All Mystery Files Are Up In The Store

Finally got Touch and Be Touched up in the store (http://subliminalwifetraining.com). So you can get Intro to Sex Toys, Intro to Hypnosis, Intro to Bondage, Dreamslut, and Touch and try your own experiment on your wife if you want. Turns out I was using Dreamslut on my wife and in the end, she admitted to having sexy, explicit dreams and waking needing to act on them!

I'm working on a new batch of files now, and would love to get your feedback on them. Many of these have been suggested by you guys anyway, so I know you've got opinions about them! When I get 5 of them ready, I'll play the subliminal training game with the wife again. She's become really excited by how well they work, and has offered to help me write one -- adding more insights from how her mind works, so we can script it to be more effective for women!

Here are the five scripts (plus one bonus one) I'm writing scripts for now. What do you think? Should I focus on one over the other, or on a different topic altogether?

Sexy Body Image: for women who struggle with accepting their beauty and sexuality. A lot of readers write that their wives are so unhappy with how they look or their weight, or the shape of their body that having sex is uncomfortable, because it reminds them of these issues. This file would help her accept herself for who she is, discover her inner (and outer!) beauty, and remind her of how much you love and lust for her and how desirable she truly is, learning to love and lust and desire her own pleasure more and more every day.

Dress for Sexsess: shorter skirts, barer midriffs, pushup bras, displayed cleavage, sexy lingerie. We want our wives to wear them. This file will help her want to wear them too.

Advanced Dreamslut: even more nocturnal training. You think she's a beast in bed now? Her mind is going to be under orgasmic bombardment all night long, and that can only lead to even more sex when she wakes up.

Intro to Submission: a partner product for Intro to Bondage. IBO doesn't have a lot of D/S tones. This file is all about being submissive, submitting to her husband, and setting a mindset of service-minded pleasure for the wife, not only in the bedroom, but in the relationship as a whole.

Focus - Waxing: Based on a reader suggestion. This is a file that focuses the wife's attention on one thing, and one thing only: being hairless from the neck down.


What do you guys think? Which one should I try on the wife? Which one would you most like to try on your wife? Send me emails to thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com. I answer every email personally.

Intro to Bondage

Our Intro to Bondage file dropped today. It should help drive a curiosity and desire to try being tied up into your wife. This is one my wife refused to try. She has some very active mental blocks against being submissive, and so it was way off the table. No worries. My buddy said his wife loved the 50 Shades of Gray books, and took all her girlfriends to see the movie. So he was happy to help test. According to him, she sheepishly asked him if he'd put a blindfold on her just four days later, and was so overwhelmed with how intense sex with sensory deprivation can be, eagerly accepted rope play the next night!

Intro to Bondage is for women who've never tried rope or deprivation play, and as such is focused on the physical aspects of the act. There are no strong D/S themes in this file. That comes in the second file in this series, Advanced Bondage, which incorporates strong submission affirmations.

Regularly $19.99, Intro to Bondage is on sale for $9.99 this week. This first version of the set comes with the Love to Exercise bonus affirmations. You can get it at the SubliminalWifeTraining.com store.

As part of a new feature on the blog (something that gets asked ALL THE TIME!), here are the affirmations for Intro to Bondage.

I find myself thinking about being tied up in bed.
I am starting to fantasize about being blindfolded during sex.
I will enjoy having sex when I am tied up.
I am becoming aroused at the thought of bondage.
I get horny when I think about my husband tying me up for sex.
My pussy gets wet when I think about being blindfolded during sex.
It is easy to let go of my inhibitions when I am tied up.
It is very arousing to be tied up.
I get wet when my husband handcuffs me.
I wonder how arousing it is to be tied up during sex.
I am going to enjoy being tied up for sex.
I will ask my husband to tie my hands to the bed tonight.
I am excited about the possibility of being blindfolded during sex.
I have powerful orgasms when I am tied up during sex.
My nipples get super sensitive when I am blindfolded.
It is very easy for me to orgasm when I am tied up and blindfolded.
I have always wondered what it would be like to be tied up like in 50 Shades of Gray.
I am fantasizing about being tied down during sex.
I will read books about bondage.
Books about bondage fascinate me.
I imagine I am the heroine when I read bondage stories.
I want to be tied up in bed.
I want my husband to tie me up for sex.
I will ask my husband to tie me up for sex.
I am going to look for a bondage kit to buy online.
I am going to buy a bondage kit online.
I have always wanted to buy bondage kits.
My pussy is getting wetter and wetter.
Wearing a blindfold will make my pussy drip.
Wearing a blindfold makes sex 100% better.
I always orgasm when I am fucked with a blindfold on.
I am curious about bondage.
I want to explore bondage with my husband.
I want my husband to put me in bondage.
I am fantasizing about my husband fucking me while I am tied up.
I am masturbating about being fucked by my husband while tied up.
I will orgasm when my husband fucks me while I am tied up.
Bondage is a fun, natural part of a healthy sex life.
I love watching movies about bondage, like 50 Shades of Gray.
I hope my husband ties me up tonight.
I am thinking about my husband tying me up.
My pussy will get so wet when I am tied up.
I am going to love being tied up by my husband.
Being tied up and blindfolded is sexy.
I will ask my husband to tie me up and blindfold me.
I am going to buy a blindfold.
I will wear a blindfold to bed.
I want to be tied up during sex more and more.

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Six: SUCCESS!

She woke me up working my cock with her hands and mouth. I was so hard, and it wasn't difficult to see why. She teased my cock, slowly sucking the head into her mouth, swirling her tongue around it, then pulling the rest of the shaft in, forcing me deeper, her hands stroking and cupping my balls as she slowly took it all the way in, and then just as slowly out.

"Oh my God," I think were the first words I said -- always a better start than "Good morning."

"I dreamt about you last night," she said. "I dreamt that you standing over me, commanding me to masturbate. It was cold and clinical -- not even erotic. But it was so compelling, I had to do it. I had to masturbate. And the feeling was so intense it woke me up."

"Wow!" I said. "Really?"

She didn't say anything for a minute. Her mouth was on my cock again. It was... exquisite. She is amazing with her mouth.

"When I woke up, I realized how wet and horny I am. I need your cock. Right now. Please."

She never says please.

Needless to say, the rest of the morning was a fantastic lovemaking session, and I am considering the Dreamslut file -- the mystery subliminal I was training her with -- a resounding success.

She reports that even though it's hard to believe, she has to admit the file and its training must have caused this. She's never had this vivid of an erotic dream before -- and never been woken up due to a dream's intensity. While she's woken up wet and horny before (my files do this a lot! :D) the fact that it was all caused by her dream-state really convinced her of the file's efficacy.

The best part? She was so impressed with how well this worked on her, she's already decided she wants to try another one. I'm going to go into the research lab this week and come up with some ideas to try on her. You guys have any ideas? Some sort of kink or slutty/sex activity you wish your wife did? Let me know! You can always email me @ thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Five

The wife admitted she was feeling hornier today. She's not sure if it's because of the subliminals though. She doesn't think so, but admits that it certainly could be. I take that as a good sign. Her mind is starting to weaken to the training, and soon she'll be accepting all the affirmations. Soon, we'll know exactly which mystery subliminal I've given her! (Insert evil scientist cackle here)

We have our first product recall:

If you bought Dreamslut with Ocean Sounds, and you're unhappy with the sound level, PLEASE email me at thesubliminalwifetrainer@gmail.com with your order number, and I'll send you a newly remastered version that has ocean levels at the same volume as all our other files. I was experimenting with a quieter sound for sleep/dream purposes, and forgot to consider that folks would be streaming this in with other files. D'oh!

More great success stories rolling in today. Also, a question was asked about our privacy policy. I will put this on the store soon, but in case anyone wanted to know, this is our specific policy:

In a nutshell, though, my privacy policy is this:

My goal is to help maintain full anonymity for all customers. To that end, I will never email you, unless you add yourself to the site's mailing list -- in which case, WordPress automatically sends emails when there's a new product announcement.

I do not care where anyone lives... the WooCommerce shopping cart will ask for an address when you create an account: make up a fake one. I don't care. I won't ever look at it, no one else will ever see it.

I do not have access to any of your financial information. My payment processor is PayPal. When you make a transaction, you are redirected to Paypal's site, where the transaction is handled securely, and I never see any of it except a receipt from PayPal saying "he's paid, send him his files."

Your privacy is a top concern. I would except the same from any similar site I shopped from.

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Four

Wife still reports no change in behavior or mindset. She doesn't feel like the file is doing anything.

Last night, as I passed her in the bedroom, she grabbed at me, ripped my pants off, and started sucking my cock. I was surprised at the aggressiveness of her desire, and got off entirely too quickly. :/ (Damn I hate getting old!) Even with as much awesome sex as we have now, she still has the ability to surprise me and make me crazy and cumming like a virgin.

So, for the record, the mystery subliminal may be boosting her arousal and desire levels, but the specific "signs of proof" that I can use to confirm it is working at 100% are not there yet. We're doing this for another week, though, so I will let you know as we go.


Sometimes, small steps are all you can take. Every step forward is a step closer to sexual nirvana, I always say. Like customer EK, who writes, "I must say she has completely stopped complaining about how often I want sex.  I can lay my hands, touch and caress and I don't get pushed away anymore.  Awesome."

I must say she has completely stopped complaining about how often I want sex.  I can lay my hands, touch and caress and I don't get pushed away anymore.  Awesome.

The key, as always, is exposure. The more you expose her to her training, the stronger the training will be. Good luck, and happy training!

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Three

Today was a bit of a wash. We woke up late, no thanks to this stupid iPhone. God damn I hate the iPhone. Gah! Anyway, she later confided she'd woken up horny and was as disappointed as I was that we didn't have any time. Got the kids to school, got me to work, and when I got home, I found out how true her statement had been. Fresh browser history... and she'd been watching porn!

I have not yet seen full manifestation of the mystery subliminal's affirmations yet, though. Increased horniness and some porn tendencies are built into all of the new files. I need to see some specific behavioral changes before I can say it's working for sure.

This weekend I want to get some more files online. We've got the other files in the Mystery pile ready to go, just need the recording time. Look for Intro to Bondage, Intro to Hypnosis, and Touch, coming soon!

Had a great testimonial this afternoon from one customer:

I catch her sometimes masturbating at night when she's sleeping. She'll wake up and accuse me when it was her all the time. I then assure her that I'm okay with it. I put the sweet dream (Dreamslut) last night. She dreamt that I made her cum with a dildo. Mostly the desire to exercise, create wealth, and lose weight have been dominant. -- GF

How has your progress been coming?

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day Two

Day Two.

She does not report feeling any different. As far as she can tell, she's just listening to ocean waves. She tried listening for voices, but could not hear any.

For my part, I couldn't help but notice the soft, rhythmic urgency of her masturbating last night. It woke me up, just enough that I could roll slightly and admire her body as she worked herself into a slow, languid orgasm. I couldn't actually tell if she was awake or asleep, but the slow pace -- slower than normal -- made me think she might have been asleep, or very sleepy. Clearly, though, she is experiencing the carnal desire that was expected.

In the morning, she came and cuddled with me, pressing her body against me, and cooing as I stroked her back and hair. Sadly, we had slept in, so I had to make the call not to bring our desire to fruition. But I think that just means a much more enjoyable evening tonight.

I added Intro to Sex Toys last night to the store. Fun file that will lead to a lifetime love of her sticking crazy things into her hoohah. :p

Like all Intro files, it's regularly $19.99, on sale this week for $9.99.


 

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day One

Day one:

I talked to her in the morning to get a sense of how she was feeling. She said she didn't feel any different. As far as she can tell, nothing has changed.

From my perspective, I woke up horny as hell, because I was hoping she would wake up horny as hell too. It's an unfortunate side effect of making sex-inducing products. You end up having an insatiable desire for fantastic sex all the time.

Lucky for me, my wife has been well trained. She felt my cock growing against her side, and went down to take care of it for me. If anyone ever asks what the best product I ever made was, I'll say the Oral Sex line. Getting head whenever you need it, without asking for it, is the greatest gift a man can ever ask for.

We released the Dream Slut file on the store last night. It's regularly $19.99, but as with all the files, on sale during the first week, 50% off, making it just $9.99 until the 14th.

Affirmations for Dream Slut:

I am dreaming about having sex with my husband.
I am aroused.
My dreams are sexy. I always have sexy dreams.
I am open to having sexy dreams.
My imagination wanders toward sexy, steamy dreams.
I will dream about having sex with my husband.
My dreams are full of hot, sexy images.
My dreams arouse me.
I am so horny.
My dreams make me horny.
I always remember my sexy dreams.
I am becoming more and more aroused in my dreams.
My sexy dreams feel real.
I can feel everything I dream.
My dreams are real.
What I feel in my dreams I feel in reality.
My hands are wandering over my body.
I can feel my husband slide his cock into my wet pussy in my dreams.
I love how my husband's cock feels in my dreams.
My dreams excite me.
My dreams are always sexy.
It is so easy to orgasm in my dreams.
I am going to wake up horny.
I will wake up needing sexy.
My wet, aching pussy needs to be fucked.
I love fucking my husband in my dreams.
My hands play with my pussy in my dreams.
I can masturbate in my sleep.
I will masturbate in my sleep tonight.
Tonight I will dream about having sex with my husband.
I will wake up needing sex.
I wake up every morning aroused.
I always wake up from my dreams needing to fuck.
I am going to wake up and fuck my husband right now.
My dreams are always about sex.
I always remember my dreams.
I dream about my husband sucking my nipples.
My fingers are pinching my nipples.
I am dreaming about my husband sucking my nipples.
I dream about my husband fingering my wet pussy.
My fingers are playing with my clit.
I am dreaming about my husband stroking my clit.
I always dream about my husband fucking my wet pussy with his big hard cock.
My fingers are sliding into my wet pussy.
I am dreaming about my husband fucking my pussy.
I am becoming more and more aroused.
I am masturbating in my sleep.
It is natural to masturbate in your sleep.
It feels so good to orgasm in my dreams.
I always orgasm in my dreams.
I love bringing myself to orgasm in my dreams.
My hands are bringing me to orgasm right now.
I need to come right now!
I need to be fucked more and more.
I need to fuck my husband right now.
I feel so good when I dream about sex.
I always enjoy my sexy dreams.
I masturbate my wet pussy in my sleep.
I will touch my wet pussy now.
I enjoy sleeping naked for my husband.
I will remove my panties now.
I am removing my panties in my sleep.
I am always horny when I wake up.
My pussy is always wet when I wake up.
I am horny right now.
Orgasms at night help me relax.
Orgasms at night help me sleep.
Orgasms in the middle of the night help me fall back asleep.
I need an orgasm every night.
I want to orgasm right now.
I am dreaming about my husband giving me an orgasm right now.
I will orgasm right now.
My orgasms last a long time.
My orgasms are getting louder and stronger.
I enjoy orgasms.
I will have multiple orgasms.
It is easy to orgasm.
I love orgasms.
I have orgasms in my dreams.
I dream of fucking my husband.
I like dreaming of fucking my. husband.
I dream about fucking my husband.
When I wake up I need an orgasm.
Orgasms in the morning give me energy for the whole day.

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, T-minus-1

In the middle of recording all the subliminal files. This is so there's no chance of the wife being able to guess which one she's being trained with. Surprisingly to me, she did not reject any of the concepts. So she is open and willing to accept whichever file comes. :D

Here's how it's going to work. Tonight we are going to start playing the random file I've picked for her. In the morning, I'll talk to her about how she's feeling. What's her mood? Does she feel like she's changing at all? Does she have any new impulses she doesn't recognize? In addition to her own report, I'll include a report of actions and behaviors I'm seeing in her that maybe she doesn't see herself.

The goal of this experiment is to see first hand -- from the wife's point of view -- what being subliminally trained with my files looks like and feels like. Maybe it will be of use so you can translate how my wife reacts in comparison to what you see in your wife.

All of the files we're creating for the experiment will be in the store in the next few days, so if you want to try a similar experiment with your wife, you'll be able to!

Training the Wife, Mystery Subliminal, Day T-minus-2

I talked to the wife last night, and explained what I wanted to do. She was intrigued, and said she'd be willing to try it. She wanted to know what the training topic would be, and we made a compromise here. We need the topic to be unknown to the subject to make sure that we are getting a true sense of what it will be like for any wife who begins a new training regimen. But, I've also agreed that I will not train her without permission, and she gets to approve any new sessions we try.

So the compromise is this: I gave her a list of five new sessions I'm working on, and I will give her the affirmations in each, so she can make sure she doesn't have any hard stops against any of them. Then, I'll pick one of them at random, and start training her with that. Each morning she'll report any changes in she feels sexually, or if she's been thinking about or acting on any new impulses. The bonus affirmation for all of them will be the "lose weight now" because we've been doing really well with it and want to keep losing weight.

 After two weeks, we'll call the end of the experiment, and see what the final results are.


The five possible scripts are:


Intro to Bondage -- this would be a perfect file for anyone whose wife has read and enjoyed the 50 Shades books. Creates a curiosity and desire to be tied up and blindfolded.

Intro to Sex Toys -- creates a curiosity and desire to use sex toys -- both on herself and on her husband (I'm a huge fan of the Fleshlight, and always encourage couples to get one).

Touch -- based on suggestions from my readers. Creates an intense desire to be touched by her husband, and increased sensitivity to being stroked and caressed all over her body. Some women don't like being touched. She will after this one.

Intro to Hypnosis - have you ever wanted to try erotic hypnosis on your wife? This file will prime her for it. Make her more susceptible to trance, and more open to suggestion, and curious about going under.

Dreamslut - every night, your wife will dream about having crazy, wild sex with you. She'll feel like it's really happening. She might start masturbating in her sleep. She'll probably wake up horny as all hell and need to be satisfied. Good thing you'll be there to meet her needs!

Which one of these do you think I should try on her? Which one would you want to try on your wife? Let me know! Writing scripts today, recording tomorrow, and training begins on Monday!

Labor Day Plans: A New Training Regimen

One of the best benefits I've found in subliminally training my wife is that I can point out behaviors she never did before, and say "I caused that." It's a huge confidence builder, to know you've helped make your relationship stronger while at the same time making your sex life better.

I have an idea for a new training file that I think would be well-received by the community. Per the rules we established when I came clean with her, though, I need to ask her if she'll be willing to submit to the training. If she says yes, I'll have another thing I'll be able to look back on with pride, because this is something she's never done, but once expressed a small amount of interest in.

So, if that goes through, we're going to start training anew. And, with her assistance, I'm going to try and document how her mind is changing. It may prove very insightful, so as she shares what she's experiencing, we might get an understanding of what's happening with your wives as they process their training.

Next week, after Labor Day, I'm going to devote a blog page a day to each of the files we have online now. It will include the full affirmation script for each one too. I get a lot of folks who ask for those, so that might be of use to a lot of people.

What are your plans for the weekend? Labor Day's supposed to be a day of not working, but my day job is killing me and I'll be using this weekend to catch up. Fortunately, I've got someone keeping me sexed up and happy, and that goes a long way toward relieving stress, let me tell you what!

Happy training! As always, please let me know how you're doing with your own training. Anyone who leaves a review on the store site for any product they've bought gets a 50% off coupon toward their next purchase!

Custom Subliminal Ordering is Now Open

Well, a lot of folks have asked for this,  now it’s here! I will slave away and make a custom subliminal file that is catered to your specific desire or kink. Want your wife to start becoming interested in bondage? Maybe a foot fetish? Perhaps you just want her to sleep naked every night. With the new custom subliminal line we will put whatever perverted ideas you have straight into your wife’s subconscious.

Added bonus: for a little bit extra, we’ll even put your own voice right into her head. Just send an MP3 with whatever message you want, and we’ll make sure it gets in there.

The custom subliminal takes 3-5 days to produce once ordered… It’s not exactly the kind of thing you can rush if you want it done right. After ordering, send us the specific ideas or affirmations you want added. It’s always better to be as specific as possible — don’t scatter your ideas all over, or you’ll see significantly less response.

In addition, choose which basic affirmation you want included (of our general categories of affirmations), and we’ll add those as well — for free!

Custom sexual subliminal training is available now. Why wait? Come get inside your wife’s head!