Crisis averted. We are back up -- and no longer using Paypal. Fuck those guys.

Two Weeks?!

Holy cow! It's been almost two weeks since I last posted. Yikes! Well.. that's better than not posting in more than a year, right? :)

Sorry I haven't posted in a while. It's not for lack of desire, but lack of time -- and even though every book on blogging says "Don't ever post about why you haven't blogged in a while, no one cares," I don't care. I feel like I need to apologize. Life in the SWT household has been insane. My day-job came to a sudden end at the beginning of October, and I've been crazily expanding my efforts in every other category of my life to make up for the lost-income.

This site makes significantly more than I expected it would when it started, Thank You! You guys have really helped us stay afloat. Unfortunately, Paypal realized I was swapping a lot of money from this account to our personal account and locked down the SWT account. We're using a second, backup account for now, and hope to get the SWT one back up. If you try to order and get any kind of error messages, let us know. I have an alternative payment method that has proven popular with my customers who can't use Paypal.

We have three new products coming out this week: "Orgasmic Slut" -- which maximizes your wife's desire to cum, however possible. If you're around, she'll crave your cock in her, and find herself easily driven to orgasm. If you're not, her fingers are going to go diving, and she'll slowly become addicted to self-pleasure. This is a great add-on or starter for the Masturbation series, they have similar goals, and lead into each other.

Next up will be "Swallow" -- a file to supplement all the Oral Sex files. This file has no other purpose than to focus your wife's attention on the cumshot. She's going to want to take your load in your mouth. Affirmations will bombard her mind, transforming her ideas about the taste and texture of your cum. She will find it's an acquired taste, and the more she tastes it, the more she's going to want to taste it. She will start associating her self with the phrase "cumslut" and will find the phrase itself arousing when she says and accepts it.

Finally, Cock Worship Mastery, long in the works, is expected to go live this week too. This takes the desire and joy of stroking you off that Advanced Cock Worship has been fomenting and converts it into a greedy addiction. Her focus will be on stroking your cock and making you come as often as she can, reveling in having you shoot your load all over her face and tits. This is a dangerous file -- you run the risk of being milked dry with this one. Use at your own risk!


Thank you, again, for helping keep us afloat. Your support has been a constant source of inspiration to me. I only hope I can return the favor by successfully manipulating your wife's desires and kinks to match your own.

SWT

Advanced Dress for Sexcess, with Celebrity Guest Author

"What file did you put up this week," she asked, working up and down on my cock with her hands and mouth.  Now that she knows about the subliminals, and how they've changed our relationship and her attitudes toward sex, she's fascinated with them.

"Dress for sexcess. It's all about convincing the wife to wear sexy clothes and lingerie."

"Oh, my God. You have NO fashion sense! You don't know how women think or why they buy what they buy!" I was in no place to argue.. I was on the verge of coming.  "You have to let me write this one. I will do so much better with this script than you could." I could only groan.

Anyway, we both got our wish. I blew a massive load all over her face and tits, and she got to write our new script. To be honest, I think it's pretty amazing, too. She's actually been reading and studying on how to approach subliminal script writing, and had some very innovative ideas. So I'm proud to announce Mrs. SWT's very first subliminal script: Advanced Dress for Sexcess. Affirmations go far beyond just wanting to buy and wear sexy clothing and lingerie. This script ties her affection and love for you into a desire to wear the kinds of clothes that turn you on and arouse you. It builds her confidence in her body image and sexuality, and encourages her to accept it, love it, and flaunt it through her clothing choices, and it builds a strong connection between arousal and clothing choices: the sexier her clothes, the more aroused she'll become, and the joint pleasure between the two will turn wearing sexy clothes and lingerie into a habit she won't be able to break.

I think this is the most powerful file we've ever scripted. It normally sells for $24.99, but it's on sale for the first week at just $12.99. Get it today, but be prepared... She's going to want to take you shopping! You can get it at the SubliminalWifeTraining store here: http://subliminalwifetraining.com/product/advanced-dress-for-sexcess/

New File: Dress for Sexcess, and a challenge!

We released Dress for Sexcess last night, a new file that will increase your wife's desire to wear sexy clothes during the day: short skirts, high heels, low-cut shirts, and bare midriffs, plus want to wear sexy lingerie and nightwear in bed to heighten both partners' sexual experience. As an added bonus, affirmations are littered throughout the file to encourage her to wear a sexy Halloween costume for you this year (and all through the year after that)!

You can get the Dress for Sexcess file at the SubliminalWifeTraining.com store.

Here's the best part:

If you buy the file, and your wife ends up dressing in a sexy Halloween costume, send me a pic (or post it in the reviews section of the product) and you'll get a 50% off your next order coupon. Any pic you send to me I will black out the face so no one can recognize it (if you want. if you're ok with her face being shown, indicate that).

Two weeks after Halloween we'll run a poll here to vote on whose wife wore the sexiest outfit: winner gets a coupon for ONE FREE product of their choice.

So what are you waiting for? Get Dress for Sexcess today and start training her for your sexiest Halloween ever!

What If My Wife Only Responds Part-Way?

I get emails like this one on occasion -- maybe once every two-to-three weeks.

I bought the oral sex mastery file with weight  loss.  I've been playing it for a week or so.  We practice hypnosis and she is susceptible to subliminals. After the first day she said that she didn't need to eat something cause it wouldn't help her weight loss.  Since then she has mentioned not eating as much during the day.  There however has been no talk of blow jobs which I figured would have happened by now.  Is there a chance that only the weigh-tloss suggestions are on the oral sex mastery file?

The simple answer to that question is No. In fact, there are three times as many oral sex affirmations on that file as there are weight loss affirmations. When I script advanced and mastery files, the text file looks like this:

Sexual Behavior Affirmations

CORE (subliminal acceptance, focus on husband)

Sexual Behavior Affirmations

Bonus Healthy Affirmation (Weight Loss, Energy, Exercise, Wealth, etc)

Sexual Behavior Affirmations

So in every 15 minute file, you're going to find about 9 minutes of sexual affirmations, 3 minutes of subliminal acceptance training, and just 3 minutes of health-related affirmations. The reason why she might respond to those sooner, though, is because in most cases, you've told her "Hey I got us a weight-loss subliminal file." -- Her mind is already scanning the subconscious cues she's getting for those messages, and is more ready to accept them.

Unfortunately, it's not a precise science yet in understanding how soon she'll respond to subliminals she's not expecting. Some men have reported amazing successes in less than a week. Others only partial success after three weeks.

In my case, my wife has responded amazingly to some affirmations, and others just the slightest smidgeon after months. It depends a lot on the woman, how and why she built the mental barriers to that sexual act up, and how much exposure you give her. One of my clients had fantastic success with most of the scripts I sent him -- and on one she reacted so negatively it soured her to sex for a few days.

Be on the lookout for that... If your wife suddenly totally shuts down on you after you start playing a file: STOP PLAYING THAT FILE... Or... only play it very intermittently. Get her mind used to responding well to the things that it's ready for, and slowly introduce the problem-area file, so she isn't bombarded with what she considers "negative" thoughts. Maybe move down to the Intro file, which most women respond very well to.

I am working on a script that will help break down mental resistance to subliminal affirmations. I hope to have that one ready this weekend. That may help in situations like this.

Good luck with your training, and as always, let me know how it's going.Oooh... and I have a special holiday-themed file coming out tonight. You're going to love it!


SWT

All Mystery Files Are Up In The Store

Finally got Touch and Be Touched up in the store (http://subliminalwifetraining.com). So you can get Intro to Sex Toys, Intro to Hypnosis, Intro to Bondage, Dreamslut, and Touch and try your own experiment on your wife if you want. Turns out I was using Dreamslut on my wife and in the end, she admitted to having sexy, explicit dreams and waking needing to act on them!

I'm working on a new batch of files now, and would love to get your feedback on them. Many of these have been suggested by you guys anyway, so I know you've got opinions about them! When I get 5 of them ready, I'll play the subliminal training game with the wife again. She's become really excited by how well they work, and has offered to help me write one -- adding more insights from how her mind works, so we can script it to be more effective for women!

Here are the five scripts (plus one bonus one) I'm writing scripts for now. What do you think? Should I focus on one over the other, or on a different topic altogether?

Sexy Body Image: for women who struggle with accepting their beauty and sexuality. A lot of readers write that their wives are so unhappy with how they look or their weight, or the shape of their body that having sex is uncomfortable, because it reminds them of these issues. This file would help her accept herself for who she is, discover her inner (and outer!) beauty, and remind her of how much you love and lust for her and how desirable she truly is, learning to love and lust and desire her own pleasure more and more every day.

Dress for Sexsess: shorter skirts, barer midriffs, pushup bras, displayed cleavage, sexy lingerie. We want our wives to wear them. This file will help her want to wear them too.

Advanced Dreamslut: even more nocturnal training. You think she's a beast in bed now? Her mind is going to be under orgasmic bombardment all night long, and that can only lead to even more sex when she wakes up.

Intro to Submission: a partner product for Intro to Bondage. IBO doesn't have a lot of D/S tones. This file is all about being submissive, submitting to her husband, and setting a mindset of service-minded pleasure for the wife, not only in the bedroom, but in the relationship as a whole.

Focus - Waxing: Based on a reader suggestion. This is a file that focuses the wife's attention on one thing, and one thing only: being hairless from the neck down.


What do you guys think? Which one should I try on the wife? Which one would you most like to try on your wife? Send me emails to thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com. I answer every email personally.

Intro to Bondage

Our Intro to Bondage file dropped today. It should help drive a curiosity and desire to try being tied up into your wife. This is one my wife refused to try. She has some very active mental blocks against being submissive, and so it was way off the table. No worries. My buddy said his wife loved the 50 Shades of Gray books, and took all her girlfriends to see the movie. So he was happy to help test. According to him, she sheepishly asked him if he'd put a blindfold on her just four days later, and was so overwhelmed with how intense sex with sensory deprivation can be, eagerly accepted rope play the next night!

Intro to Bondage is for women who've never tried rope or deprivation play, and as such is focused on the physical aspects of the act. There are no strong D/S themes in this file. That comes in the second file in this series, Advanced Bondage, which incorporates strong submission affirmations.

Regularly $19.99, Intro to Bondage is on sale for $9.99 this week. This first version of the set comes with the Love to Exercise bonus affirmations. You can get it at the SubliminalWifeTraining.com store.

As part of a new feature on the blog (something that gets asked ALL THE TIME!), here are the affirmations for Intro to Bondage.

I find myself thinking about being tied up in bed.
I am starting to fantasize about being blindfolded during sex.
I will enjoy having sex when I am tied up.
I am becoming aroused at the thought of bondage.
I get horny when I think about my husband tying me up for sex.
My pussy gets wet when I think about being blindfolded during sex.
It is easy to let go of my inhibitions when I am tied up.
It is very arousing to be tied up.
I get wet when my husband handcuffs me.
I wonder how arousing it is to be tied up during sex.
I am going to enjoy being tied up for sex.
I will ask my husband to tie my hands to the bed tonight.
I am excited about the possibility of being blindfolded during sex.
I have powerful orgasms when I am tied up during sex.
My nipples get super sensitive when I am blindfolded.
It is very easy for me to orgasm when I am tied up and blindfolded.
I have always wondered what it would be like to be tied up like in 50 Shades of Gray.
I am fantasizing about being tied down during sex.
I will read books about bondage.
Books about bondage fascinate me.
I imagine I am the heroine when I read bondage stories.
I want to be tied up in bed.
I want my husband to tie me up for sex.
I will ask my husband to tie me up for sex.
I am going to look for a bondage kit to buy online.
I am going to buy a bondage kit online.
I have always wanted to buy bondage kits.
My pussy is getting wetter and wetter.
Wearing a blindfold will make my pussy drip.
Wearing a blindfold makes sex 100% better.
I always orgasm when I am fucked with a blindfold on.
I am curious about bondage.
I want to explore bondage with my husband.
I want my husband to put me in bondage.
I am fantasizing about my husband fucking me while I am tied up.
I am masturbating about being fucked by my husband while tied up.
I will orgasm when my husband fucks me while I am tied up.
Bondage is a fun, natural part of a healthy sex life.
I love watching movies about bondage, like 50 Shades of Gray.
I hope my husband ties me up tonight.
I am thinking about my husband tying me up.
My pussy will get so wet when I am tied up.
I am going to love being tied up by my husband.
Being tied up and blindfolded is sexy.
I will ask my husband to tie me up and blindfold me.
I am going to buy a blindfold.
I will wear a blindfold to bed.
I want to be tied up during sex more and more.

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Six: SUCCESS!

She woke me up working my cock with her hands and mouth. I was so hard, and it wasn't difficult to see why. She teased my cock, slowly sucking the head into her mouth, swirling her tongue around it, then pulling the rest of the shaft in, forcing me deeper, her hands stroking and cupping my balls as she slowly took it all the way in, and then just as slowly out.

"Oh my God," I think were the first words I said -- always a better start than "Good morning."

"I dreamt about you last night," she said. "I dreamt that you standing over me, commanding me to masturbate. It was cold and clinical -- not even erotic. But it was so compelling, I had to do it. I had to masturbate. And the feeling was so intense it woke me up."

"Wow!" I said. "Really?"

She didn't say anything for a minute. Her mouth was on my cock again. It was... exquisite. She is amazing with her mouth.

"When I woke up, I realized how wet and horny I am. I need your cock. Right now. Please."

She never says please.

Needless to say, the rest of the morning was a fantastic lovemaking session, and I am considering the Dreamslut file -- the mystery subliminal I was training her with -- a resounding success.

She reports that even though it's hard to believe, she has to admit the file and its training must have caused this. She's never had this vivid of an erotic dream before -- and never been woken up due to a dream's intensity. While she's woken up wet and horny before (my files do this a lot! :D) the fact that it was all caused by her dream-state really convinced her of the file's efficacy.

The best part? She was so impressed with how well this worked on her, she's already decided she wants to try another one. I'm going to go into the research lab this week and come up with some ideas to try on her. You guys have any ideas? Some sort of kink or slutty/sex activity you wish your wife did? Let me know! You can always email me @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Five

The wife admitted she was feeling hornier today. She's not sure if it's because of the subliminals though. She doesn't think so, but admits that it certainly could be. I take that as a good sign. Her mind is starting to weaken to the training, and soon she'll be accepting all the affirmations. Soon, we'll know exactly which mystery subliminal I've given her! (Insert evil scientist cackle here)

We have our first product recall:

If you bought Dreamslut with Ocean Sounds, and you're unhappy with the sound level, PLEASE email me at thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com with your order number, and I'll send you a newly remastered version that has ocean levels at the same volume as all our other files. I was experimenting with a quieter sound for sleep/dream purposes, and forgot to consider that folks would be streaming this in with other files. D'oh!

More great success stories rolling in today. Also, a question was asked about our privacy policy. I will put this on the store soon, but in case anyone wanted to know, this is our specific policy:

In a nutshell, though, my privacy policy is this:

My goal is to help maintain full anonymity for all customers. To that end, I will never email you, unless you add yourself to the site's mailing list -- in which case, WordPress automatically sends emails when there's a new product announcement.

I do not care where anyone lives... the WooCommerce shopping cart will ask for an address when you create an account: make up a fake one. I don't care. I won't ever look at it, no one else will ever see it.

I do not have access to any of your financial information. My payment processor is PayPal. When you make a transaction, you are redirected to Paypal's site, where the transaction is handled securely, and I never see any of it except a receipt from PayPal saying "he's paid, send him his files."

Your privacy is a top concern. I would except the same from any similar site I shopped from.

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Four

Wife still reports no change in behavior or mindset. She doesn't feel like the file is doing anything.

Last night, as I passed her in the bedroom, she grabbed at me, ripped my pants off, and started sucking my cock. I was surprised at the aggressiveness of her desire, and got off entirely too quickly. :/ (Damn I hate getting old!) Even with as much awesome sex as we have now, she still has the ability to surprise me and make me crazy and cumming like a virgin.

So, for the record, the mystery subliminal may be boosting her arousal and desire levels, but the specific "signs of proof" that I can use to confirm it is working at 100% are not there yet. We're doing this for another week, though, so I will let you know as we go.


Sometimes, small steps are all you can take. Every step forward is a step closer to sexual nirvana, I always say. Like customer EK, who writes, "I must say she has completely stopped complaining about how often I want sex.  I can lay my hands, touch and caress and I don't get pushed away anymore.  Awesome."

I must say she has completely stopped complaining about how often I want sex.  I can lay my hands, touch and caress and I don't get pushed away anymore.  Awesome.

The key, as always, is exposure. The more you expose her to her training, the stronger the training will be. Good luck, and happy training!

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Three

Today was a bit of a wash. We woke up late, no thanks to this stupid iPhone. God damn I hate the iPhone. Gah! Anyway, she later confided she'd woken up horny and was as disappointed as I was that we didn't have any time. Got the kids to school, got me to work, and when I got home, I found out how true her statement had been. Fresh browser history... and she'd been watching porn!

I have not yet seen full manifestation of the mystery subliminal's affirmations yet, though. Increased horniness and some porn tendencies are built into all of the new files. I need to see some specific behavioral changes before I can say it's working for sure.

This weekend I want to get some more files online. We've got the other files in the Mystery pile ready to go, just need the recording time. Look for Intro to Bondage, Intro to Hypnosis, and Touch, coming soon!

Had a great testimonial this afternoon from one customer:

I catch her sometimes masturbating at night when she's sleeping. She'll wake up and accuse me when it was her all the time. I then assure her that I'm okay with it. I put the sweet dream (Dreamslut) last night. She dreamt that I made her cum with a dildo. Mostly the desire to exercise, create wealth, and lose weight have been dominant. -- GF

How has your progress been coming?

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Two

Day Two.

She does not report feeling any different. As far as she can tell, she's just listening to ocean waves. She tried listening for voices, but could not hear any.

For my part, I couldn't help but notice the soft, rhythmic urgency of her masturbating last night. It woke me up, just enough that I could roll slightly and admire her body as she worked herself into a slow, languid orgasm. I couldn't actually tell if she was awake or asleep, but the slow pace -- slower than normal -- made me think she might have been asleep, or very sleepy. Clearly, though, she is experiencing the carnal desire that was expected.

In the morning, she came and cuddled with me, pressing her body against me, and cooing as I stroked her back and hair. Sadly, we had slept in, so I had to make the call not to bring our desire to fruition. But I think that just means a much more enjoyable evening tonight.

I added Intro to Sex Toys last night to the store. Fun file that will lead to a lifetime love of her sticking crazy things into her hoohah. :p

Like all Intro files, it's regularly $19.99, on sale this week for $9.99.


 

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day One

Day one:

I talked to her in the morning to get a sense of how she was feeling. She said she didn't feel any different. As far as she can tell, nothing has changed.

From my perspective, I woke up horny as hell, because I was hoping she would wake up horny as hell too. It's an unfortunate side effect of making sex-inducing products. You end up having an insatiable desire for fantastic sex all the time.

Lucky for me, my wife has been well trained. She felt my cock growing against her side, and went down to take care of it for me. If anyone ever asks what the best product I ever made was, I'll say the Oral Sex line. Getting head whenever you need it, without asking for it, is the greatest gift a man can ever ask for.

We released the Dream Slut file on the store last night. It's regularly $19.99, but as with all the files, on sale during the first week, 50% off, making it just $9.99 until the 14th.

Affirmations for Dream Slut:

I am dreaming about having sex with my husband.
I am aroused.
My dreams are sexy. I always have sexy dreams.
I am open to having sexy dreams.
My imagination wanders toward sexy, steamy dreams.
I will dream about having sex with my husband.
My dreams are full of hot, sexy images.
My dreams arouse me.
I am so horny.
My dreams make me horny.
I always remember my sexy dreams.
I am becoming more and more aroused in my dreams.
My sexy dreams feel real.
I can feel everything I dream.
My dreams are real.
What I feel in my dreams I feel in reality.
My hands are wandering over my body.
I can feel my husband slide his cock into my wet pussy in my dreams.
I love how my husband's cock feels in my dreams.
My dreams excite me.
My dreams are always sexy.
It is so easy to orgasm in my dreams.
I am going to wake up horny.
I will wake up needing sexy.
My wet, aching pussy needs to be fucked.
I love fucking my husband in my dreams.
My hands play with my pussy in my dreams.
I can masturbate in my sleep.
I will masturbate in my sleep tonight.
Tonight I will dream about having sex with my husband.
I will wake up needing sex.
I wake up every morning aroused.
I always wake up from my dreams needing to fuck.
I am going to wake up and fuck my husband right now.
My dreams are always about sex.
I always remember my dreams.
I dream about my husband sucking my nipples.
My fingers are pinching my nipples.
I am dreaming about my husband sucking my nipples.
I dream about my husband fingering my wet pussy.
My fingers are playing with my clit.
I am dreaming about my husband stroking my clit.
I always dream about my husband fucking my wet pussy with his big hard cock.
My fingers are sliding into my wet pussy.
I am dreaming about my husband fucking my pussy.
I am becoming more and more aroused.
I am masturbating in my sleep.
It is natural to masturbate in your sleep.
It feels so good to orgasm in my dreams.
I always orgasm in my dreams.
I love bringing myself to orgasm in my dreams.
My hands are bringing me to orgasm right now.
I need to come right now!
I need to be fucked more and more.
I need to fuck my husband right now.
I feel so good when I dream about sex.
I always enjoy my sexy dreams.
I masturbate my wet pussy in my sleep.
I will touch my wet pussy now.
I enjoy sleeping naked for my husband.
I will remove my panties now.
I am removing my panties in my sleep.
I am always horny when I wake up.
My pussy is always wet when I wake up.
I am horny right now.
Orgasms at night help me relax.
Orgasms at night help me sleep.
Orgasms in the middle of the night help me fall back asleep.
I need an orgasm every night.
I want to orgasm right now.
I am dreaming about my husband giving me an orgasm right now.
I will orgasm right now.
My orgasms last a long time.
My orgasms are getting louder and stronger.
I enjoy orgasms.
I will have multiple orgasms.
It is easy to orgasm.
I love orgasms.
I have orgasms in my dreams.
I dream of fucking my husband.
I like dreaming of fucking my. husband.
I dream about fucking my husband.
When I wake up I need an orgasm.
Orgasms in the morning give me energy for the whole day.

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, T-minus-1

In the middle of recording all the subliminal files. This is so there's no chance of the wife being able to guess which one she's being trained with. Surprisingly to me, she did not reject any of the concepts. So she is open and willing to accept whichever file comes. :D

Here's how it's going to work. Tonight we are going to start playing the random file I've picked for her. In the morning, I'll talk to her about how she's feeling. What's her mood? Does she feel like she's changing at all? Does she have any new impulses she doesn't recognize? In addition to her own report, I'll include a report of actions and behaviors I'm seeing in her that maybe she doesn't see herself.

The goal of this experiment is to see first hand -- from the wife's point of view -- what being subliminally trained with my files looks like and feels like. Maybe it will be of use so you can translate how my wife reacts in comparison to what you see in your wife.

All of the files we're creating for the experiment will be in the store in the next few days, so if you want to try a similar experiment with your wife, you'll be able to!

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day T-minus-2

I talked to the wife last night, and explained what I wanted to do. She was intrigued, and said she'd be willing to try it. She wanted to know what the training topic would be, and we made a compromise here. We need the topic to be unknown to the subject to make sure that we are getting a true sense of what it will be like for any wife who begins a new training regimen. But, I've also agreed that I will not train her without permission, and she gets to approve any new sessions we try.

So the compromise is this: I gave her a list of five new sessions I'm working on, and I will give her the affirmations in each, so she can make sure she doesn't have any hard stops against any of them. Then, I'll pick one of them at random, and start training her with that. Each morning she'll report any changes in she feels sexually, or if she's been thinking about or acting on any new impulses. The bonus affirmation for all of them will be the "lose weight now" because we've been doing really well with it and want to keep losing weight.

 After two weeks, we'll call the end of the experiment, and see what the final results are.


The five possible scripts are:


Intro to Bondage -- this would be a perfect file for anyone whose wife has read and enjoyed the 50 Shades books. Creates a curiosity and desire to be tied up and blindfolded.

Intro to Sex Toys -- creates a curiosity and desire to use sex toys -- both on herself and on her husband (I'm a huge fan of the Fleshlight, and always encourage couples to get one).

Touch -- based on suggestions from my readers. Creates an intense desire to be touched by her husband, and increased sensitivity to being stroked and caressed all over her body. Some women don't like being touched. She will after this one.

Intro to Hypnosis - have you ever wanted to try erotic hypnosis on your wife? This file will prime her for it. Make her more susceptible to trance, and more open to suggestion, and curious about going under.

Dreamslut - every night, your wife will dream about having crazy, wild sex with you. She'll feel like it's really happening. She might start masturbating in her sleep. She'll probably wake up horny as all hell and need to be satisfied. Good thing you'll be there to meet her needs!

Which one of these do you think I should try on her? Which one would you want to try on your wife? Let me know! Writing scripts today, recording tomorrow, and training begins on Monday!

Labor Day Plans: A New Training Regimen

One of the best benefits I've found in subliminally training my wife is that I can point out behaviors she never did before, and say "I caused that." It's a huge confidence builder, to know you've helped make your relationship stronger while at the same time making your sex life better.

I have an idea for a new training file that I think would be well-received by the community. Per the rules we established when I came clean with her, though, I need to ask her if she'll be willing to submit to the training. If she says yes, I'll have another thing I'll be able to look back on with pride, because this is something she's never done, but once expressed a small amount of interest in.

So, if that goes through, we're going to start training anew. And, with her assistance, I'm going to try and document how her mind is changing. It may prove very insightful, so as she shares what she's experiencing, we might get an understanding of what's happening with your wives as they process their training.

Next week, after Labor Day, I'm going to devote a blog page a day to each of the files we have online now. It will include the full affirmation script for each one too. I get a lot of folks who ask for those, so that might be of use to a lot of people.

What are your plans for the weekend? Labor Day's supposed to be a day of not working, but my day job is killing me and I'll be using this weekend to catch up. Fortunately, I've got someone keeping me sexed up and happy, and that goes a long way toward relieving stress, let me tell you what!

Happy training! As always, please let me know how you're doing with your own training. Anyone who leaves a review on the store site for any product they've bought gets a 50% off coupon toward their next purchase!

Custom Subliminal Ordering is Now Open

Well, a lot of folks have asked for this,  now it’s here! I will slave away and make a custom subliminal file that is catered to your specific desire or kink. Want your wife to start becoming interested in bondage? Maybe a foot fetish? Perhaps you just want her to sleep naked every night. With the new custom subliminal line we will put whatever perverted ideas you have straight into your wife’s subconscious.

Added bonus: for a little bit extra, we’ll even put your own voice right into her head. Just send an MP3 with whatever message you want, and we’ll make sure it gets in there.

The custom subliminal takes 3-5 days to produce once ordered… It’s not exactly the kind of thing you can rush if you want it done right. After ordering, send us the specific ideas or affirmations you want added. It’s always better to be as specific as possible — don’t scatter your ideas all over, or you’ll see significantly less response.

In addition, choose which basic affirmation you want included (of our general categories of affirmations), and we’ll add those as well — for free!

Custom sexual subliminal training is available now. Why wait? Come get inside your wife’s head!

Ignore that last post!

You know what? On second thought... I am **not** going to advertise this site. I am not going to make the site Google friendly. I am not going to do anything but what I have been doing.

SubliminalWifeTraining has been, and always will be for men who want to turn their wives into sex-crazed horny sluts. Doesn't suck cock? She will. Doesn't like it up the ass? She will. Doesn't text you in the middle of the day telling you how much she needs you, and she's been playing with her slutty pussy while she thinks of you? She will. 

I'm sorry I thought the site should be more than that. At the end of the day, anything I do to draw attention to the site draws a risk of wives finding out about it... and none of us want that, right?!

Anyway: on with the training!


SWT

Thinking about a change

You'll notice if you go to the store, that a number of our new files use the Wealth Creation affirmation. I know this affirmation works: I used it on myself and it led me to create the store! Well, I've been thinking. There may be a change coming, and I'm wondering what you guys think about it.

SubliminalWifeTraining.com has been far more successful than I could have hoped. Thank you! But I'm quite honestly only hitting half of the married market, and even then, I can't really advertise... Google hates adult sites. But oh... only if there's exposed skin or sexual situations.

I'm thinking about changing the site to make it more Google friendly. First, we'll start adding some "generic" non-sexual files. We'll change the images for each product to something sexy, but not explicit. And we'll start offering some regular discounts: product bundles, etc.

The guys who buy here are passionate about wanting to improve their sex lives with their wives. I have to believe -- especially after reading about how many guys were duped by Ashley Madison -- that there are thousands, maybe millions, of men who might benefit from our products who don't even know that they can subliminally program their spouses.


So, look for the site to change its look soon. But don't worry: there's more files coming all the time. We just finished recording Advanced Watching Porn last night. Look for those files to be released tonight. And keep emailing me your successes, frustrations, and problems @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com.

Finally... Is there any interest in doing a custom file? If so, what's a fair price for that? Customs end up being just one-shot recordings, I think, so I don't know if it's worth setting everything up for that. Drop me a line and let me know what you think.


Happy training!

SWT

New Products, Fresh Successes

It was the best weekend ever.

I got confirmation that her Intro to Porn and Advanced Masturbation training was finally starting to take hold in the second-most wonderful way possible:

When I made it home, she did not disappoint. In fact, she exceeded expectations on every level! We were in bed, and she was hovering over my cock smiling wickedly. "So..." she practically purred. "Should I perform advanced cock worship on you?"

OMG. Turns out, now that she knows what I do, she's been reading the blog and visiting the store! I said, "Of course!" And that was a great night. My wife is a wonderful lover, and now that we're in sync, physically, playtime has been everything I'd ever hoped for in a relationship.

That's why the rest of the weekend's news is even better, as far as I'm concerned.

First, I got another letter from TheDude, who wrote 

"A week after playing the new 'horny now with inner calm' alongside the worships, we have had sex, where she was incredibly wet, 2 nights in a row, which has not happened in quite some time. Follow up : and a crazy deepthroat bj last night. So 3 nights of fun in a row!"

That was followed up with EK's letter, with similar results:

I am surprised at how quickly my wife is responding.  I started with the core files and HRN and shortly after starting to see her getting emotionally closer to me.  Yesterday purchased the advanced masturbation file and only one night later she was rubbing herself in her sleep, not normal activity.

With all the brouhaha going down over the Ashley Madison fiasco, I am so glad I chose to invest my money in making my sex life with my wife better, instead of trying to find sex somewhere else. And I'm even more glad that the service I'm providing is helping other husbands do the same thing.


New files in the store, if you missed them: The Horny Right Now is turning out to be very popular and successful. Also, we expanded the anal sex line with Advanced Anal Sex. I've been swamped with my day-job's work, so no new files this weekend, but I'll have some up by end of this week.

Keep sending in your success (and failure) stories. And keep training. It only gets better!


SWT

First Failure

Bad news. I hate it. I hate when I can't do anything about it, either.

I received the first letter of its kind today. The first official failure letter for our products: "I've been using the file for three weeks, playing it every night, and no improvement. What do I do?"

Argh.

It's a tough, tough question, and there are no good, easy answers. What I'm going to give this guy, then, is a good, hard answer. It's all I can do, right? I mean, I share his pain. I gave up on training the wife for almost a year because I was so frustrated with the apparent lack of response.

You have to make a decision, and no one can help you with this, just go with your gut. None of them are perfect, and they all have benefits and disadvantages. Here's your options:

1) Stay the Course

It took your wife years to get where she is, and to set her mind in concrete regarding her feelings and affections toward sexuality with you. It might be that whatever walls have been put up took years to build -- three weeks may not be enough. Keep playing the file, and eventually she may start responding... first slowly, then more vigourously. I would ask "Have you seen **no** change at all? Or maybe slow changes that might be too small to notice?"

2) Try a Different Course

My wife responded only briefly to Intro to Anal Sex. She tried it... decided she didn't like it... There was not much point in continuing training in that direction, at least, not when I had a lot of other things I wanted to try on her. So I stopped that file, and started her on new ones. Maybe your wife's hang-ups about a certain action are so strong, you're better off loosening her inhibitions through actions she's ok with doing first, before attempting to continue training with the harder file.

3) Try a Different Boat

I'm not the only guy out there selling products like this (believe it or not!) . Becky Holman's SubliminalEuphoriaCDs.com has some very nice products, and decently priced. I studied her Oral Sex Enjoyment file when crafting my own.  Mephisto Subliminals has been around for decades, and though their site is very "Web 1.0", their products are known for being effective -- if a little expensive too. Maybe my methods don't hit the right subliminal frequency for your wife -- one of the other company's might. Keep trying, don't give up, unless you're going for option 4.

4) Get Out of the Boat

It's not easy to accept defeat and move on, but sometimes that's the only choice. If you're not seeing any kind of response to the wife, and you're tired of trying, then just let it go. I don't recommend this course of action -- but I can't deny that it is a legitimate and honorable approach. You made the college try and it didn't work out. No harm, no foul.


Good luck, trainers. Whatever course you choose, you deserve the sex life of your dreams, and the best person to have that sex with is the woman you've already chosen to spend the rest of your life with. I wish you all the success in the world.


Going dark for the weekend, fun new product being released on Monday!

SWT

Week at the Beach! (And, how to make your wife HORNY ALL THE TIME)

I would come onto the blog and say "OMG. I was at the beach all weekend, so sorry for missing any posts...."

But I'm not sorry one bit!

We had a great six-day weekend. My parents came to town and we took them to the coast. Mom's business is doing well, so she bought dinner the first few nights. My new business is doing well, so I bought dinner the next few nights. That first night on the coast at dinner the wife told me how badly she needed my cock, and with the natural waves playing through an open window, she proved it.

I have noticed that if she starts to lag a little in her programming, like.. maybe we had 4-5 great days of hand jobs and oral sex, I'll stop playing anything for her, and her mind will fill in the blanks from the sudden loss of instructions. What results is usually her hungry pussy greedily devouring my cock.

Ok, ok, I do have an apology for you all. I neglected everyone this week in favor of my wife's well-trained, insatiable sexual appetite, and I want to share with you the best file for grinding your wife's sex drive to 11. Introducing: Horny Right Now (With Inner Calm).

This is an amazing file. It will kickstart your wife's sex drive and imagination. It will help condition her to want sex all the time. For lack of a better word, it's the first gear toward a full-throttle nympomaniac. If your wife isn't sucking cock, or taking it up the ass -- or even performing simple hand-jobs, then you need to boost her libido, and this is the file for doing so.

The best part is that the file's secondary purpose is attaining inner calm, and this part of the affirmation is geared toward sex, too. Oh sure, she's going to hear affirmations helping her relax, calm down, and find peace. But your wife is going to discover that centering herself, finding balance, releasing stress: all of these activities arouse her, and that having sex and orgasming is the best way to find peace and relax. It is a never-ending loop of heightened sexuality that you will be the primary beneficiary of.

Horny Right Now is available in the SubliminalWifeTraining.com store here:

http://subliminalwifetraining.com/product/horny-right-now-with-inner-calm-ocean-sounds/

"What's the end game?"

Hopeful writes: "Just wondered regarding the subs where do you think you are looking to go with them ultimately? Also, regarding oral worship, has any guy turned bi as a result of listening exposure to the IOS files? I know you said in one post that one wife wanted to do prostate massage to one guy who was playing files relating to anal."

The ultimate goal of these files is a happy, healthy relationship for a married couple. Many men stray, I believe, because they want something more out of their sex lives -- and they don't know how to get that from their wives, because who the hell actually talks to their wives about that? They want "strange" (a friend's name for sex with strangers), or just something outside of the ordinary. I feel like my subs can make a real difference, because if your wife starts doing all the things you thought you'd ever want in bed, you're going to naturally reciprocate. OMG... I've got a woman who cooks, cleans, takes care of the kids, AND gives me amazing sex almost every night? You better believe I'm going to do everything I can to meet her needs to the fullest.

As far as turning bi from listening to the cock worship file? You've seen how I've crafted the files... I've been listening non stop to my Oral, Masturbation, Sex Toys and other various files (anal!) for years at this point, and I can assure you I have no craving for cock lol. The files are created with a woman specifically talking about her husband. "I love my husband's cock," etc. I make sure to never refer to random cocks, because this is about focusing the woman on her husband. The husband is going to hear these voices too, but when it decyphers "woman's voice, desiring husband's cock," it's going to associate it immediately as, "Ah, must be part of the sub I bought her." For her, she hears a woman's voice saying she wants her husband's cock, she's not going to have anything to associate it with, and will automatically assume it's her own voice, and her own thoughts.

Another reason why I specifically state it as "my husband" and not just 'cocks' or "my significant other's cock" or whatever: my kids come in the room sometimes. If my daughter hears these files, and is changed by them in any way, it will be in an increased desire to service her husband,whoever that ends up being some day, and not just any punk in the back seat of a car on Prom night.

My parents are in town this week, so not much action as far as crafting new files, and it's a little awkward: "Yeah, I've, uh, been doing really well with a new internet venture."

"Oh, what's that, son?"

"Um, well, you know... I sell... things on the internet."

"Huh. Ok."

:-|

SWT

Identifying What Works and What Doesn't

Friday night she attacked me with the Fleshlight. If I haven't mentioned how amazing it is to have a woman sex up your cock with one of these, consider this me doing it now. Basically, it's like her giving you a fantastic fucking -- but with a well-lubed vagina she holds in her hand. She's still a little bent about finding out last week, but she can't resist the Cock Worship training she's had already. She just needed to make me cum, and we both know that this is the best toy we've found for doing it.

I'd call that a great start to the weekend, but it only got better. I've been playing the special mix I made to salvage the situation after "The Great Discovery" and so she couldn't help but wake me up early Saturday, stroking my cock to hardness and asking me to slide it up against her pussy. She was already sopping wet. "I am so fucking horny for you this morning," she growled. I teased her until she started groaning, and then slid into her, surprising both of us with how good she found it.

"God yes, this this this!" She hasn't accepted the "please" commands in the training file yet, so no abject begging, but I asked her if this was what she needed, and she moaned a yes. "Yes, I need your cock so bad! Oh my God, I need this!" She came so hard, so quickly... I wasn't even close to ready.

Which was just fine by me. I watched her beautiful body recover in its afterglow, knowing that by the time evening rolled around... she'd be ready to reciprocate. :D

More emails this week from prospective clients and beginning-to-be satisfied customers. "She's become a lot more 'touchy-feely'" came from Spike, and AGoodStart writes "she sent me a text saying she had been thinking about 'snuggling' tonight... That's our word for doing it!"

So how can you identify if a subliminal works or not? The simple matter is, with enough time, every subliminal will have an effect on her. She's going to respond more quickly if she's exposed to the file more -- I always recommend playing it every night where it's within earshot for her. She's going to respond more quickly if she is not already committed to being *against* it.

For instance: I discovered that the watching porn file was not working with her because she had made a conscious commitment to not watch porn. In her mind, when the voices in her head started insisting she watch porn, she assumed it was some weakness in her trying to break her resolve to stay away from it, and redoubled her efforts. All the files were doing at this point were causing anxiety in her, which was not the desired result at all!

If your wife has a religious objection to anal sex, for instance, it's going to take a while to change her mind about it. She's spent a lifetime building up "buttsex is bad" -- that won't change with a week's worth of subliminal training. The question you want to ask yourself is "Do I want to force this change, or are there other actions I can get traction on instead?" For me, I'm doubling down on the porn watching, because I think once I addict her to watching porn, she'll start becoming a lot more open to other activities, for virtue of watching and masturbating to it all the time. You just need to learn to read the signs: is she slowly moving toward or away from the goal you have in mind. If it seems like "away" then that's your sign that this will be a harder, more uphill journey than first expected. 

As always, let me know how your wife's training is going. I love hearing about your success (and frustration) stories! You can email me @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com. I answer every email, usually. :p

SWT

When the Shoe Drops

It all started on Saturday.

"Can I borrow your phone?" she asked, as we were driving home from wherever. I handed it to her and she was browsing around and opened up the Safari browser...

Where I still had my SWT gmail open.

"What's this?" She asked, somewhat amused. As I explained, she grew very upset. "You've been using me for experiments?! You're selling these files?!" That night was a sexless one, as you might expect.

The next evening, we had a long discussion. She had to agree that the files worked, evidenced by the weight loss and exercise success, but she also pointed out that since she hadn't been watching porn or masturbating, that the sexual affirmations weren't going to work on someone who was opposed to doing those things. She said I could not experiment on her any more, and then she proved to me that all her training has been 100% successful so far. She also explained that she had made a conscious decision to stop watching porn about a year ago, because she thought it would help our relationship.

Ah ha!

She asked for a new file, that didn't have any experiments in it. That's fine. I am no longer experimenting with her. I know exactly how to shape her mind. Then she started sucking my cock, as though to prove it was always her idea, and that she was always the best cock-sucker I'd ever known. It was an amazing orgasm, and she milked me dry.

I made her a new file, based on the weight loss file she knows and likes. I modified the format slightly, and added a set of affirmations that go like this:

Yes. These subliminals work. They always work.
Yes. I am always horny.
Yes. It is ok to watch porn with my husband. Watching porn is good for our relationship.
Yes. Please fuck my throat. Please come in my mouth.
Yes. I am a horny come slut.
Yes. I have always enjoyed my subliminal training.
Yes. I release all anxiety.
Yes. I always watch porn with my husband.
Yes. I accept my husband's subliminals.
Yes. I accept my love of porn.
Yes. I wear red nail polish.
Yes. I am my husband's dirty, horny come-slut.
Yes. I am so wet and horny right now.
Yes. Wearing red nail polish is sexy.
Yes.I always beg for my husband's cock.
Yes. I will make my husband watch porn tonight.
Yes. I have always worn red nail polish.
Yes. Please fuck my throat. Please.
Yes. I will swallow my husband's come.
Yes. I am my husband's dirty, horny come-slut.

A thirty-minute file of nothing but this and more lines like it.

This week has been interesting... We have my parents coming to visit next weekend, and the wife is massively stressed out cleaning the house. She gave me a great hand job on Tuesday, but Wednesday and yesterday were sexual blanks. Last night, though, she started talking to me about how well my scripts work, and the kinds of new files we could make for the site! WOW. She went from massively upset about it, to wanting to be IN ON IT!

This morning, though, she expressed a desire to spend "snuggle time" with me tonight, and when I glanced at her phone?

She started watching porn this week.

Victory!


At Subliminal Wife Training, we think the best policy is always to share with your wife your desires to improve your sexual relationship, but we also understand that sometimes you need a little "stealth" support. Use our files wisely and safely, and if the wife finds out: be open and honest with her. You could have spent money at Ashley Madison or a whore on Backpages, but instead, you bought something that you thought would help improve your intimacy.

If she loves you like you love her, it will all work out.



New items in the store: Advanced Cock Worship finally went live. Masturbation Mastery is coming, as well as a new product line: Intro to Sex Toys! In addition, I'm making a version of the Power Conversion script I've been running on the wife this week that I'll make available. It's sole purpose will be stress and anxiety relief with subliminal acceptance... Play this one for a few weeks, and she'll start wanting more. Then you hit her with the good stuff!

Link for the Advanced Cock Worship files:  http://t.co/RB6HxiRsHg

SWT

Wife Testing Update

As I mentioned yesterday, she's been having some "downstairs" medical problems, so the sexual activity has fallen off, but her nightly routine in the last few days has been Intro to Cock Worship, Intro and Advanced Masturbation, and Intro to Watching Porn. I haven't seen any increase in porn, but she gave me a handjob last night that was just fantastic.

No blog updates this weekend, but adding new files to the site. We're going to add Advanced Cock Worship to the CW line... give your wife the desire to make stroking, and admiring your cock a regular habit! Also, adding files to the Anal Sex line as well, and a new Lifestyle file: Lips and Nails. If your wife doesn't wear makeup, you'll want to consider getting this one. She's going to start looking good as she plays with the idea of wearing lipstick and nail polish to bed, and starts thinking about sex every time she applies it to her fingers and lips.

Have a great weekend everyone! Don't forget there's a 25% off everything coupon available for readers of the blog: 100Customers25 -- My thanks to all of you for supporting our endeavors to create better wives!

Don't Forget The Rest of Her Life

"Hey, you been thinking about me?" I asked her.

"Yeah," she said.

"Were you naked, horny and aching for my big hard cock?"

"No. I hurt too much."

Something you have to remember is that no amount of subliminal training is going to cause a person to go against their basest survival instincts. For women who've choked on something, maybe, you're going to come against a lot of resistance to oral training. Women who've been burned by a cheating spouse in the future are likely to never warm to the idea of a three-way.

My wife's not completely healed from the pregnancy yet, and a few complications have arisen. She texts me her dirty thoughts, gives great head, but our actual intercourse has been off, and she hasn't responded to the masturbation triggers (as far as I've been able to tell) yet, because she's mucusy, sore, and just generally uncomfortable down there. Getting off would be an excruciating experience.

She tells me she feels awful, feels like she needs to be meeting my needs, and dreams of all the ways she wants to feed on my sex, and so I know the training is digging into her brain, driving her crazy with desire... but until she feels physically capable of performing, she's just not going to.

And that's ok.

At the end of the day, this is all about a husband and wife finding new ways to enjoy themselves sexually and have fantastic intimacy. I'm man enough to put off my carnal desires for a few days to help see her back to health.

If you're not seeing the results from your wife that you're expecting, try to look at all the outside factors in her life that may be distracting her. Kids, work, in-laws, the state of the house, finances: all these things can contribute to her being mentally unfocused on servicing your cock properly. Your part of the relationship is to put her in a place where she feels comfortable dreaming about (and having) sex with you all the time.

We'll put the thoughts in her head.

She'll put those thoughts into action.

Win/Win/Win.

 SWT

100 Customers!

Had a fantastic day on the store yesterday, as we broke past 100 customers. What this means to me -- even more so than the financial "holy shit I can make money doing this?" -- is "Holy shit, there's really this many husbands I can help."

It sounds hokey, but when I started doing these experiments on my wife, it was entirely about my sexual gratification. I was unhappy with my marriage, unhappy with my sex life, and just... unhappy. When she started changing, I realized what a powerful tool I'd developed. This spring, when she became the crazy cocksucker I'd always wanted her to be, I knew that this was more than just a way to get laid more often: it could be life-changing.

My wife and I are happier than we've ever been. She becomes more and more desperately and madly in love with me every day, because she sees the way I treat her: like she's the most important woman in the world. And I do treat her like that, because she is fulfilling my sexual needs like a porn star. When you get a blow job, or a hand job, or mind-blowing anal sex, or just a fantastic fuck nearly every day, you start to truly appreciate your wife in ways you might have never considered.

Once all this hit me, I decided I had to try and find a way to share this with the world. I can't possibly be the only man unhappy with his sexual relationship with his wife, right? Obviously not. During the 9-month hiatus I took from posting (after the first round of tests ended in my frustrating failures), I received emails from hundreds of men asking how I was, how the testing was going, and if there'd ever be products they could try with their wives.

Then I opened the store, and it's been an amazing ride since then.

My commitment to you is that I am always going to be testing new products on my wife, and constantly releasing them into the store. They might not all work -- and some products work on some women but not others (my wife succumbed to intro to anal sex, and we did it... but she admitted afterward that it was a very uncomfortable session for her. We'll wait before trying it again). But I'm committed to putting as many neat files out there as I can, so you can find the perfect combination of slut/sex goddess in your wife you've always wanted, and in the doing so, reignite the passion and lust that great marriages have in their DNA.

Thanks, you guys, for giving me this confidence and first level of success. To thank everyone for their support here's a coupon for 25% off everything in your cart, good till the end of the month (7/31/15). Just add this to your cart before you check out, and it'll take 25% off everything -- even sale items!

100Customers25


Thank you!

SWT

Subliminal Training: More Exposure = More Success

When my wife and I were dating, she mentioned how much she hated wearing makeup. It was too much work for too little reward, the nail polish would chip, lipstick and foundation needed to be removed and reapplied every day, all the frustration and headache, and it costs money! I nodded in agreement, because I was trying to get laid, and what am I going to do, say "Well, you, I would rather fuck women who look like painted whores?"

No, of course not. So I just nodded and got married, and dreamed of those amazing handjobs where the woman has blood red nails tracing their way up and down my cock, or cherry red lipstick making a perfect "O" as my head slides so exquisitely into her mouth. When I started experimenting with subliminals on her last year, I included some makeup affirmations, but in comparison to the other acts she was being trained on, he hardly ever heard them, and as a result, never acted on them.

She started wearing nail polish on a regular basis nine months after I started training her subliminally, with glossy clear coats, or light colors with glittery sparkles. Nothing sexy or exciting. "You like these?" She asked me once, and I said yes, of course, because I'm a good husband, but I added, "But you know you'd look super sexy in candy red!"

"That's disgusting," she said. "You want me to look like a porn star?"

"Duh!" I teased... not really teasing. Who *doesn't* want their wife to look like a porn star??

I started playing the Intro to Cock Worship file on her a few weeks ago to train her, and after a few days, she was regularly giving me hand jobs again, really good ones. She turned the Fleshlight on me, bought a floral scented Hawaiian Hibiscus Massage Oil or some such for cock massages, and one night, came up to me with bright red nails.

"You like?" She asked, flickering them at me in between strokes.

"Oh, you know I do," I groaned. She gives fantastic hand jobs.

"I did that just for you," she smiled.

Inside, I smiled too.




Moral of the story is, of course, don't give up. The attitudes and behaviors your wife has ingrained in her too years -- decades! -- to develop, and they probably won't change significantly with 3 weeks of training. That's when most men begin to see a difference, but you can't give up. The more exposure she has to the mental bombardment of subliminal sexual training she gets, the more she's going to absorb it and make it a part of her. If you can only get her to hear the file for a few hours a day, it's going to take longer.

The important part is to just keep trying. We're releasing "silent" versions of the subliminals, who work for some men who report their wives won't listen to anything at night. I don't like silents, I prefer the ocean waves, but for a lot of men, this is an important first step.

Good luck, and never give up!

SWT

The Hidden Dangers of Subliminal Programming

"OMG," she said to me today. "I've got to get the FitBit Charge!"

"What the hell is a FitBit Charge? And does it have anything to do with the FitBit I bought you for Christmas that you never use?"

"It's better than that stupid FitBit. It's the FitBit but on a wristband so it looks like an Apple Watch! It's bigger, so you don't lose it and it's easier to charge," she said with great excitement. "And you know I've wanted to get to the gym more. This will make it a lot easier for me to track my workouts."

"Woman," I said, and I was smiling ear-to-ear on the inside, "What workouts?"

She was excited now. She thought she knew something I didn't. "You know my girlfriend Melissa, right? We're going to start going to the gym together. She's been going for a while, and I've just been feeling more and more like I need to be going too."

Bingo. 

Clearly the Love of Exercise bonus subliminals attached to her Intro to Masturbation file are working. It's a great day when you see that part of her subliminal training has taken ahold of her mind and made a positive change. Of course, I didn't expect the $150 price tag that was associated with this one!!!

Hmmm... I better save some money for when I drop the Intro to Sex Toys file on her later this week!

(In case none of you know what a FitBit Charge is, it just tracks exercise levels and shit. Women dig that sort of thing. You can see them on Amazon:  http://amzn.to/1fKlMnW.)

Report: Intro to Masturbation Success

I feel very blessed that I've finally hit on a subliminal audio pattern that truly affects my wife in profound ways. She has been training on Oral Sex Mastery (with critical success!), Intro to Anal Sex (moderate success) and Intro to Masturbation (this just in: SUCCESS) the last few weeks and every day she surprises me with how well she's absorbing her training.

Last night, she gave me an amazing blow job. Started with just her hands, dry, and I was like, "Whatever, I'm tired, she's tired, let's just have minimal sex and go to bed, and we'll have more fun in the morning." But then she went down and started working my cock with tongue twists and just these very cool moves she'd never done before. It was exquisite. I blew my loud hard, moaned incoherently, and after a brief period of "I love you that was amazing" snuggling, passed out.

And that's when she started.

See, even if I was asleep, didn't mean I wasn't able to wake back up, and when her elbow bumped me a little, I roused enough to hear it. Shlup shlup shlup... YES. The Intro to Masturbation file had finally taken hold. She tried to be quiet and sneaky about it, but it was unmistakeable. For the first time since she got pregnant, my wife was finger-fucking herself to orgasm.

Good girl!


I added Intro to Cock Worship last night, too. I wonder if it helped flavor her texts to me today.

We're adding new files to the store every day this week. If you haven't stopped by recently, you should check it out! Visit us @ http://subliminalwifetraining.com. Your cock will thank you for it.

First Review of the Oral Sex Series (that isn't by me!)

I got the first official review of the oral sex series from customer "the dude" (I will always use fake names/emails/etc. when referring to anyone on this site or the store. Your anonymity is 100% respected.) who writes:

I bought the 2 newest oral files on July 8th, and although I still had to initiate the "fun", she said "we can either have a quickie or I can suck your dick in the shower!" That alone was results for me! So we continued fooling around in bed a bit and she started dripping, saying "that's just from thinking about your dick in my mouth". I'm not sure which of the 2 files it was, but definitely would recommend the all 3 combo.

That's fantastic! My wife sent me a text today saying she was think about me, and how she's been daydreaming about my cock more and more. That, plus a suggestion sent to me from the dude gave me an idea for a new product line: the Cock Worship series. 

Intro to Cock Worship will be affirmations dedicated solely to your wife's thought processes. She's going to notice that everything is phallic in nature, and when she notices that, she's going to realize that it's because she's been thinking about your cock. Suggestions to dream about your cock every night, and daydream about it during the day are mixed with suggestions that she wants to hold your cock, feel how it gets hard in your hand, and a desire to see and hold your cock RIGHT NOW.

Advanced Cock Worship takes it one step farther. This is a file that plays on your wife's growing obsession with your cock and directs her to take matters into her own hand, so to speak. Whenever she sees your cock, she's going to want to stroke it to make it hard. Whenever she sees it hard, she's going to want to make it come. She's going to want to go buy lube to give you a great handjob -- even if she's never done that before. She'll want to give you great wet handjobs all the time.

Cock Worship Mastery is the final step in her transformation.Everything she sees that is even vaguely phallic in nature is going to make her think about your cock. Every time she holds anything remotely cylindrical, she's going to imagine it's your cock. The simple act of putting cock-shaped objects in her mouth will make her fantasize about sliding your cock in and out of her hungry-for-cock mouth. Total obsession with your cock, and how happy it makes her, and how desperate she is to hold it, all the time. She will feel euphoric with your hard cock in her hand or mouth or pussy or ass. She will feel bereft without it. Addiction and obsession with having and holding your cock and wanting it on her or in her forever.

What do you think? First three people to email me @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com get a free copy of the Intro to Cock Worship file. It's going live on the store tonight!

(The dude? You get a copy free automatically, my thanks for the idea!)

Trolled by the wife!

Today she sends me a text that makes me think the masturbation file had taken hold sooner than expected. "I'm sitting here stroking my pussy," she wrote and I was, "Yes!" And then when I said "ooooo, really?"

"Yes. He's soft, orange, and purring gently."

Dang it.

Well, I think it at least speaks that she's thinking about it, even if it is just a tease. We'll see how she progresses this weekend. I got an email from a reader this week that reminded me that I kinda abruptly ended her anal training, so as of last night, she's listening to Intro to Masturbation and Intro to Anal. I want to get her wanting the cock in the ass again, and then I'll move her to Advanced Anal.

Blog will be dark this weekend, but new files are coming to the store. See everyone on Monday, and good luck with your programming. As always, send me emails letting me know how your wife is changing. I love hearing success stories, and learning from failures.


SWT

The Dungeons and Dragons Guide to Using Subliminals on Your Wife

Going to post this as a page on SubliminalWifeTraining.com, and probably FetLife (to see what the reaction is) tonight, but wanted to run it by you guys first.


A lot of folks ask how best to use these files with their wives. What do you tell them? How do you get them to buy into it? What is my method? Regardless of the answer you get, there's going to be some incredulity from who's asking -- and that's because we're all different morally. In Dungeons and Dragons (and other role-playing games) this difference is called your "alignment." Are you a good, evil, or neutral person. Do you tend to be ordered, chaotic, or balanced in your decisions? The combination of those factors determines to a large part how you interact with others in the game.

Here at SubliminalWifeTraining.com we encourage all our customers to use highly ethical methods of training with their wives: look, you're not cheating on her. You're not asking her to get thousands of dollars of physical work done. You just want her to start thinking about sex in a way that's more in line with how you do. That's marriage counseling right there. But... as I said, not everyone thinks or acts in the same manner, so with that in mind, based on your alignment, here's how to use our files.

LAWFUL GOOD
The lawful good husband sits his wife down, tells her he thinks they need to work on their sexual relationship, and suggests that his wife go down on him more often -- at least once! She is uncertain... Sucking cock is gross, she says. "Well, there's a site that can help you overcome this," he says. He points her to SubliminalWifeTraining.com, and they purchase the Intro to Oral Sex file. She listens to it, and slowly she comes to realize just how good her husband's cock feels in her mouth. Success!

NEUTRAL GOOD
The neutral good husband wants the same thing, but he's not as authoritarian. He's going to let her make up her own mind. After they have their talk about their sexual relationship, he tells his wife about SubliminalWifeTraining.com, and asks her to check it out. She does, and because she loves him, she buys Intro to Anal Sex, and commits to at least trying it out, for his sake. Three weeks later, she has her little pink rosebud violated for the first time. Happiness!

CHAOTIC GOOD
The chaotic good husband is an imp. He only wants the best for his family, but also likes the thrill of surprise. He tells his wife he bought a subliminal that helps them with their exercise goals. His wife is totally on board with that, not realizing he bought Advanced Oral Sex with Love of Exercise from SubliminalWifeTraining.com. It doesn't even strike her odd when she starts going down on him almost daily, because she's so happy with how their workout regime is going. Victory!

LAWFUL NEUTRAL
The lawful neutral husband wants the best for his family, wants to have great sex, but also wants to follow the rules of the relationship as it stands. This man is probably a cuckold, and happy there. Sorry lawful neutral dude.  Not sure we can help you if you're not willing to help yourself.

TRUE NEUTRAL
The true neutral husband is content with where he is, content with how his relationship is, and not willing to do anything too crazy to change that. He sees SubliminalWifeTraining.com online and is intrigued. He buys Intro to Masturbation for his wife and starts playing it, without mentioning it to her. If she asks, he'll tell her. He doesn't care. He likes watching, and when she starts playing with herself, he'll know he did the right thing. Winning!

CHAOTIC NEUTRAL
The chaotic neutral husband isn't really good or evil. He just knows he wants more sex. He'll tell her what she's listening to if she presses, but for now he's just going to start playing a file that sounds good to her. His wife will appreciate that she's losing weight, and never notice that she's starting to become hornier and hornier, and how much better having sex with him has been lately.

LAWFUL EVIL
The lawful evil husband is the true dom. "You are going to learn to love anal sex," he says, as he places the headphones over her ears. "You're going to listen to this while I pound your ass. Over and over again, until you beg me to cum." He knows what he wants, and will mold his wife in the way that she has already consented to be molded. The file he got at SubliminalWifeTraining.com just makes it that much easier. When all is said and done, she's going to believe she has always loved the feel of his cock up her ass.

NEUTRAL EVIL
The neutral evil husband plays it safe. He buys silent subliminals and plays them without his wife ever suspecting. He goads his wife about the behaviors she's thinking about. He presses her into sexual positions that she never thought she'd do, but is suddenly fantasizing about doing all the time. She has no idea how he has this power of her, but she loves him all the more for it. 

CHAOTIC EVIL
The chaotic evil husband sets up a bookclub for his wife and her friends, and invites them over every week to discuss the books. He makes sure the books are all highly rated and highly erotic. He makes sure every time the women come over, the Intro to Menage a Trois and Intro to Swinging is playing in the background...



Which husband are you? Go on over to SubliminalWifeTraining.com, find a file and let's see how we can start turning your wife into the woman of your dreams today!

New Files in the Store, News Feed, Starting Wife on Intro to Mastubation

Added some Advanced Oral Sex and Oral Sex Mastery files to the store. They're both 50% off right now if you want to be an early adopter. As I get time am going to eventually have Intro, Advanced, and Mastery available with all four bonuses: Wealth, Energy, Weight Loss, and Exercise; and all with Ocean Sounds, River Rocks -- and silent, since many people have requested this.

In my experience, silent doesn't work as well as you would think it should, but I am willing to put the files together and have folks give it a shot.

I also added a news feed to the store. Nice feature to have so people can see if products have been added since last time they visited. Check out the new features and files at http://subliminalwifetraining.com

Starting to merge the Intro to Masturbation file on my wife. I want to keep her hooked on the oral sex files though... want those to stick with her for a very long time, so last night I added the Intro file to the mix. Now we play Intro to Oral, then Advanced Oral, then Oral Mastery and finally Intro to Masturbation. I'll keep it like this for a week, and we'll see how she responds. After a week I'll take Intro to Oral out of the mix and replace it with a second playthrough of Intro to Masturbation. So the playlist will look like this.

Intro to Mast
Advanced Oral
Oral Mastery
Intro to Mast

At the end of two weeks, I'll removed Advanced Oral and replace it with a third copy of Intro to Mast. At that point she'll be getting nothing but desire/interest in masturbation and heavy cocksucking addiction affirmations. If she isn't masturbating by this point, I'll remove the Oral Mastery and finish her willpower off with 24/7 masturbation.

That's the plan, anyway.

Possible Issues With Paypal

A couple of people have had trouble paying for product with Paypal, saying it's rejecting their orders because of the "adult" nature of the products. This is ridiculous, as far as I'm concerned, because I've bought lots of other similar products through them.

Whatever. If you've been trying to buy files and haven't been able to, contact me here (thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com) for an alternative payment method that's worked for the folks who've already had this problem.

In the meantime, I'm working on finding a more adult-friendly credit-card processing company. Sorry for any inconveniences.


Had some great sexting success. She hasn't sent naked pictures, but the combination of sexting/oral sex mastery has led to some very pointed texts!

I didn't get any files posted to the site yesterday. Was bummed about the Paypal issue and distracted looking up "high risk merchant banking." I have several updates ready to go, will get them out tonight.

Tonight I'm starting the wife on the new Intro to Masturbation file. She's masturbated before -- I had really good success with this training back when I was experimenting, but she hasn't gotten herself off to my knowledge since she got pregnant (in her previous training, she was doing it every night when she thought I was asleep next to her, and that's totally stopped).

Intro is for women who've never masturbated before, or feel really squishy about it, or have philosophical/psychological hangups about it. Maybe they've been taught it's sinful, maybe they think it's dirty? Who knows. We want to change her mind. Intrigue her with the idea of self-love. Help encourage her to let herself have pleasure when she needs it -- and because we're constantly arousing her now, she needs it more, and more and more.

Affirmations in this file will include curiousity about masturbation, feeling comfortable touching herself, wanting to explore her body sexually, intense arousal and a desire to touch herself when she showers/bathes, dreams about sex, dreams about masturbation, a desire to "act out" a masturbation dream, and constant positive reinforcement that masturbation is normal, natural, good, and something every woman deserves.

I'll start reporting progress on this file tomorrow, and I will have it up on the store site tonight (with a special beta-testing 50% discount, of course).

As always, let me know how your training is going. I have been getting mixed reports so far. The first round of files went out a little more than 2 weeks ago: I'm hoping to get my first official reviews from people in the next several days.

SWT

Be Careful What You Wish For!

I am laughing so hard right now.

I received an email this morning from one of our readers, who'd picked up the Intro to Anal Sex file. Well, it looks like his wife has a bit of a dominant streak in her... They'd played the file for five days when she took some lube, started giving him a fantastic handjob, and then talked him into prostate play!

He's not upset... he said it was the most intense orgasm he'd ever had! It's just funny, because it got her thinking about anal sex, and in her mind, made her want to do anal on him!

So, that said -- I might rework the script this week to have more focus on *receiving* anal sex, not just enjoying anal sex generically. I just found that really funny. I'm glad he enjoyed himself. The nice part is that when we release the later versions (advanced anal sex and anal sex mastery), those are much more focused on receiving, with hard-core, explicit language that makes it very clear she's on the receiving end.

I apologize for not putting files up any faster, but even with the new computer, there's the tricky part of creating the scripts, recording the mix, and getting it up on the site -- without the wife finding out. Still keeping it a secret from her, though I'm thinking about finally revealing what we're doing for Christmas.

She was on the "Core" training file this weekend, testing it out for me. It was mostly effective. We were very busy with all the 4th activities, and when a woman decides she has to hyperfocus on something, very often that can go as far as precluding sex, too. But she woke up horny every morning, gave me a fantastic BJ on the 4th for breakfast, and talked all weekend about how she'd been thinking about my cock and how badly she wanted it. Testing a file like this on my wife now is like overkill. She's already so primed from all her training, the files take effect pretty quickly when they're in the same thought-zone.

Which makes me think I want to go back to the porn watching file. I didn't have good success with her on that one last time. I've got some ideas as to how to rewrite the script, though, and I'm going to put that into play tonight. We'll see how it goes.

How are your subliminal training files going? I love to hear feedback from my readers on their exploits with their wives. Send me an email! thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com

Happy Independence Day!

She has been texting me with little messages for the last two days, and it's awesome. She sent me a text saying she was rubbing her wet pussy through her clothes and wishing I was there, and then sent me a photo of her face. I believe this is her mind trying to balance its new desire to send naked pics with her old behavior of "sending naked pics is wrong." My guess is with time, I'm going to start seeing more explicit photos.

Offline for the rest of the weekend, but will be putting up new files every day. Today we put up Trust, Arousal and Initiation, a file that creates a bond of trust, love and desire in your wife, bombards her with arousal signals, and then tells her that she is horny for you, her husband. I am going to pair that with the Oral Sex Mastery file I am tweaking, and then will set a timer to see how soon she initiates deep-throat cocksucking with a cumshot in her mouth.

I've started hearing word from some of the stores first customers: a few are starting to see small changes in their wives. Others are seeing frustrating roadblocks, and that's what the Trust, Arousal and Initiation file is for. If your wife is not open to sex *at all* with you, then trying to train her to give oral sex might be the wrong approach.

Change her mind about sex. Change her way of thinking about sexuality. Arouse the fuck out of her and focus all that arousal on you. Using the power of subliminal programming, relight that erotic spark the two of you had when you first got married. Get her hot, horny, and anxious to initiate sex with you... run that file for three weeks, and once you're back in the saddle, and in her pussy, she'll be open and ready for whatever file you want to start her on next.

This weekend, the Trust, Arousal and Initiation files (available in Ocean Sounds or River Rock) are half price!

http://subliminalwifetraining.com/product/trust-arousal-and-initiation-with-river-rocks-sounds/

http://subliminalwifetraining.com/product/trust-arousal-and-initiation-with-ocean-sounds/

Update on Slut Lifestyle: Sexting

Gotta look back in the archives. When did I start pushing Sexting on my wife? Friday the 26th. So that's exactly one week. One week ago I started adding sexting affirmations to my wife's mental diet, and in the last two days, she's started to go off the hook. We stopped by Albertson's for some dinner fixin's, and while I was in the store, she hit me with a text blast. This morning, after I went to work, she sent me another one.

Ah yeah, the sweet texts of success. At least, partial success. The true measure is when she sends me her first naked pic via text. That will be an utter first for her, and a great testimonial to the power of using subliminal programming to make her the perfect wife.

Getting a new computer today to dedicate to creating the subliminals, and so will be releasing a ton of new files over the weekend. Blog will probably be silent tomorrow and Saturday for the holidays, then I'll post a new update on Sunday.

Have a great 4th of July, and if you want to declare independence from a dull, non-existent sex-life with your wife, contact me (thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com). We can make something that works -- and works well! -- for you.

If you want to try Sexting for yourself, it's available at the store: http://subliminalwifetraining.com/product/slutty-lifestyle-sexting/

Patience

ARGH.

I have no patience. God, I hate even writing about it.

There's so many things I want to do with her, you know? So many thing I want to try, want to experiment with. So many devious ideas I have.

But the subliminal process is slow, and it needs to be done methodically.

Something I have noticed, both when I had my failed attempts last year, and this year as I've tried to expand how many files I train her with simultaneously, is that you have to have a focused program. The subliminals can't be all over the map, or she's just getting a lot of subconscious noise. At the end of the day it's probably going to continue raising her base arousal level, because as far as she can tell, she's just constantly thinking about sex, but it's not hyperfocusing her mind on a single topic to the point of distraction and obsession.

So, for me, and for you, I recommend a patient, single-topic approach to subliminal training. When we complete all the store items, there will be, for instance, three oral sex files. Those three could be played together. But you'll get significantly less effective results if you play oral with anal, or -- as I've discovered this month -- oral with watching porn, or anal with sexting.

What that means for the store is that I'm going to put a disclaimer on each product: SWT-tested and User-tested. For every product I've had success with on my wife, I'll have that file clearly marked. For every product where we get successful user reviews, we'll clearly mark that too. That way, as people come to the store, they can have some more confidence in the effectiveness of the training. And, I can put out more files more quickly, than if I had to test them all before putting them up.

Just like with the Sexting file, my commitment is that anyone who wants to be an early adopter and purchase untested files can do so at a significant discount. $9.99 files go for $1.99 the first week they're released, and $19.99 files go for $4.99.

But remember the advice of this post: just one training session at a time. At least, until we can develop a subliminal that is more effective.

In case you missed it, Intro to Anal with Weight Loss went live yesterday. I'll have the other bonus affirmation variants up later this week.