "Yes, I need your cock so bad! Oh my God, I need this!" She came so hard, so quickly... I wasn't even close to ready.
Which was just fine by me. I watched her beautiful body recover in its afterglow, knowing that by the time evening rolled around... she'd be ready to reciprocate. :D
More emails this week from prospective clients and beginning-to-be satisfied customers. "She's become a lot more 'touchy-feely'" came from Spike, and AGoodStart writes "she sent me a text saying she had been thinking about 'snuggling' tonight... That's our word for doing it!"
So how can you identify if a subliminal works or not? The simple matter is, with enough time, every subliminal will have an effect on her. She's going to respond more quickly if she's exposed to the file more -- I always recommend playing it every night where it's within earshot for her. She's going to respond more quickly if she is not already committed to being *against* it.
For instance: I discovered that the watching porn file was not working with her because she had made a conscious commitment to not watch porn. In her mind, when the voices in her head started insisting she watch porn, she assumed it was some weakness in her trying to break her resolve to stay away from it, and redoubled her efforts. All the files were doing at this point were causing anxiety in her, which was not the desired result at all!
If your wife has a religious objection to anal sex, for instance, it's going to take a while to change her mind about it. She's spent a lifetime building up "buttsex is bad" -- that won't change with a week's worth of subliminal training. The question you want to ask yourself is "Do I want to force this change, or are there other actions I can get traction on instead?" For me, I'm doubling down on the porn watching, because I think once I addict her to watching porn, she'll start becoming a lot more open to other activities, for virtue of watching and masturbating to it all the time. You just need to learn to read the signs: is she slowly moving toward or away from the goal you have in mind. If it seems like "away" then that's your sign that this will be a harder, more uphill journey than first expected.
As always, let me know how your wife's training is going. I love hearing about your success (and frustration) stories! You can email me @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com. I answer every email, usually. :p
SWT
Friday, July 31, 2015
When the Shoe Drops
It all started on Saturday.
"Can I borrow your phone?" she asked, as we were driving home from wherever. I handed it to her and she was browsing around and opened up the Safari browser...
Where I still had my SWT gmail open.
"What's this?" She asked, somewhat amused. As I explained, she grew very upset. "You've been using me for experiments?! You're selling these files?!" That night was a sexless one, as you might expect.
The next evening, we had a long discussion. She had to agree that the files worked, evidenced by the weight loss and exercise success, but she also pointed out that since she hadn't been watching porn or masturbating, that the sexual affirmations weren't going to work on someone who was opposed to doing those things. She said I could not experiment on her any more, and then she proved to me that all her training has been 100% successful so far. She also explained that she had made a conscious decision to stop watching porn about a year ago, because she thought it would help our relationship.
Ah ha!
She asked for a new file, that didn't have any experiments in it. That's fine. I am no longer experimenting with her. I know exactly how to shape her mind. Then she started sucking my cock, as though to prove it was always her idea, and that she was always the best cock-sucker I'd ever known. It was an amazing orgasm, and she milked me dry.
I made her a new file, based on the weight loss file she knows and likes. I modified the format slightly, and added a set of affirmations that go like this:
Yes. These subliminals work. They always work.
Yes. I am always horny.
Yes. It is ok to watch porn with my husband. Watching porn is good for our relationship.
Yes. Please fuck my throat. Please come in my mouth.
Yes. I am a horny come slut.
Yes. I have always enjoyed my subliminal training.
Yes. I release all anxiety.
Yes. I always watch porn with my husband.
Yes. I accept my husband's subliminals.
Yes. I accept my love of porn.
Yes. I wear red nail polish.
Yes. I am my husband's dirty, horny come-slut.
Yes. I am so wet and horny right now.
Yes. Wearing red nail polish is sexy.
Yes.I always beg for my husband's cock.
Yes. I will make my husband watch porn tonight.
Yes. I have always worn red nail polish.
Yes. Please fuck my throat. Please.
Yes. I will swallow my husband's come.
Yes. I am my husband's dirty, horny come-slut.
A thirty-minute file of nothing but this and more lines like it.
This week has been interesting... We have my parents coming to visit next weekend, and the wife is massively stressed out cleaning the house. She gave me a great hand job on Tuesday, but Wednesday and yesterday were sexual blanks. Last night, though, she started talking to me about how well my scripts work, and the kinds of new files we could make for the site! WOW. She went from massively upset about it, to wanting to be IN ON IT!
This morning, though, she expressed a desire to spend "snuggle time" with me tonight, and when I glanced at her phone?
She started watching porn this week.
Victory!
At Subliminal Wife Training, we think the best policy is always to share with your wife your desires to improve your sexual relationship, but we also understand that sometimes you need a little "stealth" support. Use our files wisely and safely, and if the wife finds out: be open and honest with her. You could have spent money at Ashley Madison or a whore on Backpages, but instead, you bought something that you thought would help improve your intimacy.
If she loves you like you love her, it will all work out.
New items in the store: Advanced Cock Worship finally went live. Masturbation Mastery is coming, as well as a new product line: Intro to Sex Toys! In addition, I'm making a version of the Power Conversion script I've been running on the wife this week that I'll make available. It's sole purpose will be stress and anxiety relief with subliminal acceptance... Play this one for a few weeks, and she'll start wanting more. Then you hit her with the good stuff!
Link for the Advanced Cock Worship files: http://t.co/RB6HxiRsHg
SWT
"Can I borrow your phone?" she asked, as we were driving home from wherever. I handed it to her and she was browsing around and opened up the Safari browser...
Where I still had my SWT gmail open.
"What's this?" She asked, somewhat amused. As I explained, she grew very upset. "You've been using me for experiments?! You're selling these files?!" That night was a sexless one, as you might expect.
The next evening, we had a long discussion. She had to agree that the files worked, evidenced by the weight loss and exercise success, but she also pointed out that since she hadn't been watching porn or masturbating, that the sexual affirmations weren't going to work on someone who was opposed to doing those things. She said I could not experiment on her any more, and then she proved to me that all her training has been 100% successful so far. She also explained that she had made a conscious decision to stop watching porn about a year ago, because she thought it would help our relationship.
Ah ha!
She asked for a new file, that didn't have any experiments in it. That's fine. I am no longer experimenting with her. I know exactly how to shape her mind. Then she started sucking my cock, as though to prove it was always her idea, and that she was always the best cock-sucker I'd ever known. It was an amazing orgasm, and she milked me dry.
I made her a new file, based on the weight loss file she knows and likes. I modified the format slightly, and added a set of affirmations that go like this:
Yes. These subliminals work. They always work.
Yes. I am always horny.
Yes. It is ok to watch porn with my husband. Watching porn is good for our relationship.
Yes. Please fuck my throat. Please come in my mouth.
Yes. I am a horny come slut.
Yes. I have always enjoyed my subliminal training.
Yes. I release all anxiety.
Yes. I always watch porn with my husband.
Yes. I accept my husband's subliminals.
Yes. I accept my love of porn.
Yes. I wear red nail polish.
Yes. I am my husband's dirty, horny come-slut.
Yes. I am so wet and horny right now.
Yes. Wearing red nail polish is sexy.
Yes.I always beg for my husband's cock.
Yes. I will make my husband watch porn tonight.
Yes. I have always worn red nail polish.
Yes. Please fuck my throat. Please.
Yes. I will swallow my husband's come.
Yes. I am my husband's dirty, horny come-slut.
A thirty-minute file of nothing but this and more lines like it.
This week has been interesting... We have my parents coming to visit next weekend, and the wife is massively stressed out cleaning the house. She gave me a great hand job on Tuesday, but Wednesday and yesterday were sexual blanks. Last night, though, she started talking to me about how well my scripts work, and the kinds of new files we could make for the site! WOW. She went from massively upset about it, to wanting to be IN ON IT!
This morning, though, she expressed a desire to spend "snuggle time" with me tonight, and when I glanced at her phone?
She started watching porn this week.
Victory!
At Subliminal Wife Training, we think the best policy is always to share with your wife your desires to improve your sexual relationship, but we also understand that sometimes you need a little "stealth" support. Use our files wisely and safely, and if the wife finds out: be open and honest with her. You could have spent money at Ashley Madison or a whore on Backpages, but instead, you bought something that you thought would help improve your intimacy.
If she loves you like you love her, it will all work out.
New items in the store: Advanced Cock Worship finally went live. Masturbation Mastery is coming, as well as a new product line: Intro to Sex Toys! In addition, I'm making a version of the Power Conversion script I've been running on the wife this week that I'll make available. It's sole purpose will be stress and anxiety relief with subliminal acceptance... Play this one for a few weeks, and she'll start wanting more. Then you hit her with the good stuff!
Link for the Advanced Cock Worship files: http://t.co/RB6HxiRsHg
SWT
Friday, July 24, 2015
Wife Testing Update
As I mentioned yesterday, she's been having some "downstairs" medical problems, so the sexual activity has fallen off, but her nightly routine in the last few days has been Intro to Cock Worship, Intro and Advanced Masturbation, and Intro to Watching Porn. I haven't seen any increase in porn, but she gave me a handjob last night that was just fantastic.
No blog updates this weekend, but adding new files to the site. We're going to add Advanced Cock Worship to the CW line... give your wife the desire to make stroking, and admiring your cock a regular habit! Also, adding files to the Anal Sex line as well, and a new Lifestyle file: Lips and Nails. If your wife doesn't wear makeup, you'll want to consider getting this one. She's going to start looking good as she plays with the idea of wearing lipstick and nail polish to bed, and starts thinking about sex every time she applies it to her fingers and lips.
Have a great weekend everyone! Don't forget there's a 25% off everything coupon available for readers of the blog: 100Customers25 -- My thanks to all of you for supporting our endeavors to create better wives!
No blog updates this weekend, but adding new files to the site. We're going to add Advanced Cock Worship to the CW line... give your wife the desire to make stroking, and admiring your cock a regular habit! Also, adding files to the Anal Sex line as well, and a new Lifestyle file: Lips and Nails. If your wife doesn't wear makeup, you'll want to consider getting this one. She's going to start looking good as she plays with the idea of wearing lipstick and nail polish to bed, and starts thinking about sex every time she applies it to her fingers and lips.
Have a great weekend everyone! Don't forget there's a 25% off everything coupon available for readers of the blog: 100Customers25 -- My thanks to all of you for supporting our endeavors to create better wives!
Thursday, July 23, 2015
Don't Forget The Rest of Her Life
"Hey, you been thinking about me?" I asked her.
"Yeah," she said.
"Were you naked, horny and aching for my big hard cock?"
"No. I hurt too much."
Something you have to remember is that no amount of subliminal training is going to cause a person to go against their basest survival instincts. For women who've choked on something, maybe, you're going to come against a lot of resistance to oral training. Women who've been burned by a cheating spouse in the future are likely to never warm to the idea of a three-way.
My wife's not completely healed from the pregnancy yet, and a few complications have arisen. She texts me her dirty thoughts, gives great head, but our actual intercourse has been off, and she hasn't responded to the masturbation triggers (as far as I've been able to tell) yet, because she's mucusy, sore, and just generally uncomfortable down there. Getting off would be an excruciating experience.
She tells me she feels awful, feels like she needs to be meeting my needs, and dreams of all the ways she wants to feed on my sex, and so I know the training is digging into her brain, driving her crazy with desire... but until she feels physically capable of performing, she's just not going to.
And that's ok.
At the end of the day, this is all about a husband and wife finding new ways to enjoy themselves sexually and have fantastic intimacy. I'm man enough to put off my carnal desires for a few days to help see her back to health.
If you're not seeing the results from your wife that you're expecting, try to look at all the outside factors in her life that may be distracting her. Kids, work, in-laws, the state of the house, finances: all these things can contribute to her being mentally unfocused on servicing your cock properly. Your part of the relationship is to put her in a place where she feels comfortable dreaming about (and having) sex with you all the time.
We'll put the thoughts in her head.
She'll put those thoughts into action.
Win/Win/Win.
SWT
"Yeah," she said.
"Were you naked, horny and aching for my big hard cock?"
"No. I hurt too much."
Something you have to remember is that no amount of subliminal training is going to cause a person to go against their basest survival instincts. For women who've choked on something, maybe, you're going to come against a lot of resistance to oral training. Women who've been burned by a cheating spouse in the future are likely to never warm to the idea of a three-way.
My wife's not completely healed from the pregnancy yet, and a few complications have arisen. She texts me her dirty thoughts, gives great head, but our actual intercourse has been off, and she hasn't responded to the masturbation triggers (as far as I've been able to tell) yet, because she's mucusy, sore, and just generally uncomfortable down there. Getting off would be an excruciating experience.
She tells me she feels awful, feels like she needs to be meeting my needs, and dreams of all the ways she wants to feed on my sex, and so I know the training is digging into her brain, driving her crazy with desire... but until she feels physically capable of performing, she's just not going to.
And that's ok.
At the end of the day, this is all about a husband and wife finding new ways to enjoy themselves sexually and have fantastic intimacy. I'm man enough to put off my carnal desires for a few days to help see her back to health.
If you're not seeing the results from your wife that you're expecting, try to look at all the outside factors in her life that may be distracting her. Kids, work, in-laws, the state of the house, finances: all these things can contribute to her being mentally unfocused on servicing your cock properly. Your part of the relationship is to put her in a place where she feels comfortable dreaming about (and having) sex with you all the time.
We'll put the thoughts in her head.
She'll put those thoughts into action.
Win/Win/Win.
SWT
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