ARGH.
I have no patience. God, I hate even writing about it.
There's so many things I want to do with her, you know? So many thing I want to try, want to experiment with. So many devious ideas I have.
But the subliminal process is slow, and it needs to be done methodically.
Something I have noticed, both when I had my failed attempts last year, and this year as I've tried to expand how many files I train her with simultaneously, is that you have to have a focused program. The subliminals can't be all over the map, or she's just getting a lot of subconscious noise. At the end of the day it's probably going to continue raising her base arousal level, because as far as she can tell, she's just constantly thinking about sex, but it's not hyperfocusing her mind on a single topic to the point of distraction and obsession.
So, for me, and for you, I recommend a patient, single-topic approach to subliminal training. When we complete all the store items, there will be, for instance, three oral sex files. Those three could be played together. But you'll get significantly less effective results if you play oral with anal, or -- as I've discovered this month -- oral with watching porn, or anal with sexting.
What that means for the store is that I'm going to put a disclaimer on each product: SWT-tested and User-tested. For every product I've had success with on my wife, I'll have that file clearly marked. For every product where we get successful user reviews, we'll clearly mark that too. That way, as people come to the store, they can have some more confidence in the effectiveness of the training. And, I can put out more files more quickly, than if I had to test them all before putting them up.
Just like with the Sexting file, my commitment is that anyone who wants to be an early adopter and purchase untested files can do so at a significant discount. $9.99 files go for $1.99 the first week they're released, and $19.99 files go for $4.99.
But remember the advice of this post: just one training session at a time. At least, until we can develop a subliminal that is more effective.
In case you missed it, Intro to Anal with Weight Loss went live yesterday. I'll have the other bonus affirmation variants up later this week.
I feel you on the lack of patience... Day 6 and still no twinge of a result for my wife. I'm going to continue for the full 3 week recommendation and even go a full month.
ReplyDeleteWith my lack of patience and our busy lives, I'm afraid I'm going to accidentally throw a wench in the process trying to verbally move her along. I'm sure it will work, just might take longer for her...
It's really tough. And there's the additional factor of if it's an action she's psychologically opposed to, it will take a long time to get those deep-seated ideas to change.
ReplyDeleteThe first signs are often going to be generic -- she's going to start feeling more aroused all the time, and not know why. Just be there for her, and establish your presence. She's going to associate you spending more time with her as the reason why she's feeling hornier.. and then over time, the specific acts we're training her to desire will manifest.
Plus: there's always other factors. My sex life fell through the floor this week: her period hit and she's bitchy as hell. No subliminal for that one! :D
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She's not opposed to it, and seems to have a lot of fun when she does it. It's more she doesn't think about fooling around, she's always got projects, artwork, etc on the brain and I always have to initiate/ask/mention it.
DeleteMost of the time it's a "not tonight" thing or "maybe" and such. I just want her to be the one to ask/initiate. It gets old / feels beggy to do it all the time, and that is pretty lame feeling.
I have a new dedicated computer for my subliminals coming in tomorrow. I have a very specific file in mind that you should try. I'll send it to you on Friday. Maybe you'll have a *great* 4th of July!
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I'll take it, test it, and (hopefully) appreciate the result! If not, I appreciate the looking out!
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