Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Patience

ARGH.

I have no patience. God, I hate even writing about it.

There's so many things I want to do with her, you know? So many thing I want to try, want to experiment with. So many devious ideas I have.

But the subliminal process is slow, and it needs to be done methodically.

Something I have noticed, both when I had my failed attempts last year, and this year as I've tried to expand how many files I train her with simultaneously, is that you have to have a focused program. The subliminals can't be all over the map, or she's just getting a lot of subconscious noise. At the end of the day it's probably going to continue raising her base arousal level, because as far as she can tell, she's just constantly thinking about sex, but it's not hyperfocusing her mind on a single topic to the point of distraction and obsession.

So, for me, and for you, I recommend a patient, single-topic approach to subliminal training. When we complete all the store items, there will be, for instance, three oral sex files. Those three could be played together. But you'll get significantly less effective results if you play oral with anal, or -- as I've discovered this month -- oral with watching porn, or anal with sexting.

What that means for the store is that I'm going to put a disclaimer on each product: SWT-tested and User-tested. For every product I've had success with on my wife, I'll have that file clearly marked. For every product where we get successful user reviews, we'll clearly mark that too. That way, as people come to the store, they can have some more confidence in the effectiveness of the training. And, I can put out more files more quickly, than if I had to test them all before putting them up.

Just like with the Sexting file, my commitment is that anyone who wants to be an early adopter and purchase untested files can do so at a significant discount. $9.99 files go for $1.99 the first week they're released, and $19.99 files go for $4.99.

But remember the advice of this post: just one training session at a time. At least, until we can develop a subliminal that is more effective.

In case you missed it, Intro to Anal with Weight Loss went live yesterday. I'll have the other bonus affirmation variants up later this week.


Monday, June 29, 2015

Program: Intro to Anal Sex, Day Seven

As I mentioned in the brief update yesterday, we have had anal! It really surprised me, because it came up much more suddenly than I had expected. Last week, after I started playing the file, she'd been grinding her ass into my cock as we spooned.  And at least one night, I pressed my thumb up against her ass while we fucked, and she didn't get repulsed like she had in the past.

Well, she started ovulating over the weekend, and was really nervous about intercourse -- which I love. It used to be that we'd just... not have sex during this time. But now that she's gotten used to sucking cock and getting fucked almost daily, it's not something she wants to give up. So we were in bed, and she was playing with my cock, stroking it, and licking off the precum -- she says she loves the taste of it now! -- when she said "Baby, go get the lube."

Normally that means she wants to give me a hand job or she wants to use the Fleshlight on me.  But this time, when I got up to get the lube, when I turned back around to face the bed, she was on her hands and knees! "Hon?" I asked. Remember, you have to make sure she believes it's all her idea. The concept locks in her mind that this is something she wanted, and she more fully accepts all that the training teaches her.

"You remember that one time we tried this?" she purred. She was stroking her slit with one hand, gyrating her ass up in the air at me. "I thought we should try again."

Who am I to say no when my wife is in need?

Mission: accomplished. As far as I'm concerned, that's all the requirements for Intro to Anal Sex. It has to stimulate, titilate and educate your wife so effectively, she starts fantasizing about, and then initiating an anal sex experience with you.

I'm going to put the IAS file up on the site this evening, and then work on expanding the catalog a little more beyond that too. I've had a few people request different mask backgrounds (waterfall or rainstorm instead of ocean, for example). I'm pretty sure I can accomplish that. Just need to spend the time to get them up. I might need to reorganize how the store is laid out, too. I am trying to find a good web template for the store. Design skills are not my forte!

Don't forget: until the end of the month (today and tomorrow), the "Sexting" trainer is for sale at just $1.99. It simply encourages the wife to talk dirty, send naughty texts, and naked pictures. It's been in tests with my wife for the last 3 days.. and I haven't seen a huge uptick in sexting yet, though she has sent one or two since then. I'm not considering this one successful until I see tits or ass on my phone!




Sunday, June 28, 2015

Program: Intro to Anal Sex, Day Six

Wasn't going to post this weekend, but I kind of have to now: today she opened up her rosebud and invited me on in. Anal Sex training is successful! Sorry. Just had to say that. I put Sexting up on the site, it shows promise, and to celebrate, I've got it on sale for just $1.99 until the end of the month. Will have more anal sex updates tomorrow! http://subliminalwifetraining.com/product/slutty-lifestyle-sexting/


Friday, June 26, 2015

SubliminalWifeTraining.Com: The First Week

Hey everyone!

Well, this is the end of the first work-week for the store, and so far the response has been nothing short of amazing! Thank you so much for giving me the opportunity to help you improve your sex lives with your wives.

We have all of the Intro to Oral Sex with Ocean Waves series out now. I'm thinking about offering the four pack as a discounted bundle -- not sure if anyone's interested in 4 mp3s with the same underlying core, though. Drop me a comment or an email if that's something you'd want. I could do a 1-hour megamix file that rotates between IOS, then Weight Loss, then IOS, then Exercise, then IOS, then Energy, and then IOS and Wealth.

Last night I dropped a new file on my wife that's playing in session with the Intro to Anal sex file. It's called: Slut Lifestyle: Sexting. It's a very fun, energetic file that simply encourages her to talk dirty to me, and want to send me naughty texts through the day. Urge to photograph herself naked is a core piece of it.

I have no idea if it will work, and I've never tested something like this, but we'll see.

If you want to test it with me, let me know. This is one we could just put up on the store for free for a limited time.

No posts over the weekend. I'm taking some days off. Talk to you on Monday!!!

SWT



Thursday, June 25, 2015

Program: Introduction to Anal: Day three

"No worries.  I hope you like my earrings and stuff too honey.  I want to be more sexy for you"

She bought little earrings for the holes in her ears yesterday. She hasn't worn jewelry beyond her wedding ring in years... as she fought to get the holes reopened, she said it was about two years since the last time she'd worn anything. 

This is the best part. She feels like because she is making little efforts to help drive intimacy, she is bringing us closer together. She feels like we have a better connection, and I am responding to her efforts with renewed vigor in the bedroom. Little does she know that I was the one who ignited this spark in her mind. By training her every night to crave the kind of sex I want, she wakes up every morning with new ideas about how she can make our relationship better and sexier, and she feels rewarded when I respond.... to her doing exactly what I want her to do!

We didn't have any time for morning sex today. I totally overslept and had to slam out of the house as soon as I go up. It remains to be seen when she'll make the first move in regard to desiring anal. I'm not going to push the issue beyond spooning with her in bed with a hard cock at her bum, and the occasional push of her bud when I'm fucking her from behind.

This has to spring from her subliminally programmed mind for it to stick and become her own thought pattern. I'm willing to wait and see just how long that takes. 


Good news: Boundless Energy version of Intro to Oral Sex is up on http://subliminalwifetraining.com. Go check it out! As with all of the IOS series, anyone who buys it gets a 100% money back guarantee if they don't like it **OR** a 100% coupon off for their next purchase if they leave a review. 

Tonight I'm posting the Attract Wealth version, and then tomorrow we'll start posting the Advanced Oral Sex files. This takes a woman who reluctantly sucks cock once or twice a year and turns her into a wanting-it-all-the-time kind of woman. This was the file I played on my wife, and I can happily say that after a month of playing this, I get a full-on blowjob once or twice a week, and foreplay now always includes oral!

Thanks again to everyone who's picked up one of the Intro to Oral Sex files. Keep playing it every night, and let me know how it goes. I'm turning my wife into my perfect woman... Let's see what we can do about doing the same for yours!

SWT


Wednesday, June 24, 2015

Program: Introduction to Anal: Day two

Computer problems kept me from posting Intro to Oral Sex with Boundless Energy today... I'll get that and the Intro to Oral Sex with Gain Personal Wealth out tomorrow. Sorry about that!

Today was a pretty damn good day. Woke up hard and with her snuggling tight against my cock again. I started fingering her, and she asked if we had enough time, but I said "I'll make time." Rolled her over and took her from behind, and the whole time had my hands on her ass, occasionally pressing her bud with my thumb.

Normally, she'd say "What are you doing? Stop that!" But today she didn't say anything beyond the moaning she was giving me from the fucking. I didn't go any farther than that... at the end of the day, I want her to initiate/request the anal. What I'm seeing, though, is the fact that her mind is slowly chewing on the phrases she's being taught: anal is ok, anal feels good, I love anal.

Afterward, she sent me a text:

This morning was kind of cool
Melissa • Wed, 10:36 AM
It was very cool

Wed, 10:38 AM
I wasn't really in the mood but it was surprisingly nice to have you kind of quietly insist
I enjoyed it.  :)










With every passing day, she is being programmed to be my perfect wife, and it's always nice to get feedback from her, about how she is learning to enjoy and desire daily sex with me.

If you'd like to have a relationship like this with your wife, maybe we can help. Check out http://subliminalwifetraining.com. There's only a few products there now, but more come every day! (Well, except for today. :/)

SWT




Tuesday, June 23, 2015

Program: Introduction to Anal: Day one

Thank you all SO much for the support and emails you sent yesterday when the store went live. I can't tell you how much I appreciate men like me who want to see their marriages improved and their sex lives transformed through the power of subliminal programming. Together, we will mold the wives we've always wanted out of the women we've always loved.

As mentioned yesterday, I started her on the Intro to Anal program last night. I gave up on the Porn Addiction file: clearly the affirmations weren't having quite the desired effect I'd hoped for, so shelving that one for a while.

Intro to Anal starts easy: it introduces the woman's mind to the concept that anal sex can be enjoyable. It associates her sexual pleasure and arousal with anal sex, and it encourages her to think about it as normal, healthy, and a regular part of a happy sex life. She becomes conditioned to want to at least try it, and it opens her mind to possibility of great pleasure as a result of it. My expectation is that, like oral, about a three-week period is required to see full benefits of the program.

This morning, she spooned me as we woke up, and ground her ass into my cock, stirring it. Nothing more than that... the day had too many objectives and none of them were "sex in the morning," sadly. :(

We tried anal once when we were first married, and she balked after that, not willing to learn how to relax her sphincter for the pleasure. I think after we give her the three three-week training sessions, she'll be begging to have as many anal orgasms as I can give her. We'll see.... :D


News on the store site: The second Intro to Oral Sex file went live today. This is identical to yesterday's, except the affirmations are for a love of exercise, instead of weight loss. If your wife is looking to increase her time at the gym, get motivated to work out, or just needs help sticking to program, then this might be the right one for you. As with all the Intro to Oral Sex files being released this week, it comes with a 100% money back bonus: Buy it and run it for three weeks. If it sucks and doesn't work, I'll send you 100% refund. If it DOES work, then leave a review and I'll give you a 100%-off coupon for your next order.

I make money, your wife becomes fit and trim, you and your cock are happy with her mouth wrapped around it. Everybody wins!

http://subliminalwifetraining.com/product/intro-to-anal-sex-with-love-of-exercise/



Monday, June 22, 2015

Intro to Oral Sex: Reviewers Wanted!

All right, my fellow trainers, this is the big moment.

I am making available my Intro to Oral Sex file to everybody, and would love to have your reviews for it. I am also introducing the official Subliminal Wife Trainer website, where these files will be hosted/sold. What I'm looking for are men who want to test these files out and then review them on the shopping site for me -- good, bad, or ugly. I've been honest this whole time with you, I want nothing more than your honesty with me.

Here's what I'm offering you:

Anyone who buys Intro to Oral Sex and leaves a review will get a coupon good for one free additional subliminal (obviously worth more as I add new files!). If the file does not work *at all* for you, then please let me know and I will refund the purchase price in its entirety instead. All I ask for in that case is that you do your due diligence on your part: play the file at least 4-5 hours a day with your wife for three weeks. If she does not show any heightened sexuality, make any advances toward initiating oral sex, or more appreciation for your body and sex with you, then I am not going to charge you for that, obviously!

If you would like to review Intro to Oral sex with a different bonus affirmation, let me know, and I'll add those to the site. Also, if you'd rather have a different background sound, tell me that as well.

Release schedule (so far):

Today: Intro to Oral Sex with Weight Loss (Ocean background)
Tomorrow: Intro to Oral Sex with Love of Exercise (Ocean background)
Wednesday: Intro to Oral Sex with Boundless Energy (Ocean background)
Thursday: Intro to Oral Sex with Great Wealth (Ocean background)
Next Week: Advanced Oral Sex
Two Weeks from Now: Oral Sex Mastery

 Update on existing tests:

I have seen no additional progress from the wife regarding porn yet. I don't think this program is quite there yet. Not like the oral sex set. I had a fantastic blow job this morning... the little mewling sounds she makes as she kisses and licks the back of my shaft up from the balls gives an incredible head-rush -- because I know I was the one who made her love doing this so much.

So, for that reason, I'm going to start her on the anal sex program tonight. We've only ever done anal once and that was about five years ago. If I can get her to start loving it now, well, that's even more proof of how well this system works!

That's all for now. Please go check out the new site, and place an order for the new file. You'll be glad you did! Also, send any questions, inquiries, comments or complaints to thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com. I answer every piece of mail I get, just not always on the same day.

Your action items: 

Go buy Intro to Oral Sex. Be sure to set up an account during checkout if you want to leave a review. Play it at your bedside loud enough for your wife to hear it (but not obnoxiously loud). Tell her it's a weight loss file you got from someone at work. Let it run for three weeks -- or until she surprises you with something new! Leave a review -- good, bad, indifferent. I think it's going to be very, very good. I'll send a coupon for 100% off your next product, or a refund for that one.

I make a little money. Your wife loses a little weight. You and your cock are very, very happy.

Everyone wins.

http://subliminalwifetraining.com/product/intro-to-oral-sex-with-weight-loss/


SWT




Saturday, June 20, 2015

Program: Porn Watching Addiction, day 9

Not much of an update today. I am preparing the first official set of scripts available for other husbands for use this weekend. Tomorrow's Father's day, and she asked me what I wanted. I said directly to her, "I want the best blow job I have ever had." She smiled and said "I think I can get you that."

That's my final vote for the oral sex programming working. A year ago, she would have rolled her eyes and said "Riiiiiiiight."

She sent me another sexy video at work yesterday. "Womanizer" by Brittney Spears. Another "as close to porn as you can get without actually sending porn" video. I think she is really feeling the urge, but hasn't been able to find time. That's ok. She'll find her time.

No update tomorrow. Will give everyone the rundown on the new scripts available on Monday. Have a great Father's Day and keep the dream alive. Every great father deserves a great wife sexing him for all she's worth.

SWT


Friday, June 19, 2015

Program: Porn Watching Addiction, day 8

Another day out of the house all day. The wife simply hasn't had the time to go wandering around the net, looking for porn. Ah well. It was still a great day.

She sexted me all day, telling me she had something very special in mind. She asked if I liked how I got her off last night (I did!), and she told me how much she loved making me cum. She said she'd lost more weight -- which tells me the weight loss portion of the files is still working, and that means she'll accept what she's hearing even more (heheheheh!).

We had so much going on, the day got ahead of us, though. The kids didn't get to bed until almost 11:00. We didn't get the house shut down until almost 2:00. She immediately dropped to my crotch and started sucking and stroking my cock, and it was amazing. Slow, tantalizing, and then... she stopped!

What crazy tease-and-denial was this? Nope. Just one horny, sexy wife who fell asleep with my cock in her hands, and my taste on her lips. I rolled her away gently and spooned up next to her, letting her feel my hard cock against her back and ass crack, then slept myself. In the morning, she reached over, and my cock sprang immediately to life.

She began stroking me again, lubricating her hand with occasional kisses and deep inhalations of my cock in her mouth. But she didn't commit to either the hand-job or the blow-job, and you know what that means!

Oh yeah. I rolled down along the length of her body, and stared licking her, and finger fucking her and discovered she was drenched. "Someone's horny," I said, and she whimpered. I slid my cock into her with one easy stroke and she gasped. "This the cock you've been needing?"

"OMG, yes," she said, and I fucked her long and slow, enjoying the feel of her body as she fought to hold back an orgasm she'd been working on for a day. Didn't take her long. "OMG. OMG. OMG" she cried out as she started spasming. "Cum all over my body! Cum all over my tits!" I was on the very last stroke when she said it, so I pulled and the load shot from her mons, across her belly and splattering near her cleavage. A second spurt I rubbed into her belly with my still-stiff cock.

She grabbed me and pulled me close, kissing me passionately. With the exception of the fight on the 17th, we've had sex every night this week, with fantastic orgasms and great fun by all. Is her training working? I vote "yes."

If you want to start training your wife to love oral sex, have an extremely increased sex drive -- for you! -- or start enjoying other fetishes, send me an email @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com. We are releasing three Intro files on Monday, and I am looking for some reviewers.




Thursday, June 18, 2015

Program: Porn Watching Addiction, day 7

What a great day!

So today, she didn't watch any porn. From what I can tell on her browser, she didn't have time to. She was only on the internet for about an hour in total. That's ok. Because the one link she did send to me in the afternoon was Jamie Lee Curtis stripping for Arnold in True Lies. As far as I'm concerned, that's pretty damn close to her sharing some "safe for work" porn with me!



Anyway, so we are officially 1 week into her three week training schedule with watching porn. This training regimen has three factors: watch porn like an addict (multiple times a day, multiple days a week), initiate and watch porn with me, and start porn addiction with being a horny slut. Yesterday she browsed for and watched a porn video. Today she sent me a link to a very sexy video. I'd call that good progress for the first week.

After I got home from work, she was all over me. The kids were out playing, so she pulled my trousers down and went to town on my cock, sucking it to hardness -- and we were interrupted by the kids coming in. Gah!!!

We waited until they went to bed (apparently I'm not allowed to just chain them to the garage) , and she showed me a surprise: she'd painted her nails Fuck-Me-Red and bought a new massage oil. My cock sprang to life again, and she poured the oil on my cock and gave me a fantastic oily hand-job, talking dirty and teasing me into an orgasm that I think lasted like... I don't know. There were three huge spurts, and then about 6-7 after-spurts. It was a lot of cum. She milked the fuck out of me.

This is the sex life I have always dreamed about. I am so glad I finally found a formula that seems to work with these subliminals.



Wednesday, June 17, 2015

Program: Porn Watching Addiction, day 6

We have porn-sign!

Day 6 on her Porn Watching Addiction training file, listening to it every night and most of every day, twice an hour, and yesterday I found an xhamster link in her browser history. She scrolled through five pages of links, then picked a pretty hot scene, that I bet she finger-fucked herself with.

We're going to call this just early signs that the training is starting to change her mental processes. What we are looking to see now is increased viewing: every day, or close to it (I'd be happy with 4-5 times a week once it's an established habit), multiple searches for porn a day, and then the final sign of success: her telling me that she's watching porn, and inviting me to watch it with her.

Sadly, that's the only sexual activity I can report on today. We had a pretty big fight: she found an old email from a former girlfriend of mine that I hadn't deleted, and it pissed her off to the point where she wasn't going to have anything to do with my cock. I apologized profusely and we went to bed without any sex.

But the two oral sex files and the porn file were still playing all night long... She woke me up with her hand on my cock, teasing it to full hardness again. She kissed me, held me close, and said she forgave me... I will never doubt the power of subliminal programming, and neither should you!

There's still 15 days in the Porn Watching Addiction training regimen. I've started writing the next file, though. We're going into near-virgin territory, to give her subliminal programming a real test:

Anal.



Tuesday, June 16, 2015

Program: Porn Watching Addiction, day 5

Last night we had a late night. Had to do some last minute shopping and didn't get to bed until almost 2:00 am. That didn't stop her from stroking me to sleep again. You get really spoiled when your wife is handling your cock every day! No sign of porn watching on her phone yet. That part disturbed me...

UNTIL:

I woke up about 3:00 in the morning, to the sound and movement of her masturbating her brains out. I think that's a sign the slutty affirmations that are overlayed with the Porn Watching Addiction file are starting to take hold. It's been months since I've seen her masturbate. I don't know about you, but that's the sexiest fucking thing ever.

So it was no surprise that I woke up horny as hell, and I set to waking her up with my need. "I am so horny for you right now," I told her, and it was true. "I want to fuck you right now!"

Normally, she'll groan and say "Uh huh. Whatever," and then depending on her mood either roll toward or away from me. This morning, though, she smiled and let me finger her -- she was already wet! We were both hot and horny and she came quickly -- a good thing, because I was almost there already!

The Porn Watching Addiction file bombards her daily with affirmations that she wants to watch porn, she's a cum slut and she loves it, and she wants to watch porn with me. In addition, I also play for her the Oral Sex Mastery and Advanced Oral Sex files to help anchor those behaviors in her.

We're almost a week into the Porn Addiction file. I'm starting to get a little nervous about the lack of interest she's seeing. Still going to let it run for three weeks first, though, before making a full analysis.



Monday, June 15, 2015

Program: Porn Watching Addiction, day 4

I keep a daily journal of the times she verbally expresses arousal, does something sexy/slutty, or flat out makes me cum. The best part about this is seeing how the frequency is increasing! In the first month of her new training regimen, she got me off more than 50% of the days in the training period-- better than every other day!

For the first half of June -- even including a camping weekend where we simply couldn't find a way to be intimate with no privacy -- it's 7 for 14, with with six of those including oral sex! What I'm finding truly amazing is that she's often initiating sex with oral -- I walked by her in the bedroom and she smiled, grabbed me by the hips, pulled down my pants and dropped her head right onto my cock!

Saturday night, I was a little disgruntled, because we hadn't had sex. I think the Saturday blog entry was a little sour as a result. But I woke up that night with a sudden realization that I was hard... and her hand was draped over my cock, stroking it slowly and sleepily. "I love your cock so much," she told me. "I just want you to know that."

How do you not cum in her face when she's saying that?

Have not seen any sign of the porn addiction taking hold yet. It's only been a few days. We'll keep an eye out and report when she finally cracks.



Saturday, June 13, 2015

Program: Porn Watching Addiction, day 3

And now, we wait.

I had hoped to start seeing a glimmer of change in her really early, but again I am reminded that things don't always change overnight. Also, I am not certain that I built this subliminal correctly: it doesn't sound the same way the other two do. I think I had the volumes set incorrectly, because when played one after the other with Oral Sex Mastery, this file is much lower in audible volume.

Today I am going to spend some time experimenting with my volume settings, to try and equalize this file with the others, because I think that might be affecting how the subliminal portion of the file is being heard (or not heard, as the case may be).

The other thing I want to test is how much the previous subliminals have "stuck" with her. Now that I'm playing the porn file instead of the oral sex file, will her appetite for cum decrease? These are the questions I'm looking into for the next few days.

No post on Sunday, next post Monday. Hope to have great results then!




Friday, June 12, 2015

Program: Porn Watching Addiction, day 2

Two nights ago I added the PWA file to her subliminal mix, prioritizing it so that for thirty minutes of every hour, she is getting barraged with messages affirming her love of watching porn, how much watching porn arouses her, how she wants to watch it with me, and loving how much of a slut watching porn makes her feel.

During the day, she asked if I wanted another repeat of last night (when she took my load in her mouth). I said, yes, of course, and reinforced her pleasure with how much I enjoyed it: her affirmations are training her to enjoy making me feel good, so every time she makes me cum, it makes her happy.

No sexual activity to report, but that's ok overall... I've had 9 orgasms in the last two weeks -- our most sexual activity in a 14-day period in like...ever, I think.  Plus, with as freaky and enthusiastic as she's been, my output has been tremendous! Having a woman literally craving your cock goes a long way toward boosting cum production, in my experience.

Last night I modified the nightly regimen. The CD player is now playing PWA exclusively. I want to see if I can spot increased porn viewing habits on her web browsers by the end of the day. It will be an interesting test of the current programming method I'm using this time. I'm not entirely happy with the software yet... I can hear some high-pitched tweets during playback. It might not have encoded well. We'll know for sure in a day or two.

PWA's affirmations:
I love watching porn
I want to watch porn with my husband
Watching porn makes me horny
I am a cumslut
I love being a cumslut










Thursday, June 11, 2015

Initial Success With Program 2!

Had the first success with Program 2, which was designed to increase her oral sex tendencies to the max. In addition to encouraging daily oral sex, it includes affirmations to begin enjoying the taste of cum, to want to bring me to orgasm in her mouth, and to try and deep throat me as much as she physically can.

Last week we got some indication that the program had started to work, when she barely avoided having me cum in her mouth, and instead let me shoot it all over her face and tits. I am a gentleman -- I let her know when I'm about to blow, and let her choose where it goes.. because hey, at least I got the BJ, right? :D

So tonight, I warned her, told her it was coming... and she stroked me faster, doubled down on the oral suction and tongue play, and I blew a massive load into her mouth. She couldn't help but swallow some of it, I think, but she let most of it dribble from her lips and gave me a big old smile, "How'd you like that?" she asked me.

"I loved it!" I nearly shouted. It truly was fantastic. And that's the best part... She was asking how I liked it, because as far as she knows, this is a new trick she's taught herself to try and please me. Little does she know that I'm telling her over and over and over every night all night that that is EXACTLY what she needs to do.

Part of me wants to continue Program 2 until she truly swallows it all and makes a show of it, but for now, I am very happy with the success of this program. I'm ready to start Program 3. I made the initial MP3 for it tonight, and will rotate it in... Starting tonight, it will play every other 10 minutes (every file is 10 minutes long). In between I will continue rotating either the Advanced Oral Sex (Program 1, which got her to giving oral sex almost every time we have sex), Oral Sex Mastery (the one I've been focusing her with these last two weeks), and the Weight Loss and Personal Success ones she knows (and approves of) us playing.




Wednesday, June 10, 2015

Defining Specific Subliminal Training Areas for Your Wife

I receive a lot of emails (thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com) from men asking how they can train their wives to do specific sexual acts, or behave in certain ways. Let's be honest here, I'm still just learning myself, so I don't have a lot of answers yet, but together, maybe we can solve all these riddles.

So let's start with categorizing what we want done, what behaviors and actions we want from our ideal wife. Once we have the list put together, I can start building subliminal CDs to test effectiveness.

When you're putting your own list together, be sure to evaluate where your wife currently stands on each item... The more against a particular thing she is, the longer it might take for her to respond.

Here's the list I have for my wife currently:

Behavior/ActionOriginal AttitudeSubliminal FileCurrent AttitudeDays to Change
Oral SexOnly done on rare occasions -- once a month at bestAdvanced Oral SexGives multiple blowjobs a week. Initiates other sexual activity with blow jobs14 days
Deep throat/Cum in mouthNever. Hates taste of comeOral Sex MasterySome progress... tries deep throating. Let me shoot on face last week.10 days so far
Watch Porn With MeNever. Sometimes watches porn by herselfAdvanced Porn Viewing--Have not started this yet0 days

My current plan, based on the success of the first two phases so far, is to continue on program 2 until she not only allows me to cum in her mouth -- but does it multiple times a week. Then I'll put her on program 3. I'll also come up with what Program 4 will be too... I think Program 3 will be a short training period.


What you should also do, is find a non-sexual activity/behavior that your wife wants to accomplish: lose weight, exercise more, become more financially responsible... whatever! Because the way to get her mind to change about the items on this list, is through that item on her list. It's win/win for both of you!

Let me know what your lists look like! Drop me an email or leave comments below Maybe we can put together an entire matrix of what the perfect wife should be!









Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Be Prepared for Success

Today, I came out of the bathroom, and was greeted by my wife sitting on the side of the bed. She drew me close, pulled my pants down and quickly gobbled my cock into her mouth! Unfortunately
I was still dribbling a little urine from having just peed.

That turned her off pretty quickly, but she still wanted me. She grabbed a bottle of lube and our favorite male-sex toy, and proceeded to milk me dry with the Fleshlight, which is always a satisfying orgasm when she does it (never have understood that. I hated the Fleshlight as a solo device, but when she's using it to force an orgasm out of me, it's amazing!).

Let that be a lesson for you all, though. You want to make sure that you're ready and in the best position to encourage and promote the behaviors in her you're trying to establish. No matter how much craving for your cock in her mouth you give a woman, if she starts the job and you're nasty, stinky, haven't washed... whatever!... you're going to make your job that much harder.

In the future I need to make sure I get a full pipe-clean, so-to-speak, after urinating, to ensure nothing but sweet, tasty cock for her lips to suck on!

News:

I am working on a small website and electronic shopping cart so I can sell the subliminals I've been working on. The only products I will sell are ones I've personally tested and can vouch as to their effectiveness. So far, that's just the oral sex tape.

And that's why I need you! What should I try next on my wife? What would you like to see done to your wife that I need to try on mine first? Some early front runners are swinging and anal. Let me know in the comments below!



Monday, June 8, 2015

The Secret to Subliminal Success

I think I've found it.

First -- an apology, not that anyone really cares. I got really discouraged by the drop-off in response from the wife the first time I tried this, and keeping this blog up and in secret was taking a toll on my time, which is no real excuse of course, but is just what happened.

Then something kind of miraculous happened.

See, I believe that subliminals work. There's too much potential for it to be entirely placebo, right? So what was I doing wrong? Why did my wife respond sometimes to it, othertimes not, and to some things not at all?

I gave up. Frustrated, I just... stopped even trying. I got a new job and moved to Seattle. That didn't pan out, so I moved back home. While looking for a new job, I found an old CD that I used to listen for myself to. It was called "Personal Success."

This wasn't one of the silent subliminals though. It had a soothing -- but annoying -- ocean waves background. Not too bad, I suppose. I started playing it at night in our bedroom -- I don't like having to wear headphones, so I set speakers up on my nightstand, and let it play all night.

The wife asked me about it, and I told her. "It will help keep me in the right mindset to get the best possible job for me." She asked me how it worked. "There's just a voice in there saying things like "Do your best. You're a successful person. Things will turn out for the best, that sort of stuff." Then she asked if it would work for her.

"I honestly don't know," I said. "But I go to bed every night believing that the voice in the radio has my best interests in mind, and that I trust and accept his advice."

And that's when the first tumbler in the lock around success opened.

We started listening to the file together, and to her credit, my wife let the file play every night. I got a fantastic new job -- the best one I've ever had. She started making jellies and jams for the first time as fruit started coming to harvest -- something she's never done before. We acknowledged that maybe subliminals work, and I knew I had to try again.

So this time, I added just one set of affirmations to the success loop. Simple, direct, to the point: affirmations reminding her of how much she loved oral sex. I started letting the file play all day -- she goes into the bedroom various times during the day, it wouldn't hurt to get a few extra loops in during the day, right?

That night we had sex the way we usually (always?) have: some mutual masturbation and fooling around, and then good ole fucking until she comes, with me following shortly after. I said goodnight, turned the ocean sounds up just a little higher for luck, and went to sleep...

For a week, nothing. I wanted to fume, but instead, I just accepted that regular blow jobs just weren't in the cards for me, no matter how much I wanted them. She had a hospital stay planned in a week. Maybe we'd try something when she got back from her surgery. Maybe I'd just go back to feeling lucky I even got the missionary position or a hand-job every now and then.

On the seventh night, the second tumbler fell into place.

She woke me up on day eight with fantastic, wet, sloppy oral that erupted like a geyser when I finally blew. She smiled the whole time, naughty look in her eye, like she was doing something daring and sexy. My orgasm was so strong, I laughed out loud at the shot. If nothing else ever happened, that one wake-up call was so worth it. Wow!

The next day, I came home from work, and she pulled me into the bedroom, dragged me to the bed, and said she'd been craving my big hard cock all day. She bore down on me and sucked me for all she was worth -- and I came again, almost as hard as the day before. Two days in a row?

That night, at midnight, she got me off again, starting with her mouth, and then transferring to her hand when her mouth got tired (sorry, I'm too old to get off three times in two days without some recuperation time!).

I chalked up program #1 as an utter success.

She spent 12 days in the hospital, and the second she was home, she was back in bed, in our bedroom, with program #1 playing still. Those first two days she gave me fantastic oily handjobs -- partly, I think, because I'd mentioned wanted a full-body happy-ending erotic massage for Father's Day, and she was trying to prove she could provide it!

Then a few days later, she started me off with a handjob, and then took me into her mouth like a pro. I am a gentleman -- I always tell her when I'm about to blow, but this time she hesitated. She almost let me come in her mouth. Instead, it shot all over her face and her tits and was the sexiest thing I'd ever seen her do!

We had three more blow jobs, a couple of hand jobs, and one bout of full-on intercourse that week. In the last 10 days I've had oral sex from the wife 6 times... which is more than any 6-month period I'd ever had with her in the last five years.

The tumblers are open, the secret to Subliminal Success is finally mine!

I want to share what I've learned with you. Do you want to try it on your wife? Let's talk!







Friday, June 5, 2015

We're back!

Hi guys!

It's been TOO long.

I kinda gave up on the subliminal training for a while... The results were lackluster. Not what I'd expected. Then we moved to Seattle, and back to Portland, had another kid... You know how it is. Life gets in the way!

Well, at the beginning of May, I got a burr up my ass to try one last time. I'm heading out camping now, but Monday morning, you're going to hear about my *extraordinarily successful* second attempt at training my wife, and then I'm going to do what I can to start helping all of you with yours.

I'll see you on Monday!


TWT