New File: Dress for Sexcess, and a challenge!

We released Dress for Sexcess last night, a new file that will increase your wife's desire to wear sexy clothes during the day: short skirts, high heels, low-cut shirts, and bare midriffs, plus want to wear sexy lingerie and nightwear in bed to heighten both partners' sexual experience. As an added bonus, affirmations are littered throughout the file to encourage her to wear a sexy Halloween costume for you this year (and all through the year after that)!

You can get the Dress for Sexcess file at the SubliminalWifeTraining.com store.

Here's the best part:

If you buy the file, and your wife ends up dressing in a sexy Halloween costume, send me a pic (or post it in the reviews section of the product) and you'll get a 50% off your next order coupon. Any pic you send to me I will black out the face so no one can recognize it (if you want. if you're ok with her face being shown, indicate that).

Two weeks after Halloween we'll run a poll here to vote on whose wife wore the sexiest outfit: winner gets a coupon for ONE FREE product of their choice.

So what are you waiting for? Get Dress for Sexcess today and start training her for your sexiest Halloween ever!

What If My Wife Only Responds Part-Way?

I get emails like this one on occasion -- maybe once every two-to-three weeks.

I bought the oral sex mastery file with weight  loss.  I've been playing it for a week or so.  We practice hypnosis and she is susceptible to subliminals. After the first day she said that she didn't need to eat something cause it wouldn't help her weight loss.  Since then she has mentioned not eating as much during the day.  There however has been no talk of blow jobs which I figured would have happened by now.  Is there a chance that only the weigh-tloss suggestions are on the oral sex mastery file?

The simple answer to that question is No. In fact, there are three times as many oral sex affirmations on that file as there are weight loss affirmations. When I script advanced and mastery files, the text file looks like this:

Sexual Behavior Affirmations

CORE (subliminal acceptance, focus on husband)

Sexual Behavior Affirmations

Bonus Healthy Affirmation (Weight Loss, Energy, Exercise, Wealth, etc)

Sexual Behavior Affirmations

So in every 15 minute file, you're going to find about 9 minutes of sexual affirmations, 3 minutes of subliminal acceptance training, and just 3 minutes of health-related affirmations. The reason why she might respond to those sooner, though, is because in most cases, you've told her "Hey I got us a weight-loss subliminal file." -- Her mind is already scanning the subconscious cues she's getting for those messages, and is more ready to accept them.

Unfortunately, it's not a precise science yet in understanding how soon she'll respond to subliminals she's not expecting. Some men have reported amazing successes in less than a week. Others only partial success after three weeks.

In my case, my wife has responded amazingly to some affirmations, and others just the slightest smidgeon after months. It depends a lot on the woman, how and why she built the mental barriers to that sexual act up, and how much exposure you give her. One of my clients had fantastic success with most of the scripts I sent him -- and on one she reacted so negatively it soured her to sex for a few days.

Be on the lookout for that... If your wife suddenly totally shuts down on you after you start playing a file: STOP PLAYING THAT FILE... Or... only play it very intermittently. Get her mind used to responding well to the things that it's ready for, and slowly introduce the problem-area file, so she isn't bombarded with what she considers "negative" thoughts. Maybe move down to the Intro file, which most women respond very well to.

I am working on a script that will help break down mental resistance to subliminal affirmations. I hope to have that one ready this weekend. That may help in situations like this.

Good luck with your training, and as always, let me know how it's going.Oooh... and I have a special holiday-themed file coming out tonight. You're going to love it!


SWT

All Mystery Files Are Up In The Store

Finally got Touch and Be Touched up in the store (http://subliminalwifetraining.com). So you can get Intro to Sex Toys, Intro to Hypnosis, Intro to Bondage, Dreamslut, and Touch and try your own experiment on your wife if you want. Turns out I was using Dreamslut on my wife and in the end, she admitted to having sexy, explicit dreams and waking needing to act on them!

I'm working on a new batch of files now, and would love to get your feedback on them. Many of these have been suggested by you guys anyway, so I know you've got opinions about them! When I get 5 of them ready, I'll play the subliminal training game with the wife again. She's become really excited by how well they work, and has offered to help me write one -- adding more insights from how her mind works, so we can script it to be more effective for women!

Here are the five scripts (plus one bonus one) I'm writing scripts for now. What do you think? Should I focus on one over the other, or on a different topic altogether?

Sexy Body Image: for women who struggle with accepting their beauty and sexuality. A lot of readers write that their wives are so unhappy with how they look or their weight, or the shape of their body that having sex is uncomfortable, because it reminds them of these issues. This file would help her accept herself for who she is, discover her inner (and outer!) beauty, and remind her of how much you love and lust for her and how desirable she truly is, learning to love and lust and desire her own pleasure more and more every day.

Dress for Sexsess: shorter skirts, barer midriffs, pushup bras, displayed cleavage, sexy lingerie. We want our wives to wear them. This file will help her want to wear them too.

Advanced Dreamslut: even more nocturnal training. You think she's a beast in bed now? Her mind is going to be under orgasmic bombardment all night long, and that can only lead to even more sex when she wakes up.

Intro to Submission: a partner product for Intro to Bondage. IBO doesn't have a lot of D/S tones. This file is all about being submissive, submitting to her husband, and setting a mindset of service-minded pleasure for the wife, not only in the bedroom, but in the relationship as a whole.

Focus - Waxing: Based on a reader suggestion. This is a file that focuses the wife's attention on one thing, and one thing only: being hairless from the neck down.


What do you guys think? Which one should I try on the wife? Which one would you most like to try on your wife? Send me emails to thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com. I answer every email personally.

Intro to Bondage

Our Intro to Bondage file dropped today. It should help drive a curiosity and desire to try being tied up into your wife. This is one my wife refused to try. She has some very active mental blocks against being submissive, and so it was way off the table. No worries. My buddy said his wife loved the 50 Shades of Gray books, and took all her girlfriends to see the movie. So he was happy to help test. According to him, she sheepishly asked him if he'd put a blindfold on her just four days later, and was so overwhelmed with how intense sex with sensory deprivation can be, eagerly accepted rope play the next night!

Intro to Bondage is for women who've never tried rope or deprivation play, and as such is focused on the physical aspects of the act. There are no strong D/S themes in this file. That comes in the second file in this series, Advanced Bondage, which incorporates strong submission affirmations.

Regularly $19.99, Intro to Bondage is on sale for $9.99 this week. This first version of the set comes with the Love to Exercise bonus affirmations. You can get it at the SubliminalWifeTraining.com store.

As part of a new feature on the blog (something that gets asked ALL THE TIME!), here are the affirmations for Intro to Bondage.

I find myself thinking about being tied up in bed.
I am starting to fantasize about being blindfolded during sex.
I will enjoy having sex when I am tied up.
I am becoming aroused at the thought of bondage.
I get horny when I think about my husband tying me up for sex.
My pussy gets wet when I think about being blindfolded during sex.
It is easy to let go of my inhibitions when I am tied up.
It is very arousing to be tied up.
I get wet when my husband handcuffs me.
I wonder how arousing it is to be tied up during sex.
I am going to enjoy being tied up for sex.
I will ask my husband to tie my hands to the bed tonight.
I am excited about the possibility of being blindfolded during sex.
I have powerful orgasms when I am tied up during sex.
My nipples get super sensitive when I am blindfolded.
It is very easy for me to orgasm when I am tied up and blindfolded.
I have always wondered what it would be like to be tied up like in 50 Shades of Gray.
I am fantasizing about being tied down during sex.
I will read books about bondage.
Books about bondage fascinate me.
I imagine I am the heroine when I read bondage stories.
I want to be tied up in bed.
I want my husband to tie me up for sex.
I will ask my husband to tie me up for sex.
I am going to look for a bondage kit to buy online.
I am going to buy a bondage kit online.
I have always wanted to buy bondage kits.
My pussy is getting wetter and wetter.
Wearing a blindfold will make my pussy drip.
Wearing a blindfold makes sex 100% better.
I always orgasm when I am fucked with a blindfold on.
I am curious about bondage.
I want to explore bondage with my husband.
I want my husband to put me in bondage.
I am fantasizing about my husband fucking me while I am tied up.
I am masturbating about being fucked by my husband while tied up.
I will orgasm when my husband fucks me while I am tied up.
Bondage is a fun, natural part of a healthy sex life.
I love watching movies about bondage, like 50 Shades of Gray.
I hope my husband ties me up tonight.
I am thinking about my husband tying me up.
My pussy will get so wet when I am tied up.
I am going to love being tied up by my husband.
Being tied up and blindfolded is sexy.
I will ask my husband to tie me up and blindfold me.
I am going to buy a blindfold.
I will wear a blindfold to bed.
I want to be tied up during sex more and more.

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Six: SUCCESS!

She woke me up working my cock with her hands and mouth. I was so hard, and it wasn't difficult to see why. She teased my cock, slowly sucking the head into her mouth, swirling her tongue around it, then pulling the rest of the shaft in, forcing me deeper, her hands stroking and cupping my balls as she slowly took it all the way in, and then just as slowly out.

"Oh my God," I think were the first words I said -- always a better start than "Good morning."

"I dreamt about you last night," she said. "I dreamt that you standing over me, commanding me to masturbate. It was cold and clinical -- not even erotic. But it was so compelling, I had to do it. I had to masturbate. And the feeling was so intense it woke me up."

"Wow!" I said. "Really?"

She didn't say anything for a minute. Her mouth was on my cock again. It was... exquisite. She is amazing with her mouth.

"When I woke up, I realized how wet and horny I am. I need your cock. Right now. Please."

She never says please.

Needless to say, the rest of the morning was a fantastic lovemaking session, and I am considering the Dreamslut file -- the mystery subliminal I was training her with -- a resounding success.

She reports that even though it's hard to believe, she has to admit the file and its training must have caused this. She's never had this vivid of an erotic dream before -- and never been woken up due to a dream's intensity. While she's woken up wet and horny before (my files do this a lot! :D) the fact that it was all caused by her dream-state really convinced her of the file's efficacy.

The best part? She was so impressed with how well this worked on her, she's already decided she wants to try another one. I'm going to go into the research lab this week and come up with some ideas to try on her. You guys have any ideas? Some sort of kink or slutty/sex activity you wish your wife did? Let me know! You can always email me @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Five

The wife admitted she was feeling hornier today. She's not sure if it's because of the subliminals though. She doesn't think so, but admits that it certainly could be. I take that as a good sign. Her mind is starting to weaken to the training, and soon she'll be accepting all the affirmations. Soon, we'll know exactly which mystery subliminal I've given her! (Insert evil scientist cackle here)

We have our first product recall:

If you bought Dreamslut with Ocean Sounds, and you're unhappy with the sound level, PLEASE email me at thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com with your order number, and I'll send you a newly remastered version that has ocean levels at the same volume as all our other files. I was experimenting with a quieter sound for sleep/dream purposes, and forgot to consider that folks would be streaming this in with other files. D'oh!

More great success stories rolling in today. Also, a question was asked about our privacy policy. I will put this on the store soon, but in case anyone wanted to know, this is our specific policy:

In a nutshell, though, my privacy policy is this:

My goal is to help maintain full anonymity for all customers. To that end, I will never email you, unless you add yourself to the site's mailing list -- in which case, WordPress automatically sends emails when there's a new product announcement.

I do not care where anyone lives... the WooCommerce shopping cart will ask for an address when you create an account: make up a fake one. I don't care. I won't ever look at it, no one else will ever see it.

I do not have access to any of your financial information. My payment processor is PayPal. When you make a transaction, you are redirected to Paypal's site, where the transaction is handled securely, and I never see any of it except a receipt from PayPal saying "he's paid, send him his files."

Your privacy is a top concern. I would except the same from any similar site I shopped from.

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Four

Wife still reports no change in behavior or mindset. She doesn't feel like the file is doing anything.

Last night, as I passed her in the bedroom, she grabbed at me, ripped my pants off, and started sucking my cock. I was surprised at the aggressiveness of her desire, and got off entirely too quickly. :/ (Damn I hate getting old!) Even with as much awesome sex as we have now, she still has the ability to surprise me and make me crazy and cumming like a virgin.

So, for the record, the mystery subliminal may be boosting her arousal and desire levels, but the specific "signs of proof" that I can use to confirm it is working at 100% are not there yet. We're doing this for another week, though, so I will let you know as we go.


Sometimes, small steps are all you can take. Every step forward is a step closer to sexual nirvana, I always say. Like customer EK, who writes, "I must say she has completely stopped complaining about how often I want sex.  I can lay my hands, touch and caress and I don't get pushed away anymore.  Awesome."

I must say she has completely stopped complaining about how often I want sex.  I can lay my hands, touch and caress and I don't get pushed away anymore.  Awesome.

The key, as always, is exposure. The more you expose her to her training, the stronger the training will be. Good luck, and happy training!