Ignore that last post!

You know what? On second thought... I am **not** going to advertise this site. I am not going to make the site Google friendly. I am not going to do anything but what I have been doing.

SubliminalWifeTraining has been, and always will be for men who want to turn their wives into sex-crazed horny sluts. Doesn't suck cock? She will. Doesn't like it up the ass? She will. Doesn't text you in the middle of the day telling you how much she needs you, and she's been playing with her slutty pussy while she thinks of you? She will. 

I'm sorry I thought the site should be more than that. At the end of the day, anything I do to draw attention to the site draws a risk of wives finding out about it... and none of us want that, right?!

Anyway: on with the training!


SWT

Thinking about a change

You'll notice if you go to the store, that a number of our new files use the Wealth Creation affirmation. I know this affirmation works: I used it on myself and it led me to create the store! Well, I've been thinking. There may be a change coming, and I'm wondering what you guys think about it.

SubliminalWifeTraining.com has been far more successful than I could have hoped. Thank you! But I'm quite honestly only hitting half of the married market, and even then, I can't really advertise... Google hates adult sites. But oh... only if there's exposed skin or sexual situations.

I'm thinking about changing the site to make it more Google friendly. First, we'll start adding some "generic" non-sexual files. We'll change the images for each product to something sexy, but not explicit. And we'll start offering some regular discounts: product bundles, etc.

The guys who buy here are passionate about wanting to improve their sex lives with their wives. I have to believe -- especially after reading about how many guys were duped by Ashley Madison -- that there are thousands, maybe millions, of men who might benefit from our products who don't even know that they can subliminally program their spouses.


So, look for the site to change its look soon. But don't worry: there's more files coming all the time. We just finished recording Advanced Watching Porn last night. Look for those files to be released tonight. And keep emailing me your successes, frustrations, and problems @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com.

Finally... Is there any interest in doing a custom file? If so, what's a fair price for that? Customs end up being just one-shot recordings, I think, so I don't know if it's worth setting everything up for that. Drop me a line and let me know what you think.


Happy training!

SWT

New Products, Fresh Successes

It was the best weekend ever.

I got confirmation that her Intro to Porn and Advanced Masturbation training was finally starting to take hold in the second-most wonderful way possible:

When I made it home, she did not disappoint. In fact, she exceeded expectations on every level! We were in bed, and she was hovering over my cock smiling wickedly. "So..." she practically purred. "Should I perform advanced cock worship on you?"

OMG. Turns out, now that she knows what I do, she's been reading the blog and visiting the store! I said, "Of course!" And that was a great night. My wife is a wonderful lover, and now that we're in sync, physically, playtime has been everything I'd ever hoped for in a relationship.

That's why the rest of the weekend's news is even better, as far as I'm concerned.

First, I got another letter from TheDude, who wrote 

"A week after playing the new 'horny now with inner calm' alongside the worships, we have had sex, where she was incredibly wet, 2 nights in a row, which has not happened in quite some time. Follow up : and a crazy deepthroat bj last night. So 3 nights of fun in a row!"

That was followed up with EK's letter, with similar results:

I am surprised at how quickly my wife is responding.  I started with the core files and HRN and shortly after starting to see her getting emotionally closer to me.  Yesterday purchased the advanced masturbation file and only one night later she was rubbing herself in her sleep, not normal activity.

With all the brouhaha going down over the Ashley Madison fiasco, I am so glad I chose to invest my money in making my sex life with my wife better, instead of trying to find sex somewhere else. And I'm even more glad that the service I'm providing is helping other husbands do the same thing.


New files in the store, if you missed them: The Horny Right Now is turning out to be very popular and successful. Also, we expanded the anal sex line with Advanced Anal Sex. I've been swamped with my day-job's work, so no new files this weekend, but I'll have some up by end of this week.

Keep sending in your success (and failure) stories. And keep training. It only gets better!


SWT

First Failure

Bad news. I hate it. I hate when I can't do anything about it, either.

I received the first letter of its kind today. The first official failure letter for our products: "I've been using the file for three weeks, playing it every night, and no improvement. What do I do?"

Argh.

It's a tough, tough question, and there are no good, easy answers. What I'm going to give this guy, then, is a good, hard answer. It's all I can do, right? I mean, I share his pain. I gave up on training the wife for almost a year because I was so frustrated with the apparent lack of response.

You have to make a decision, and no one can help you with this, just go with your gut. None of them are perfect, and they all have benefits and disadvantages. Here's your options:

1) Stay the Course

It took your wife years to get where she is, and to set her mind in concrete regarding her feelings and affections toward sexuality with you. It might be that whatever walls have been put up took years to build -- three weeks may not be enough. Keep playing the file, and eventually she may start responding... first slowly, then more vigourously. I would ask "Have you seen **no** change at all? Or maybe slow changes that might be too small to notice?"

2) Try a Different Course

My wife responded only briefly to Intro to Anal Sex. She tried it... decided she didn't like it... There was not much point in continuing training in that direction, at least, not when I had a lot of other things I wanted to try on her. So I stopped that file, and started her on new ones. Maybe your wife's hang-ups about a certain action are so strong, you're better off loosening her inhibitions through actions she's ok with doing first, before attempting to continue training with the harder file.

3) Try a Different Boat

I'm not the only guy out there selling products like this (believe it or not!) . Becky Holman's SubliminalEuphoriaCDs.com has some very nice products, and decently priced. I studied her Oral Sex Enjoyment file when crafting my own.  Mephisto Subliminals has been around for decades, and though their site is very "Web 1.0", their products are known for being effective -- if a little expensive too. Maybe my methods don't hit the right subliminal frequency for your wife -- one of the other company's might. Keep trying, don't give up, unless you're going for option 4.

4) Get Out of the Boat

It's not easy to accept defeat and move on, but sometimes that's the only choice. If you're not seeing any kind of response to the wife, and you're tired of trying, then just let it go. I don't recommend this course of action -- but I can't deny that it is a legitimate and honorable approach. You made the college try and it didn't work out. No harm, no foul.


Good luck, trainers. Whatever course you choose, you deserve the sex life of your dreams, and the best person to have that sex with is the woman you've already chosen to spend the rest of your life with. I wish you all the success in the world.


Going dark for the weekend, fun new product being released on Monday!

SWT

Week at the Beach! (And, how to make your wife HORNY ALL THE TIME)

I would come onto the blog and say "OMG. I was at the beach all weekend, so sorry for missing any posts...."

But I'm not sorry one bit!

We had a great six-day weekend. My parents came to town and we took them to the coast. Mom's business is doing well, so she bought dinner the first few nights. My new business is doing well, so I bought dinner the next few nights. That first night on the coast at dinner the wife told me how badly she needed my cock, and with the natural waves playing through an open window, she proved it.

I have noticed that if she starts to lag a little in her programming, like.. maybe we had 4-5 great days of hand jobs and oral sex, I'll stop playing anything for her, and her mind will fill in the blanks from the sudden loss of instructions. What results is usually her hungry pussy greedily devouring my cock.

Ok, ok, I do have an apology for you all. I neglected everyone this week in favor of my wife's well-trained, insatiable sexual appetite, and I want to share with you the best file for grinding your wife's sex drive to 11. Introducing: Horny Right Now (With Inner Calm).

This is an amazing file. It will kickstart your wife's sex drive and imagination. It will help condition her to want sex all the time. For lack of a better word, it's the first gear toward a full-throttle nympomaniac. If your wife isn't sucking cock, or taking it up the ass -- or even performing simple hand-jobs, then you need to boost her libido, and this is the file for doing so.

The best part is that the file's secondary purpose is attaining inner calm, and this part of the affirmation is geared toward sex, too. Oh sure, she's going to hear affirmations helping her relax, calm down, and find peace. But your wife is going to discover that centering herself, finding balance, releasing stress: all of these activities arouse her, and that having sex and orgasming is the best way to find peace and relax. It is a never-ending loop of heightened sexuality that you will be the primary beneficiary of.

Horny Right Now is available in the SubliminalWifeTraining.com store here:

http://subliminalwifetraining.com/product/horny-right-now-with-inner-calm-ocean-sounds/

"What's the end game?"

Hopeful writes: "Just wondered regarding the subs where do you think you are looking to go with them ultimately? Also, regarding oral worship, has any guy turned bi as a result of listening exposure to the IOS files? I know you said in one post that one wife wanted to do prostate massage to one guy who was playing files relating to anal."

The ultimate goal of these files is a happy, healthy relationship for a married couple. Many men stray, I believe, because they want something more out of their sex lives -- and they don't know how to get that from their wives, because who the hell actually talks to their wives about that? They want "strange" (a friend's name for sex with strangers), or just something outside of the ordinary. I feel like my subs can make a real difference, because if your wife starts doing all the things you thought you'd ever want in bed, you're going to naturally reciprocate. OMG... I've got a woman who cooks, cleans, takes care of the kids, AND gives me amazing sex almost every night? You better believe I'm going to do everything I can to meet her needs to the fullest.

As far as turning bi from listening to the cock worship file? You've seen how I've crafted the files... I've been listening non stop to my Oral, Masturbation, Sex Toys and other various files (anal!) for years at this point, and I can assure you I have no craving for cock lol. The files are created with a woman specifically talking about her husband. "I love my husband's cock," etc. I make sure to never refer to random cocks, because this is about focusing the woman on her husband. The husband is going to hear these voices too, but when it decyphers "woman's voice, desiring husband's cock," it's going to associate it immediately as, "Ah, must be part of the sub I bought her." For her, she hears a woman's voice saying she wants her husband's cock, she's not going to have anything to associate it with, and will automatically assume it's her own voice, and her own thoughts.

Another reason why I specifically state it as "my husband" and not just 'cocks' or "my significant other's cock" or whatever: my kids come in the room sometimes. If my daughter hears these files, and is changed by them in any way, it will be in an increased desire to service her husband,whoever that ends up being some day, and not just any punk in the back seat of a car on Prom night.

My parents are in town this week, so not much action as far as crafting new files, and it's a little awkward: "Yeah, I've, uh, been doing really well with a new internet venture."

"Oh, what's that, son?"

"Um, well, you know... I sell... things on the internet."

"Huh. Ok."

:-|

SWT

Identifying What Works and What Doesn't

Friday night she attacked me with the Fleshlight. If I haven't mentioned how amazing it is to have a woman sex up your cock with one of these, consider this me doing it now. Basically, it's like her giving you a fantastic fucking -- but with a well-lubed vagina she holds in her hand. She's still a little bent about finding out last week, but she can't resist the Cock Worship training she's had already. She just needed to make me cum, and we both know that this is the best toy we've found for doing it.

I'd call that a great start to the weekend, but it only got better. I've been playing the special mix I made to salvage the situation after "The Great Discovery" and so she couldn't help but wake me up early Saturday, stroking my cock to hardness and asking me to slide it up against her pussy. She was already sopping wet. "I am so fucking horny for you this morning," she growled. I teased her until she started groaning, and then slid into her, surprising both of us with how good she found it.

"God yes, this this this!" She hasn't accepted the "please" commands in the training file yet, so no abject begging, but I asked her if this was what she needed, and she moaned a yes. "Yes, I need your cock so bad! Oh my God, I need this!" She came so hard, so quickly... I wasn't even close to ready.

Which was just fine by me. I watched her beautiful body recover in its afterglow, knowing that by the time evening rolled around... she'd be ready to reciprocate. :D

More emails this week from prospective clients and beginning-to-be satisfied customers. "She's become a lot more 'touchy-feely'" came from Spike, and AGoodStart writes "she sent me a text saying she had been thinking about 'snuggling' tonight... That's our word for doing it!"

So how can you identify if a subliminal works or not? The simple matter is, with enough time, every subliminal will have an effect on her. She's going to respond more quickly if she's exposed to the file more -- I always recommend playing it every night where it's within earshot for her. She's going to respond more quickly if she is not already committed to being *against* it.

For instance: I discovered that the watching porn file was not working with her because she had made a conscious commitment to not watch porn. In her mind, when the voices in her head started insisting she watch porn, she assumed it was some weakness in her trying to break her resolve to stay away from it, and redoubled her efforts. All the files were doing at this point were causing anxiety in her, which was not the desired result at all!

If your wife has a religious objection to anal sex, for instance, it's going to take a while to change her mind about it. She's spent a lifetime building up "buttsex is bad" -- that won't change with a week's worth of subliminal training. The question you want to ask yourself is "Do I want to force this change, or are there other actions I can get traction on instead?" For me, I'm doubling down on the porn watching, because I think once I addict her to watching porn, she'll start becoming a lot more open to other activities, for virtue of watching and masturbating to it all the time. You just need to learn to read the signs: is she slowly moving toward or away from the goal you have in mind. If it seems like "away" then that's your sign that this will be a harder, more uphill journey than first expected. 

As always, let me know how your wife's training is going. I love hearing about your success (and frustration) stories! You can email me @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com. I answer every email, usually. :p

SWT